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Old Jan 28th, 2012, 20:24 PM   1
BabyHopes4Me
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Just a little rant, so please forgive me! My friend knows that I have been ttc for awhile now and that so far it has been unsuccessful. I haven't even talked to her in awhile because we have both been pretty busy. Then, today, she texts me, not to say "hi" or to see how I am doing but only to specifically announce to me that one of her relatives is pregnant (and I am not even close to that relative and never even heard that she was ttc in the first place). I really felt like she did this just to "rub it in my face," and that really bothered me. Sorry for the rant but I was already feeling discouraged about everything as far as ttc and then this really pushed me over the edge!



 
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Old Jan 28th, 2012, 20:27 PM   2
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Just a little rant, so please forgive me! My friend knows that I have been ttc for awhile now and that so far it has been unsuccessful. I haven't even talked to her in awhile because we have both been pretty busy. Then, today, she texts me, not to say "hi" or to see how I am doing but only to specifically announce to me that one of her relatives is pregnant (and I am not even close to that relative and never even heard that she was ttc in the first place). I really felt like she did this just to "rub it in my face," and that really bothered me. Sorry for the rant but I was already feeling discouraged about everything as far as ttc and then this really pushed me over the edge!

Omg, people are so low! Ugh, I'm sorry your "friend" had to be like that.



 
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Old Jan 28th, 2012, 20:38 PM   3
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That is really rude of her to do i dont get people sometimes maybe she is jealous cause she wants to be TTC ? idk i have no clue why a freind would wanna do that hope you get your bfp soon good luck and babydust



 
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Old Jan 28th, 2012, 21:38 PM   4
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That is really rude of her to do i dont get people sometimes maybe she is jealous cause she wants to be TTC ? idk i have no clue why a freind would wanna do that hope you get your bfp soon good luck and babydust
Actually, I think you are actually right about her being jealous because a few years ago she wanted to have one last child but her husband didn't want to and he went and got a vasectomy. And ever since I have started ttc, she has not been acting very supportive at all. In fact, she has actually been negative about it, saying stuff like maybe I have fertility problems when she knows nothing about it. After what she did today, I am not planning to contact her any time soon.

Thanks and hope you get your BFP soon, too!



 
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