They didn't find a heartbeat. My heart is breaking right now. Saying I'm devastated is understatement. They said it stopped growing at 6 weeks. They offered me surgery or to let nature take its course. My husband said he can't deal with this heartbreak anymore as 3 times is too much. I can't stop crying
oh Lgh, my heart is broken for you so I cannot imagine what you must be feeling like.
I know no words that I can say will help or take away the pain, I just hope you have lots of rest, your DH is supportive and you both find the strength to continue.
I know it's hard hunny, my OH called TTC off alot after miscarriages, he hated seeing me in so much pain and what it would do to us. But we talked and I explained how I couldn't just go through so many losses and have nothing to show for it, losing our babies made me want it even more. TTC helped some of the pain, and being pregnant has its healing side too.
Men don't really understand how it truly feels, they think the logical way, and if they can find a way with less heartache they'll take it.
Give it a few weeks and if your ready, maybe suggest it to him again.
Now you've had 3 does this mean that your Dr's will look into it now?
It will happen Lgh, pleeease don't give up. I've had 6 losses, was told nothing was wrong with me and I had to keep gong through the heartache waiting for the right time.
You will have your right time hunny.
Im truly devastated. I really didn't think this would happen x x x
Thank you for your sweet message. My dr will refer us to the recurrent miscarriages clinic for further tests now. I don't want surgery and would rather wait for nature to take its course but I haven't had a blending or cramps. The brown spotting has even stopped too!! My pregnancy symptoms are still as strong as ever, I'm still throwing up everyday. I'm having a really hard time hun, physically and mentally. This time last week I was the happiest girl alive and everything just changes in a second. I'm devastated especially as I've turned 36 this year so I'm worried about my age too.
I really really hope I end up having children, please pray for me xxx
Omg Lgh. I'm on vacation and haven't been able to get on. I'm so sorry. I know know nothing I say can make it better but I promise you I will pray for you. I'm so upset wish I could take your pain away hang in there babe. I'm always here for you no matter what. I can listen and I can pray!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you now!
Lgh, is there any way the dates are wrong or anything? Slow developer? I mean it's a bit strange how your still experiencing such strong symptoms and your spottings stopped.
Im glad you've been referred - you WILL get your baby Lgh, there we're times I was going to give up but hang in there hun, it will happen. I pray for you I truly do xxx
Thanks girls I really appreciate your support, it's really helping.
Jess, I thought the same thing too maybe the fetus is developing slowly and also the fact that I ovulated really late this time. I normally ovulate around day 16 but it was day 23 this time. The fact that they calculate your pregnancy by the first day of your last period complicates things.
I have another scan in 2 weeks and I can't help but feel some hope, I know I shouldn't because if it's confirmed again I know my world will come crashing down. I've read on the Internet about misdiagnosed scan results, I will be the happiest girl alive if that's the case. I think part of me is in denial especially as I'm still having pregnancy symptoms.
Please pray for me girls. Hope you're both well xxx
Hun, now you've said you ovulated a whole week later that would add even more sense! I don't want to get your hopes up but it does sound like your still in with a chance. If you don't have any more bleeding especially! Im praying tightly!! xxx
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