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Old Mar 27th, 2011, 21:34 PM   11
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i agree not all teenagers but like the ones i described that is what upsets me very much cuz my cousins gf is a great mom...but shes just needs to finish school and focus on her two kids...its harder for her and she yells at her 4 year old for wanting attention i could go on but i think youll understand what i mean



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Old Mar 27th, 2011, 21:34 PM   12
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I havent said anything else?



 
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Old Mar 27th, 2011, 21:36 PM   13
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My bff's sister was 15 when she got pregnant. We all doubted she'd be a good mom. Not cuz she was young but cuz of her selfish ways. Turns out she's a wonderful mom, finished high school, went to college and works her butt off. I don't think it has anything to do with age. I do agree that younger girls do tend to get pregnant a lot easier than us cuz we're older.



 
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Old Mar 27th, 2011, 21:37 PM   14
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sarina53172- you get me. As far as your cousin's g/f is concerned....eww and SHAME ON HER! That also goes for your sister's friend.

UnsureMom- I guess I should be more clear- I was talking about the ones who just don't care and don't be safe...but yes, there are those girls who do EVERYTHING and still end up pregnant. I feel bad for those ones, but if fate wills it- then I guess that was meant to be.

Sometimes, children are the only way to calm the lil' bad-asses down. There are a few girls I went to school with that got pregnant because all they did was drink, smoke weed, and have unprotected sex with either random guys or whoever it was they were banging that week....and when they had them, they completely changed. (but not THAT much- none of them went to college or anything- they just stopped doing stupid shit)



 
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Old Mar 27th, 2011, 21:38 PM   15
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....I've gotta feeling...this post is gonna get heated............... (walking away quickly......lol)



 
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Old Mar 27th, 2011, 21:39 PM   16
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Damnit guys! You're posting while I'm posting!! So I'm trying to catch up, I swear!

Also- I am pro-choice. If you want to abort, thats on you, but its not MY choice. I could NEVER do that. Especially since the universe seems to know whats right- if I'm not meant for that particular child, it will leave me through mc (thats what happened last time- my pregnancy and mc was my wake up call to straighten up AND that my ex was a total douche)



 
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Old Mar 27th, 2011, 21:40 PM   17
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Haha, we're all fast typers!!



 
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Old Mar 27th, 2011, 21:44 PM   18
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I've noticed. I just want you guys to know I'm not trying to take any cheap shots at anyone personally, but its just how I feel about teenage pregnancies. I know that sometimes, teenagers can raise great children, but they shouldn't be raising them in the first place.

Your childhood is meant to be enjoyed and meant for you to do stupid crap- not go and have a kid, ruin your childhood, and possibly deprive your child of the full love and support you could give them if you weren't a young, dumb kid yourself (with a job, a home, and a way of transportation- you need to depend on yourself before you should be having others depend on you!)

I guess I was being kind of mean before. Sorry. (Thats the bipolar in me!)



 
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Old Mar 27th, 2011, 21:47 PM   19
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Nah, I feel you. I for one didn't take anything personal here. I knew what you meant.

Everyone has their opinions and everyone has their down time. Right now this is your down time and it's understandable. I don't feel you tried to point out anyone in this thread. I just know how heated discussions like this can get, especially in forums. But this has been a great place, a place that we've all been able to express ourselves. There's nothing wrong with you expressing your thoughts on teenage pregnancy. You did make it clear you weren't talking about 17 years old and up.



 
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Old Mar 27th, 2011, 21:50 PM   20
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Also, I'd like to point out something. When I was 17, and pregnant...even though my mother was ashamed (you know...she was about 5 months preggo when I found out I was pregnant), she was very gracious about it.

She even offered to adopt my child and take care of him (it was a boy, I know it was) until I was financially able. How much more awesome could a mother be? I love my Mom! (I told her no, because, "I was responsible enough to have sex, so I will take care of the end result. You didn't have sex with him and get pregnant, I did. I will take care of my child.")



 
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