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Old Sep 16th, 2011, 06:44 AM   11
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Music also helps me as well.



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2011, 08:38 AM   12
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Knowing that no matter how much you think you are or feel it your not alone.
There are others out there going through the same thing and having people to talk to realy helps.
I battled all the odds going, I was told my whole life id never be able to have children having been born with spina bifida and having a shrivled up overy with the other one only just barely functioning plus having neither tubes or overies where they are ment to be and at the time having only 3-4 periods a year with no signs of ovulation.
But if you give up hope then you realy have just given up with no chance.
It took me 8 years of heart ache and pain and feeling like a failure but now I know I was just waiting for the perfect baby to pick me as his mummy and trust me the best things in life realy are worth the wait in the end



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2011, 08:39 AM   13
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Knowing that no matter how much you think you are or feel it your not alone.
There are others out there going through the same thing and having people to talk to realy helps.
I battled all the odds going, I was told my whole life id never be able to have children having been born with spina bifida and having a shrivled up overy with the other one only just barely functioning plus having neither tubes or overies where they are ment to be and at the time having only 3-4 periods a year with no signs of ovulation.
But if you give up hope then you realy have just given up with no chance.
It took me 8 years of heart ache and pain and feeling like a failure but now I know I was just waiting for the perfect baby to pick me as his mummy and trust me the best things in life realy are worth the wait in the end
Love this! 



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2011, 08:53 AM   14
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When your heart hurts so much you can't even breathe. When everything is against you. When it is just all consuming sadness and pain and disappointment, how do you get through the day? How do you go to work and face your friends/ co-workers as the reality of what you may never have rips you apart. How do you get through another day with your sanity intact? When you are in constant pain and the doctors don't help you. I really need someone to tell me how to keep going because I feel like I can't make it through another day feeling this way.
moments like this i start talking to God, i'm not pushing religion but most of the time it helps me be able to breath again and see a little silver lining in the clouds you will be in my prayers, hope that things look up for you
oh and sorry but i just thought i was given a book yesterday and it took me three hours just to read one chapter, it really was a lot to think about and help heal myself inside and out, its called "Women's Bodies, Womens Wisdom creating physical and emotional Health and Healing', it is a wonderful book and i know i'm at a point in my life that after everything i have been through in life i am ready to start healing so i can feel like i'm living again, I hope you could read it posibly find it on amozon it was published in 1994



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2011, 09:11 AM   15
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Try and think of all the good things you DO have in your life



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2011, 10:04 AM   16
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Or as that other saying goes "things could always be worse"



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2011, 10:25 AM   17
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Or as that other saying goes "things could always be worse"
And if you think they couldnt be then that means theres onwards and upwards from here on



 
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