I know my DH did today, since I said it was our "last shot" for the month (my O date was yesterday) and he is focusing more on making the baby than actually having fun :/ If this isn't our month, I'm not telling him anything about my cycle next month and just try to initiate more around the time.
My DH also works in a really physical job with long hours, he gets up 3h after I go to bed and goes to bed 2h after I get home So BD is not high up on his list of priorities during the week. This month we have both been full of the cold so that didn't go down well, we also had a total disaster where we fell out half way through the deed (what a waste ). I think the stress of having to BD on certain nights creates a tension for everyone x
Aw sorry to see tht....i understand some of the guys have demanding jobs and get tired...
And they say they want a baby or another whatever the story is....but u know what....too damn bad with their "im tired" crapola!!!!! Here we are stressing daily with temping....opk's...checking cm....doing research as to what we can do to help concieve....going bonkers during our 2ww....and they cant give....what....the 5 minutes we need to get the spermy!!! Lmao i mean come on.
Thank god my guy gets it....cuz other wise his ass would be sore from me kicking it
So ladies with the tired guys....maybe u need to really express the importance of DTD at certain times? I mean it doesnt happen quickly for most women
I hope they understand...and make it a priority. Good luck ladies
Well, just found out why my DH doesn't have a high sex drive....he has low testosterone. Just got the blood results right now.
Aww tht stinks so can they help with that.? I hope so.
I hope they can treat it. I told him to call his doctor. They didn't even mention his testosterone when they called him about the results! And his isn't a little low...it is really low. It is 213. And normal is 300-800. Obviously as men get older their levels decrease....but he is only 34! I would think he would still be at least a 400!
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