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Old May 9th, 2011, 21:23 PM   1
whatdamatter
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Sex? Whats that?


Okay, so we've been ttc for 3 weeks. yeah, thats it. I had a feeling this day would come and I think it has. David is all for TTC. He can't wait just like me but I think he's kinda of getting overwhelmed with it. I'm trying to not be a pest about it and just let the sex come naturally. Well naturally I want it....a lot. Not only because we are TTC but it was like this before, well sort of.... anyways he's kind of backed off from the booty wagon and i've tried to tell myself its because he's so sleepy after working two jobs but i cant seem to shake the feeling that he's not really into this anymore. its only been three weeks. i want this more than anything and i know he does too. come on ladies help me relax a little.



 
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Old May 9th, 2011, 21:35 PM   2
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Yup. They're all about it and then when the pressure's on... they can't handle it. Mine did the same thing. I never thought I'd see the day when I had to beg for sex (and even sometimes get turned down!) but that day has come.
Good luck to you!!



 
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Old May 9th, 2011, 21:41 PM   3
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(Hiya...just popped over from NTNP by mistake, but saw your post and didn't want to R&R)

"booty wagon"...very funny..made my night.

As one who is just NTNP, I would say, don't mention it, just be cool and see if that helps him think the pressure's off. Or, maybe even try letting him know when your fertile times have passed and you just want to BD. He may feel like you really just want him, not the eggy fertilized and he may get more into it. Then don't tell him when you're counting again...my DH usually forgets my schedule within a few days. Very easy to trip him up. LOL.



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Old May 9th, 2011, 21:46 PM   4
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yeah, i NEVER EVER thought id have to be the one to say "comeee on, its been 3 days. lets do it. pleaseeeee." I've tried almost everything except answering the door naked. It makes me wanna give up, okay well not really but sorta. Its hard when they wont try as hard as we do.

GirlBlue, glad I made you're night and i'll try to back off. I have been for the past couple of days. A little more attention outta him but noooooo sex yet. Its only been 4 days since our last time but im the kinda girl that likes it at least every other day and he knows that. haha.



 
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Old May 9th, 2011, 21:47 PM   5
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I've been known to lie-- er, stretch the truth-- and say I'm not even fertile or that I don't know if I'm fertile.



 
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Old May 9th, 2011, 21:51 PM   6
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Haha - I am the same way. I probably want it more than he does, and when he's too tired and I try to get some, he's just like, eh, I'm too tired... but not too tired for a BJ.

LOL that will not get me pregnant! Ugh!



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Old May 9th, 2011, 21:54 PM   7
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i think im just going to have to TAKE it.



 
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Old May 9th, 2011, 21:55 PM   8
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I think this problem has come up with a lot of us who are TTC. The girls who have the best luck are the ones who don't share every detail about their cycle, ovulation dates, etc. I really put a lot of pressure on DH this cycle, and it wasn't easy. And YES, I was begging for sex, especially towards the end.

Hopefully, you will get your BFP shortly and this whole TTC mess will be a distant memory.

But, if you have to try again, just remember that there are ways of knowing when you're most fertile and you can always seduce your DH and get him to cooperate when it's most important. Yes, they know what the end goal is, but it's still easier than having a strict schedule or randomly initiating sex and possibly being turned down. I find that it really makes me upset to be rejected! This cycle, DH and I BD four nights in a row, and I think we're covered.



 
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Old May 9th, 2011, 21:56 PM   9
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Haha - I am the same way. I probably want it more than he does, and when he's too tired and I try to get some, he's just like, eh, I'm too tired... but not too tired for a BJ.

LOL that will not get me pregnant! Ugh!
Well, you can start that way and then pull the old switcheroo!



 
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Old May 9th, 2011, 21:57 PM   10
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Haha - I am the same way. I probably want it more than he does, and when he's too tired and I try to get some, he's just like, eh, I'm too tired... but not too tired for a BJ.

LOL that will not get me pregnant! Ugh!



dear god. its like your's and mine are the same. not too sleepy for a bj but i cant hump you. sorry. i worked 16 hours today.

i mean really? ill do the work. all you have to do is lay there and ill handle the rest. UGHHHHHH



 
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