TTC#1.Tired of bein tense?Lets pretend we'r NTNP and symptom spot4 fun..how many BFPs

Kays Queen · Feb 3rd, 2011, 01:38 AM

Am starting a new cycle and for now am a bit relaxed cos I know I haven't ovulated yet.
Every month, as soon as I get close to my fertile days the pressure starts to build up.
So I have been thinking and I've decided that am not gonna hope so much this month. I will do all I need to make the beanie stick but am gonna pretend that am expectin results by the next cycle (yeah,yeah, power of positive thinking and all that. But its easy to cross over to 'worrying' when thinking positive and am still seeing BFNs!).
Its not gonna be easy I know and am pretty sure I'l be the first to pee on a stick

However am planning to have fun and laugh thru the real or ridiculous symptoms I spot during my 2ww(funny how that word makes me tense

), that way I won't worry so much.
Anyway I will post my symptoms as they come and see if I can end up wit a BFP!

Kays Queen · Feb 4th, 2011, 01:08 AM

Was at the doctor's yesterday. I will be having an Ultra Sound Scan this weekend to check my ovaries. Will also have a High Vaginal Swab test done next week to be sure that I don't have any infections cos I recently noticed a funny discharge after AF.
I pray my Ovaries are ok.I have been feeling some sharp twinges in my pelvic area.Also started Pregnacare Conception last night so FX'd for good news this month....sorry that should be next month,I really need to stick to the plan

!!!

arpeters · Feb 4th, 2011, 01:14 AM

I think that's a great idea! Trying to pretend that we are NTNP. That will definitely take some of the pressure off. I know that the 2ww just stands for stress and more stress. So, we need to find a way to not focus so hard on it. Less stress will help our chances anyway. Good luck with your scan and swab! Let me know how it goes.

FX'd for our BFP's next month. hehe.

Kays Queen · Feb 4th, 2011, 05:05 AM

I will keep u updated Arpeters. Am on CD 4 today.Officially this is my 6th cycle of TTC.However I had been NTNP for about six months before marriage.
I really thot I would get a BFP last month so I was devastated when the witch came calling. That's why I wanna take it easy cos the best days are just before the end of AF. By then I would have ruled out any possibility of being pregnant and the DPO countdown wouldn't have commenced. What CD are u?

yellowbell · Feb 4th, 2011, 05:53 AM

Hi!
This is a good idea. I also believe in the power of positive thinking although I have to keep on reminding myself about that, lol.

Goodluck to all of us!

Kays Queen · Feb 5th, 2011, 10:05 AM

Aaaaarrrrggggghhhh!!!
Why am I seeing pregnant single girls everywhere?
To think that I never really made an effort to ttc all thru the 4yrs I and DB (now DH) were together. If only I hadn't insisted on safe sex den

Pielette · Feb 5th, 2011, 10:14 AM

Loving this idea ladies!
I'm trying not to obsess but I'm terrible. The past couple of days I've been feeling weird and light-headed - as a teacher I'm on my feet all day so it hasn't been helpful! Plus I'm shattered, just had a three hour nap

But as for pregnant single girls - lately I think I've come to accept that, because I know just how lucky my baby will be when s/he comes; parents who love him/her very much, and love each other very much, are financially stable and can give him/her everything they need. I think that should be celebrated on this forum, cos we're all in that position! We've made sure that we're ready

Natsby · Feb 5th, 2011, 12:02 PM

Good idea, last time I got a BFP it was the month when I had stopped being so careful. I hadn´t drunk a drop of alcohol in 8 months or tea, and was always thinking that maybe I was pregnant during 2ww. SO that month I chillled out had a wee drinky and wham bam BFP. Unfortunately it didn´t end well and I´m back again, but just wanted to say I think it works.
Good luck!

Kays Queen · Feb 6th, 2011, 09:05 AM

Hi Pielette its good to know that we are cycling around the same time.

Kays Queen · Feb 6th, 2011, 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Pielette

Loving this idea ladies!
I'm trying not to obsess but I'm terrible. The past couple of days I've been feeling weird and light-headed - as a teacher I'm on my feet all day so it hasn't been helpful! Plus I'm shattered, just had a three hour nap

But as for pregnant single girls - lately I think I've come to accept that, because I know just how lucky my baby will be when s/he comes; parents who love him/her very much, and love each other very much, are financially stable and can give him/her everything they need. I think that should be celebrated on this forum, cos we're all in that position! We've made sure that we're ready

Neva thot of it that way but u know what,u are so very right? I need to look on the bright side.I waited for a good reason and am not gonna let myself regret that anymore. Thanks for the insight and FX'd for us all.

Feb 3rd, 2011, 01:38 AM	#1
Kays Queen Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 80	TTC#1.Tired of bein tense?Lets pretend we'r NTNP and symptom spot4 fun..how many BFPs Am starting a new cycle and for now am a bit relaxed cos I know I haven't ovulated yet. Every month, as soon as I get close to my fertile days the pressure starts to build up. So I have been thinking and I've decided that am not gonna hope so much this month. I will do all I need to make the beanie stick but am gonna pretend that am expectin results by the next cycle (yeah,yeah, power of positive thinking and all that. But its easy to cross over to 'worrying' when thinking positive and am still seeing BFNs!). Its not gonna be easy I know and am pretty sure I'l be the first to pee on a stick However am planning to have fun and laugh thru the real or ridiculous symptoms I spot during my 2ww(funny how that word makes me tense ), that way I won't worry so much. Anyway I will post my symptoms as they come and see if I can end up wit a BFP!

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Feb 4th, 2011, 01:08 AM	#2
Kays Queen Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 80	Was at the doctor's yesterday. I will be having an Ultra Sound Scan this weekend to check my ovaries. Will also have a High Vaginal Swab test done next week to be sure that I don't have any infections cos I recently noticed a funny discharge after AF. I pray my Ovaries are ok.I have been feeling some sharp twinges in my pelvic area.Also started Pregnacare Conception last night so FX'd for good news this month....sorry that should be next month,I really need to stick to the plan !!!

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Feb 4th, 2011, 01:14 AM	#3
arpeters Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Carson City, NV Posts: 1,070	I think that's a great idea! Trying to pretend that we are NTNP. That will definitely take some of the pressure off. I know that the 2ww just stands for stress and more stress. So, we need to find a way to not focus so hard on it. Less stress will help our chances anyway. Good luck with your scan and swab! Let me know how it goes. FX'd for our BFP's next month. hehe.

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Feb 4th, 2011, 05:05 AM	#4
Kays Queen Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 80	I will keep u updated Arpeters. Am on CD 4 today.Officially this is my 6th cycle of TTC.However I had been NTNP for about six months before marriage. I really thot I would get a BFP last month so I was devastated when the witch came calling. That's why I wanna take it easy cos the best days are just before the end of AF. By then I would have ruled out any possibility of being pregnant and the DPO countdown wouldn't have commenced. What CD are u?

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Feb 4th, 2011, 05:53 AM	#5
yellowbell Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Singapore Posts: 791	Hi! This is a good idea. I also believe in the power of positive thinking although I have to keep on reminding myself about that, lol. Goodluck to all of us!

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Feb 5th, 2011, 10:05 AM	#6
Kays Queen Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 80	Aaaaarrrrggggghhhh!!! Why am I seeing pregnant single girls everywhere? To think that I never really made an effort to ttc all thru the 4yrs I and DB (now DH) were together. If only I hadn't insisted on safe sex den

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Feb 5th, 2011, 10:14 AM	#7
Pielette Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Essex Posts: 3,203	Loving this idea ladies! I'm trying not to obsess but I'm terrible. The past couple of days I've been feeling weird and light-headed - as a teacher I'm on my feet all day so it hasn't been helpful! Plus I'm shattered, just had a three hour nap But as for pregnant single girls - lately I think I've come to accept that, because I know just how lucky my baby will be when s/he comes; parents who love him/her very much, and love each other very much, are financially stable and can give him/her everything they need. I think that should be celebrated on this forum, cos we're all in that position! We've made sure that we're ready

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Feb 5th, 2011, 12:02 PM	#8
Natsby Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Spain although I am originally from the UK Posts: 1,309	Good idea, last time I got a BFP it was the month when I had stopped being so careful. I hadn´t drunk a drop of alcohol in 8 months or tea, and was always thinking that maybe I was pregnant during 2ww. SO that month I chillled out had a wee drinky and wham bam BFP. Unfortunately it didn´t end well and I´m back again, but just wanted to say I think it works. Good luck!

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Feb 6th, 2011, 09:05 AM	#9
Kays Queen Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 80	Hi Pielette its good to know that we are cycling around the same time.

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