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Old Jul 29th, 2011, 09:34 AM   1
TryinFor1
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feeling depressed today..6dpo


Hey ladies,

so according to my DR I ovulated last saturday after being off of birth control since June 12 so today would make me 6dpo if he is right.

I feel really terrible today. Another girl on my fb said "I am going to be a mommy!" so ANOTHER girl on my facebook is pregnant.

It is only my first cycle trying but almost all girls on my fb are pregnant/mommys and none of them actually tried to get like that.

I am TRYING.

Just feel really down in the dumps today..



 
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Old Jul 29th, 2011, 11:15 AM   2
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Hey ladies,

so according to my DR I ovulated last saturday after being off of birth control since June 12 so today would make me 6dpo if he is right.

I feel really terrible today. Another girl on my fb said "I am going to be a mommy!" so ANOTHER girl on my facebook is pregnant.

It is only my first cycle trying but almost all girls on my fb are pregnant/mommys and none of them actually tried to get like that.

I am TRYING.

Just feel really down in the dumps today..

I am sorry you feel that way. Don't put so much pressure on yourself. Only 1 month trying? I have been trying for a year if that makes you feel any better. I understand what you mean about seeing others around you getting pregnant but the reality is that's life. There are always going to be people around more fortunate BUT also less fortunate. You need to pull yourself together because the road ahead may be challenging. Look around at the forum and see how many women have been trying over 6 month, 1 year, 5 years...its crazy! Be strong, it will happen for you when the time is right.
Much love! Best wishes



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Old Jul 29th, 2011, 11:24 AM   3
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you are SOO right.

I dont know what I was thinking.

I am MUCH better now!

I realized exactly what you said. I need to stop being whiny. Lol I think I am just nervous cause I am in the 2ww and my emotions are kind of crazy.

Thanks for posting. Moment of self pity but I am back and happy!



 
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Old Jul 29th, 2011, 11:40 AM   4
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i would get depressed in general during the TWW and I think it was due to the drop in hormones. We have friends that are a year younger than me but were together since college and had been married a couple of years before we met them. They have a one and two year old and I assumed it was just so easy for them, being young and all. They know we were TTC so I asked her a question about it and she revealed to me that it took them 2 years to get pregnant with their first! You may think that some of your friends are getting pregnant right away with no issues because people don't usually talk about it; it takes a lot longer than people assume. Try not to stress as they just makes it more difficult (hard to say, I know). And I highly recommend the clear blue fertility monitor-worked for me first month after trying for 5!



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