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Old Sep 10th, 2011, 01:21 AM   11
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I heard it does kill sperm and can mess up your vaginal Ph. I like getting it though.
I get bacterial infections all of the time, but I think its from the sperm period. Right now I do not have one thank god, and I am hoping I do not get one before I actually conceive.

OK so yes it kills sperm, but how can it when the penis is inside of the vagina when the guy ejaculates? Like really how much saliva can really get to the cervix area, which is where the sperm are closest too when a man ejaculates?

I am going to do some more research on this...



 
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Old Sep 10th, 2011, 01:24 AM   12
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LOL lucky ladies. Not that my bf does not enjoy, its just usually a once a month-ish thing it seems. I think it's coz I'm... slow and he gets tired. <_< TMI TMI TMI! *flashes alarm*

Anyway, haha! I don't think its bad at all! As long as a ton isn't getting inside, I doubt it would affect TTC. This site has some answers about female O... the other O, lol. http://www.medicinenet.com/script/ma...ticlekey=54557
See I kinda feel the same way. Like how much saliva can really get inside. Its not like there is a pool of it directly in there waiting to meet the sperm...



 
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Old Sep 10th, 2011, 01:39 AM   13
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LOL lucky ladies. Not that my bf does not enjoy, its just usually a once a month-ish thing it seems. I think it's coz I'm... slow and he gets tired. <_< TMI TMI TMI! *flashes alarm*

Anyway, haha! I don't think its bad at all! As long as a ton isn't getting inside, I doubt it would affect TTC. This site has some answers about female O... the other O, lol. http://www.medicinenet.com/script/ma...ticlekey=54557
See I kinda feel the same way. Like how much saliva can really get inside. Its not like there is a pool of it directly in there waiting to meet the sperm...
But....what if there is a pool of it waiting? Cause you use it as lube?? lol.
TMI ALERT- I usually spend some time "lubing him up" so to speak, before we get down to business...At least I found out it's not good during our first ttc cycle and not a year down the road!



 
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Old Sep 10th, 2011, 01:44 AM   14
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I don't think it would hurt too much unless you know of any fertility problems either one of you have. Then I'd lay off it until I got PG just cause I wouldn't want anything to further lower my chances. But yeah, I would just skip it on your most fertile days and let him do this thing the rest of the month LOL.



 
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Old Sep 10th, 2011, 01:57 AM   15
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I heard it does kill sperm and can mess up your vaginal Ph. I like getting it though.
I get bacterial infections all of the time, but I think its from the sperm period. Right now I do not have one thank god, and I am hoping I do not get one before I actually conceive.

OK so yes it kills sperm, but how can it when the penis is inside of the vagina when the guy ejaculates? Like really how much saliva can really get to the cervix area, which is where the sperm are closest too when a man ejaculates?

I am going to do some more research on this...
i agree but oral sex doesnt involve saliva...earlier this yr my boo gave a more for about 10-15 mins(he LOVES IT) n all the juices was mines there was no saliva needed and i actually got preg...(NTNP).i was shocked cuz i had heard that before about the saliva thing...

but my ? is if u get very very wet during is that helpful to the sperm???????????



 
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Old Sep 10th, 2011, 02:28 AM   16
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LOL lucky ladies. Not that my bf does not enjoy, its just usually a once a month-ish thing it seems. I think it's coz I'm... slow and he gets tired. <_< TMI TMI TMI! *flashes alarm*

Anyway, haha! I don't think its bad at all! As long as a ton isn't getting inside, I doubt it would affect TTC. This site has some answers about female O... the other O, lol. http://www.medicinenet.com/script/ma...ticlekey=54557
See I kinda feel the same way. Like how much saliva can really get inside. Its not like there is a pool of it directly in there waiting to meet the sperm...
But....what if there is a pool of it waiting? Cause you use it as lube?? lol.
TMI ALERT- I usually spend some time "lubing him up" so to speak, before we get down to business...At least I found out it's not good during our first ttc cycle and not a year down the road!
Ash, does he actually "pool" it into your vagina? LOL unless he does, I really dont see just how much can get in there from him like, lets say licking his hand (lol) and then putting it down there before insertion. Sometimes my OH does that, and I think 'is all that really necessary'? It actually irritates me when he does it, because I usually get pretty wet on my own. If we spend some time doing foreplay, such as kissing etc, Im pretty wet to begin with so I dont get it.

But if you feel worried, I would try the preseed. I read that it can give some women infections. I could see it happening with me, because my va-jag doesnt like anything, not even sperm really. LOL



 
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Old Sep 10th, 2011, 02:31 AM   17
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I heard it does kill sperm and can mess up your vaginal Ph. I like getting it though.
I get bacterial infections all of the time, but I think its from the sperm period. Right now I do not have one thank god, and I am hoping I do not get one before I actually conceive.

OK so yes it kills sperm, but how can it when the penis is inside of the vagina when the guy ejaculates? Like really how much saliva can really get to the cervix area, which is where the sperm are closest too when a man ejaculates?

I am going to do some more research on this...
i agree but oral sex doesnt involve saliva...earlier this yr my boo gave a more for about 10-15 mins(he LOVES IT) n all the juices was mines there was no saliva needed and i actually got preg...(NTNP).i was shocked cuz i had heard that before about the saliva thing...

but my ? is if u get very very wet during is that helpful to the sperm???????????
Well oral sex actually does involve saliva.. he is using his tongue right? So that is involving saliva... But sometimes it could be not much. I see what youre saying, most of the secretions are yours and not saliva. With my OH I think its a little bit of both. But still.. how much can really get into the vagina?



 
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Old Sep 10th, 2011, 02:37 AM   18
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ok..thats the same thing im saying...idk...saliva isn't a factor to me cuz i've gotten preg after oral and without oral....



 
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Old Sep 10th, 2011, 10:23 AM   19
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I heard it does kill sperm and can mess up your vaginal Ph. I like getting it though.
I get bacterial infections all of the time, but I think its from the sperm period. Right now I do not have one thank god, and I am hoping I do not get one before I actually conceive.

OK so yes it kills sperm, but how can it when the penis is inside of the vagina when the guy ejaculates? Like really how much saliva can really get to the cervix area, which is where the sperm are closest too when a man ejaculates?

I am going to do some more research on this...
when you say bacterial infections do you mean yeast infections?



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Old Sep 10th, 2011, 10:37 AM   20
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I don't think it's really that true, we always "forplay" on each other before we start dtd and never worry about wiping or what is where and just have fun and we have 2 ds together!



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