Anybody else feel like its just never going to happen - Page 5

Xandersmomm09 · Apr 5th, 2012, 11:47 AM

I know saying hang in there and there's always next month or my personal fav calm down and let nature take its course will just make you feel worse so I am just going to say you are not alone. I feel the exact same way.

jessandaj · Apr 5th, 2012, 17:20 PM

Your friend sounds like a bitch ( sorry ) I hate when people act like that about it and I hate seeing unfit mothers everywhere to it just makes it a bigger slap in the face every month, I'm pretty sure I got an evap this morning (friggin blue dye test ) if I would have realized I was getting blue I would saved myself the trouble and not have lol I'm just praying Its not but since it was 20 minutes later and I saw a line so faint and it's gotten darker so I'm kinda disheartened about that

I've been trying for 8 cycles now and dealt with way to many people who don't need kids getting pregnant so I can't imagine all you girls who have been trying for over a year.

I also hate the whole it'll happen or enjoy your time together stuff people say I know there just trying to make u feel better but it sucks

pluck15 · Apr 6th, 2012, 11:35 AM

Oi, me too Jess. That's the worst and I get that all the time from my friends who are mothers. "Enjoy your alone time while you can!" or "See what you have to look forward too?" said sarcastically. Or "Just relax and enjoy each other" arghhhhh. I DO enjoy my husband. Obviously thats why I married him. And why does everyone tell ME these things when they are the ones that had kids younger than me! I am the one that waited!!! And for their information, I would really like to enjoy my husband as the father of my baby!!! GRRRRR!!!!!!

jessandaj · Apr 6th, 2012, 11:51 AM

Tome it makes o sense hn ppl who got pregnant by accident say enjoy your alone time I'm like of course your gunna say that you weren't ready to have a baby yet I however am so it's a little different

firsttimetry · Apr 6th, 2012, 12:13 PM

i hope you dont mind me popping in to comment. I know exactly how you feel ladies, or at least i think i do. We were trying for 7 months before we got a BFP and it felt like a lifetime and that it would never happen but it did and i unfortunately just had to keep the faith during that time. there were a lot of tears and a lot of hugs from my OH. best of luck ladies. xx

jessandaj · Apr 6th, 2012, 14:27 PM

Yeah Im just staying hopeful and thinking its gunna happen lol congratulations though to you hoping my bfps next month

Lotus Womb · Apr 6th, 2012, 15:12 PM

Hey ladies,
Thought I would join you. Every month is my month lol I am CD2 and as positive as I am all cycle when AF arrives I am heart broken. 2 of my best friends had babies in Jan and March I am happy for them but so wish it was my time too I guess this is my 6th cycle ttc I can't count Feb as DB was unwell did not get to bd fertile time. I know we need to bd more at that time anyway. B&B keeps me sane because we are in it together. Good Luck ladies

jessandaj · Apr 6th, 2012, 16:08 PM

B&B keeps me sane and drive me crazy from being on here so much haha but yes every month wen I'm waiting for af I usually think I bet next month will be month lol I'm planning on using fertibella this cycle so hoping it does it !

kategirl · Apr 6th, 2012, 17:51 PM

I feel the same way. It's only the third cycle for us, but it feels like so much longer because I got a BFP the first month but then had a miscarriage... that feels like so long ago now. There are so many people I know who are pregnant, and one friend from high school (on Facebook) is even due when I was supposed to be due. I just want to be pregnant again so badly, but it hasn't happened yet and I have a bad feeling that it's going to take a very long time.

jessandaj · Apr 6th, 2012, 18:46 PM

I'm sorry about your misscarriage hun

I'll keep my fingers crossed that it doesn't take long

I'm Gunna order fertibella maybe it's something you can look into to I don't know if you have any weirdness in your cycle but it's suppose to fix that ( long cycles , short cycles , short literal phases ) and get your reproductive system producing more quality stuff

good luck

Apr 5th, 2012, 11:47 AM	#41
Xandersmomm09 Trying to conceive (TTC) New BnB member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 3	I know saying hang in there and there's always next month or my personal fav calm down and let nature take its course will just make you feel worse so I am just going to say you are not alone. I feel the exact same way.

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Apr 5th, 2012, 17:20 PM	#42
jessandaj Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: missouri Posts: 1,774	Your friend sounds like a bitch ( sorry ) I hate when people act like that about it and I hate seeing unfit mothers everywhere to it just makes it a bigger slap in the face every month, I'm pretty sure I got an evap this morning (friggin blue dye test ) if I would have realized I was getting blue I would saved myself the trouble and not have lol I'm just praying Its not but since it was 20 minutes later and I saw a line so faint and it's gotten darker so I'm kinda disheartened about that I've been trying for 8 cycles now and dealt with way to many people who don't need kids getting pregnant so I can't imagine all you girls who have been trying for over a year. I also hate the whole it'll happen or enjoy your time together stuff people say I know there just trying to make u feel better but it sucks

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Apr 6th, 2012, 11:35 AM	#43
pluck15 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: California, US Posts: 346	Oi, me too Jess. That's the worst and I get that all the time from my friends who are mothers. "Enjoy your alone time while you can!" or "See what you have to look forward too?" said sarcastically. Or "Just relax and enjoy each other" arghhhhh. I DO enjoy my husband. Obviously thats why I married him. And why does everyone tell ME these things when they are the ones that had kids younger than me! I am the one that waited!!! And for their information, I would really like to enjoy my husband as the father of my baby!!! GRRRRR!!!!!!

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Apr 6th, 2012, 11:51 AM	#44
jessandaj Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: missouri Posts: 1,774	Tome it makes o sense hn ppl who got pregnant by accident say enjoy your alone time I'm like of course your gunna say that you weren't ready to have a baby yet I however am so it's a little different

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Apr 6th, 2012, 12:13 PM	#45
firsttimetry Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 334	i hope you dont mind me popping in to comment. I know exactly how you feel ladies, or at least i think i do. We were trying for 7 months before we got a BFP and it felt like a lifetime and that it would never happen but it did and i unfortunately just had to keep the faith during that time. there were a lot of tears and a lot of hugs from my OH. best of luck ladies. xx

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Apr 6th, 2012, 14:27 PM	#46
jessandaj Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: missouri Posts: 1,774	Yeah Im just staying hopeful and thinking its gunna happen lol congratulations though to you hoping my bfps next month

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Apr 6th, 2012, 15:12 PM	#47
Lotus Womb Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: London. U.K Posts: 653	Hey ladies, Thought I would join you. Every month is my month lol I am CD2 and as positive as I am all cycle when AF arrives I am heart broken. 2 of my best friends had babies in Jan and March I am happy for them but so wish it was my time too I guess this is my 6th cycle ttc I can't count Feb as DB was unwell did not get to bd fertile time. I know we need to bd more at that time anyway. B&B keeps me sane because we are in it together. Good Luck ladies

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Apr 6th, 2012, 16:08 PM	#48
jessandaj Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: missouri Posts: 1,774	B&B keeps me sane and drive me crazy from being on here so much haha but yes every month wen I'm waiting for af I usually think I bet next month will be month lol I'm planning on using fertibella this cycle so hoping it does it !

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Apr 6th, 2012, 17:51 PM	#49
kategirl Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 606	I feel the same way. It's only the third cycle for us, but it feels like so much longer because I got a BFP the first month but then had a miscarriage... that feels like so long ago now. There are so many people I know who are pregnant, and one friend from high school (on Facebook) is even due when I was supposed to be due. I just want to be pregnant again so badly, but it hasn't happened yet and I have a bad feeling that it's going to take a very long time.

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Apr 6th, 2012, 18:46 PM	#50
jessandaj Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: missouri Posts: 1,774	I'm sorry about your misscarriage hun I'll keep my fingers crossed that it doesn't take long I'm Gunna order fertibella maybe it's something you can look into to I don't know if you have any weirdness in your cycle but it's suppose to fix that ( long cycles , short cycles , short literal phases ) and get your reproductive system producing more quality stuff good luck

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