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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 16:55 PM   1
lauralou25
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just need to let it all out...


im sorry but im sooooo fed up i really am!!! been ttc for 17 months now ive had 3 mcs countless blood tests and a trans vaginal scan ALL CLEAR!! which is good in a way but on the other hand its really getting me down! i used to have a 28 day cycle and for some reason for the last 4 months they have been averaging 50 days and i have no idea at all why the have suddenly gone like this!! consultant wants me to have cd3 bloods again and if they are all clear(which they more than likely will be) he wants to put me on baby asprin!! i really dont know what to do anymore i know i can get pregnant as i have a son who will be 5 soon and i have had the miscarriages i just dont understand why my cycle is doing this!! grrrr i just want the witch to show her face so i can go for my bloods!! everytime i go on fb theres a new person on my friends list whos pregnant or having a baby!! i feel like a failiure like theres something wrong with me!! im really sorry for the rant girls i just dont know what to do anymore any tips to help my cycle??? x



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 16:57 PM   2
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sorry to hear your story... i didnt want to read & run
Wishing you loads of luck xx



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 17:01 PM   3
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Wish I had some tips hun I really do. It's so frustrating, I've never even had a whiff of a bfp

maybe the worry is causing the longer cycles. The lp is usually fairly constant, but stress can be a major factor. I don't know the answer though as I know I can't just 'relax' and stop stressing on command. It's just a really crappy time



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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 17:05 PM   4
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thank you both! i know i am blessed to have a son and i am hes my world but it really gets me down when he says to me he wants a sister and everybody is out there askin me when my nxt one is going to come along and i just shrug and smile maybe soon!! i think im just feeling sorry for myself!! i need to slap myself and get a grip!! x



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 17:09 PM   5
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You definitely don't need to get a grip hun, whether you have 0 or 20 if you are trying for another it's still the same heartache you go through.

I can't imagine how hard it must be to miscarry either. I think I'd rather never get that bfp than to go through that.

Were all on the same journey and if you ever need a rant or a shoulder to cry on, we will always be here!

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Old Dec 12th, 2010, 03:38 AM   6
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thank you i hope you get your bfp soon how long have u been trying? x



 
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Old Dec 12th, 2010, 03:58 AM   7
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It's just over a year now,

gonna take a trip to the docs in January if we have no joy this cycle. I'm not old at 31 but the chances do go down and I had cervical problems when I was younger so I just want to make sure things are ok.

I'm sure we'll get there in the end.

Sticky to all of us

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Old Dec 12th, 2010, 07:43 AM   8
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yep and when u do it will be extra special for you!! ille be looking out for the day you get ure
lots of to you!! x



 
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