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Old Aug 6th, 2011, 04:30 AM   1
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Sperm leaking out...


Well last night we DTD and he ejaculated inside me (tmi) lol which hasnt happend in 5 years cos we havnt tried since then. im due my period in couple days so know it wont come to anything. but when my period finnished were gonna try properly as i will be fertile a few days after it finnishes.

anyways my question is what do you do when sperm is leaking out??

when im ttc i put my legs up and try and lie down as long as possible. but what about when you get up? i dont fancy usuing one of those cups should i put a pad inside my knickers?



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Old Aug 6th, 2011, 04:44 AM   2
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I tried to use liners, but I didn't realise how much 'stuff' OH has got, so I've had to use pads now, just so I don't get wet knickers!



 
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Old Aug 6th, 2011, 04:48 AM   3
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Yeah last night i had to cheak how much was in there lol SO MUCH hope it keeps coming like that ;-) lol when i stood up it started leaking out :/

Cant wait to get started properly ie after period : -))



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Old Aug 6th, 2011, 07:25 AM   4
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i always get really upset because my oh's sperm ALWAYS falls out, no matter how hard i try. i lift up my legs and bum... i even stuff tissue in there, but i realised that the tissue absorbs the sperm instead of keeping it in! anyway, it's a struggle for me because i feel as though i lose so much sperm.. but i read somewhere that the sperm that falls out are weak anyway... the strong ones are the ones swimming to the destination..

try and keep your legs up and a pillow under your bum for at least 20 mins when you try next cycle!

i havent tried softcups, but i think they're supposed to help with this issue? im not sure.

good luck ttc x



 
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Old Aug 6th, 2011, 07:28 AM   5
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The stuff that actually falls out is weak sperm, and all the other semen stuff, the good sperms will already be up there
We're trying to stay as natural as possible, so don't really want to use softcups or anything like that. I'd just lay down as long as you can, and just put a pad in your knickers to keep your dignity!



 
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Old Aug 6th, 2011, 07:29 AM   6
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Try not to worry about it. It might not seem like it, but the good sperm all gets where it needs to go - within a few seconds the sperm swim into the EWCM where they are protected. The stuff that you see falling out is the semen which the sperm don't need anymore. Some sperm will inevtably not make it, but if they don't they weren't good sperm anyway and unsuitable to fertilise an egg.

Laying down for 15-30 mins after BD is all you really need to do (and even this has never been shown to increase the rate of conception as far as I know). I've never used softcups so can't vouch for those but some people recommend them, but as I say it's not been shown that this actually has any beneficial effect - spermies are clever and know where to go! x



 
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thanks ladies i didnt know the weak sperm fell out lol x



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thanks ladies i didnt know the weak sperm fell out lol x
Heh - it's a neat little trick of biology isn't it? The female body effectively selects the best sperm and gets rid of the rest by making their journey so hard, meaning only the fastest and strongest (and so best at fertilising) make it! Sorry, I am a total biology nerd.



 
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Old Aug 6th, 2011, 07:34 AM   9
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thanks ladies i didnt know the weak sperm fell out lol x
Heh - it's a neat little trick of biology isn't it? The female body effectively selects the best sperm and gets rid of the rest by making their journey so hard, meaning only the fastest and strongest (and so best at fertilising) make it! Sorry, I am a total biology nerd.
and us women are picky ;-) so are our vaginas haha x



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thanks ladies i didnt know the weak sperm fell out lol x
Heh - it's a neat little trick of biology isn't it? The female body effectively selects the best sperm and gets rid of the rest by making their journey so hard, meaning only the fastest and strongest (and so best at fertilising) make it! Sorry, I am a total biology nerd.
and us women are picky ;-) so are our vaginas haha x



 
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