Im heartbroken -rant - Page 2

rihanna · Mar 15th, 2012, 16:49 PM

perhaps they do!

gs20 · Mar 15th, 2012, 17:39 PM

I know my DH did today, since I said it was our "last shot" for the month (my O date was yesterday) and he is focusing more on making the baby than actually having fun :/ If this isn't our month, I'm not telling him anything about my cycle next month and just try to initiate more around the time.

meandmrb2011 · Mar 15th, 2012, 18:03 PM

for you !!! My DH and I take it in turns to be the

initiator .... Usually i am tired when he is going through a phase lol and viceversa !! Try waking him up with a sexy surprise ??

bumpingalong · Mar 15th, 2012, 18:35 PM

My DH also works in a really physical job with long hours, he gets up 3h after I go to bed and goes to bed 2h after I get home

So BD is not high up on his list of priorities during the week. This month we have both been full of the cold so that didn't go down well, we also had a total disaster where we fell out half way through the deed (what a waste

). I think the stress of having to BD on certain nights creates a tension for everyone x

ttc_lolly · Mar 15th, 2012, 19:45 PM

coralym30 · Mar 15th, 2012, 19:53 PM

same here hunn

LuluSS · Mar 15th, 2012, 21:07 PM

Well, just found out why my DH doesn't have a high sex drive....he has low testosterone. Just got the blood results right now.

Smooch · Mar 15th, 2012, 21:09 PM

Aw sorry to see tht....i understand some of the guys have demanding jobs and get tired...
And they say they want a baby or another whatever the story is....but u know what....too damn bad with their "im tired" crapola!!!!! Here we are stressing daily with temping....opk's...checking cm....doing research as to what we can do to help concieve....going bonkers during our 2ww....and they cant give....what....the 5 minutes we need to get the spermy!!! Lmao i mean come on.
Thank god my guy gets it....cuz other wise his ass would be sore from me kicking it

So ladies with the tired guys....maybe u need to really express the importance of DTD at certain times? I mean it doesnt happen quickly for most women

I hope they understand...and make it a priority. Good luck ladies

Smooch · Mar 15th, 2012, 21:11 PM

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Originally Posted by LuluSS

Well, just found out why my DH doesn't have a high sex drive....he has low testosterone. Just got the blood results right now.

Aww tht stinks

so can they help with that.? I hope so.

LuluSS · Mar 15th, 2012, 21:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Smooch

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Originally Posted by LuluSS

Well, just found out why my DH doesn't have a high sex drive....he has low testosterone. Just got the blood results right now.

Aww tht stinks

so can they help with that.? I hope so.

I hope they can treat it. I told him to call his doctor. They didn't even mention his testosterone when they called him about the results! And his isn't a little low...it is really low. It is 213. And normal is 300-800. Obviously as men get older their levels decrease....but he is only 34! I would think he would still be at least a 400!

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gs20 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: MI Posts: 155	I know my DH did today, since I said it was our "last shot" for the month (my O date was yesterday) and he is focusing more on making the baby than actually having fun :/ If this isn't our month, I'm not telling him anything about my cycle next month and just try to initiate more around the time.

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meandmrb2011 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Dumfries And Galloway Posts: 1,512	for you !!! My DH and I take it in turns to be the initiator .... Usually i am tired when he is going through a phase lol and viceversa !! Try waking him up with a sexy surprise ??

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bumpingalong Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Scotland Posts: 94	My DH also works in a really physical job with long hours, he gets up 3h after I go to bed and goes to bed 2h after I get home So BD is not high up on his list of priorities during the week. This month we have both been full of the cold so that didn't go down well, we also had a total disaster where we fell out half way through the deed (what a waste ). I think the stress of having to BD on certain nights creates a tension for everyone x

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coralym30 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: ottawa canada Posts: 602	same here hunn

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LuluSS Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Southern California Posts: 1,851	Well, just found out why my DH doesn't have a high sex drive....he has low testosterone. Just got the blood results right now.

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Smooch Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Michigan Posts: 814	Aw sorry to see tht....i understand some of the guys have demanding jobs and get tired... And they say they want a baby or another whatever the story is....but u know what....too damn bad with their "im tired" crapola!!!!! Here we are stressing daily with temping....opk's...checking cm....doing research as to what we can do to help concieve....going bonkers during our 2ww....and they cant give....what....the 5 minutes we need to get the spermy!!! Lmao i mean come on. Thank god my guy gets it....cuz other wise his ass would be sore from me kicking it So ladies with the tired guys....maybe u need to really express the importance of DTD at certain times? I mean it doesnt happen quickly for most women I hope they understand...and make it a priority. Good luck ladies

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