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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 19:33 PM   1
lola24
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a little rant sorry in advance


Is it just me or do you other ladies just feel like your life is pointless? Dh and i have been ttc for over a year now with no results, just month on month of dissapointment and I am currently waiting on my fs app to come through feels like ive been waiting forever already and without sounding like im from the stone age or something the one thing us women are designed to do ie. Create life, i cant seem to master.why is it that the only thing in life I have ever wanted I can't get? It just makes me wonder why I was put here and what my purpose in life is because i know i will be an amazing mum. Anyway sorry for the rant I just needed to vent i guess :-)



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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 19:40 PM   2
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I need to vent too. I've had TWO FREAKING MISCARRIAGES in 8 months and I'm so pissed! I want a baby so badly, I can't take it. I'm yearning for a baby and I can't have one, I keep miscarrying I feel like most women that will be awful mom's just get pregnant out of the blue and have perfect babies, and then neglect them. It pisses me off. My husband and I have everything ready to have a little baby, but we can't have one! He has a baby from a previous marriage, and it's like, I'm a failure because I can't give him one. I feel like my life is pointless. Your rant makes me happy because I know I'm not the only one feeling heartbroken. You're not the only one, girlie. I'll keep you in my prayers! We have to keep up hope that we'll become Mother's...hope is really all I have at this point.



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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 19:48 PM   3
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I am so sorry about what you have gone through I can't begin to imagine it but I agree its always the people who dont want kids or those who cant look after them that pregnant at the drop of a hat and us girls who would cherish our children get the raw deal its just not fair but to quote the rolling stones, "you can't always gwt what you want".............mick jagger's a prick lol



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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 19:52 PM   4
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I agree! What you want so badly, you normally don't get! And if you don't want a baby, then BAM, you're pregnant. It sucks so bad! I hope you get prego soon. Have you seen a fertility doc yet? Doing ovulation kits? (:



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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 19:59 PM   5
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I was doing opk but I have psos so its hard for me to know when or if i ovulate and I am on the waiting list for fs been waiting 2 months so hopefully it will come in soon but in the meen time Dh and i have been dtd since af finished sorry tmi lol



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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 20:08 PM   6
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No, you're totally fine! I have endometriosis! I've been pg twice so I obviously can get pregnant but lost both in the first trimester. DH and I try everyday when I'm not on a period, that may be TMI but whatever. We're doing all we can. Ovulation kits. Reading tips online. I even hold my legs up after for 20 minutes lol. It is so friggin hard when it should be so easy!

We had ttc for 8 months before my first pregnancy, if that gives you any hope. And we got pg twice! So, there is def still hope for you!



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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 20:16 PM   7
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Is it just me or do you other ladies just feel like your life is pointless? Dh and i have been ttc for over a year now with no results, just month on month of dissapointment and I am currently waiting on my fs app to come through feels like ive been waiting forever already and without sounding like im from the stone age or something the one thing us women are designed to do ie. Create life, i cant seem to master.why is it that the only thing in life I have ever wanted I can't get? It just makes me wonder why I was put here and what my purpose in life is because i know i will be an amazing mum. Anyway sorry for the rant I just needed to vent i guess :-)
Hey hun right there with you . We've also been TTC for over a yr! This month i too have been really struggling with it all and have just got so bloody pissed about the whole thing, grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.



 
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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 20:21 PM   8
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I feel the same, month after month when my period comes i feel like a failure. we've had 1 miscarriage too which just adds to the feeling of failing, when everyone around me is having healthy babies.



 
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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 22:30 PM   9
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I have a 4 year old little boy, but I feel like there is more to my family than just the three of us. I keep hitting the brick wall! M/C, chemicals, and now I find out yesterday that my first cousin is pregnant, and i remember her saying she didn't want anymore! then all of the sudden she gets married, buys a house, and gets pregnant! I'm married, but dying for a house and a baby!! Guess this crap happens to the best of us... good luck ladies. Hope our time will soon come.



 
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