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Old May 11th, 2011, 11:54 AM   1
karla1
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EMERGANCY!!! help needed quickly


hello ladies

just a very quick background (like i said help needed quickly time is of the essance lol)

was on depo for 9 years took 6 months to get a regular cycle back but since then its been like clockwork 30 days peak on CBFM cd17-18 bleed for 4 days all this without fail since august.

now onto what i need help with

today is CD17 and NO PEAK!!!! but just been to the loo and...TMI i had a ton of EWCM so does that mean i am ovulating today? OR does EWCM come before ovulation?

basically my dilemma is me and OH this morning (no EWCM then) saturday, sunday and monday (not yesturday) so now i am wondering

SHOULD WE TONIGHT (or would there be no point as would not be good quality as did it this morning)

i am worried if i leave it until tomorrow morning and i am ovulating NOW and the egg only lives for 12 hrs(ish) then we might miss it but if i am not ovulating till tomorrow and we tonight tomorrow the quality wont be as good when we might need it

AAARRRGGGHHH my head hurts with all this TTC stuff it makes me dizzy

p.s the reason i am so stressed is this is our 15th month TTC and we have said we are putting absoultly everything into this month

thanks in advance ladies



 
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Old May 11th, 2011, 12:00 PM   2
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OMG my OH makes me wee a little laughing sometimes he has just read my thread and all he could say was and i quote

"i am a bit worried the sperm is bigger than the bed "



you have to love them!!!



 
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Old May 11th, 2011, 12:08 PM   3
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I'm no expert but sperm lives for around 72 hours so I hear, so if you bd'd this morning and ovulated later in the day, you should be fine from what I can work out.
Good luck xx



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Old May 11th, 2011, 12:24 PM   4
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First, take a deep breath..... inhale.....exhale Now, with EWCM present the sperm has a very happy healthy environment to live in. BD tonight if you want and again tomorrow night. Assuming your husband has a good sperm count this will not affect your chances at all. It's possible that your monitor missed your peak, but I always get EWCM for several days before I O. So it doesn't mean you are ovulating for sure, just that you are about to. Good Luck!



 
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Old May 11th, 2011, 12:40 PM   5
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Quote:
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First, take a deep breath..... inhale.....exhale Now, with EWCM present the sperm has a very happy healthy environment to live in. BD tonight if you want and again tomorrow night. Assuming your husband has a good sperm count this will not affect your chances at all. It's possible that your monitor missed your peak, but I always get EWCM for several days before I O. So it doesn't mean you are ovulating for sure, just that you are about to. Good Luck!
thanks i think it was the fact my CBFM did do what i was expecting that has through me and now panic has set in lol TTC really does do funny things to a once rational brain



 
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Old May 11th, 2011, 12:46 PM   6
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Here here, good advice. Sounds like the ewcm is a good waiting ground for the swimmers so even if u don't do it tonight you'll be covered. Did u watch inside the human body BBC 1 last Thursday? It was very helpful in describing conception. Iplayer it tonight and see how u feel.



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Old May 11th, 2011, 12:52 PM   7
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yeah watched it and that is kinda what has got me worried they were saying the EWCM provides the "ladder" up the cervix so if there was none there for the swimmers this morning surely there was nowhere safe for them to lie in wait as they would not have been able to get up the cervix into the uteras



 
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Old May 11th, 2011, 12:59 PM   8
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If only we could see inside our own bodies. It's the speculation that drives us all crazy. My book says peek in ewcm a day before, during and day after.



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Old May 11th, 2011, 13:24 PM   9
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Hi Karla,

sorry not really anything to add apart from fingers crossed for you and you made me laugh with your comment- thanks



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Old May 11th, 2011, 13:28 PM   10
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thanks my OH does come out with some silly comments sometimes lol x



 
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