Originally Posted by V2R

I deleted FB last week as it's pissing me off...people who go out partying drinking & taking drugs all w.end are popping out babies & plastering it all over FB...& walking down the street it's all junkies pushing buggies!!!!!! WTF is going on in this world.
All my friends have 'Accidently fallen pregnant' !!!!! Luv to hear that in a couple of years Son/daughter you were an Accident....Cheers eh.
I cana even get the sperm to meet my bloody egg LOL

Originally Posted by Mooglekins

It's also upsetting when those party obsessed drinkers turn on you and say 'you're boring' because you don't drink or go to parties every night, really knocks your confidence >< Excuse me for wanting to start a family!

Originally Posted by dancing P

Sorry guys just had to write my frustration out!

Me and my DH have been TTC for 8 months, everytime i go on facebook someone is on announcing there pregnant. Now dont get me wrong i am so pleased for them but most of them say "i didnt plan it" or " i was devestated when i found out" and 2 for them are not keeping there little miracle!!!
Sorry ladies for going on i am just hoping and praying it will be our turn next

Originally Posted by sweetmere

I know how you all feel!!!

I've wanted a child ever since we got married (July) and of course I knew I wanted one way before that, but that's when it REALLY kicked in. I know that's not very long compared to some of you and many others, but it still feels like forever.

Facebook makes it so much harder. I'm 21 (hubby is 25) so we are young, but it makes it really hard to see 14/15/16/17/18 year olds getting pregnant with whatever boy-toy they are with at the time. Then them breaking up, and lots of childish Facebook drama and me thinking "this child they are carrying has to go through this and has no choice". There is ONE girl that was 18 when she gave birth, and was really horrible, immature, rude, dated a different guy every week and since that baby was born she has been ONE AMAZING MAMA. I'm so proud of her. In fact, I need to tell her that. She has turned her life around for that little boy and it makes me happy to see. Most of the other teens who have babies use the pregnancy as something glamorous to show off about, and then when they are a newborn they show off...after that it's back to partying!

In fact I know girls my age (21-23) who are complete party girls and are pregnant/new mothers and haven't changed. One of them had a baby late last year and is back to partying every weekend and some weekday nights. It's not about her baby, it is about her.

It makes me wonder...why can't us ladies who want a child and actually look forward to caring for the child and being MOMMIES be that lucky? It is taking some of us forever. The few people I know who know I'm ttc tell me "everything happens for a reason, it will be your turn soon when God says the time is right" every time I get a bfn, but why is the time not right for me, but it's right for those who don't want to take care of their kids? :/

Most of the people I know who are pregnant right now got pregnant either the first try or on accident, here I am the youngest person I know actually ttc, and I'm on my 3rd month ttc and even longer was I ntnp!!! I feel like there is something wrong with me. Facebook doesn't help, there's an announcement every day and belly pics/ultrasound pics/facebook statuses about being pregnant 200 times a day. I've had to hide some girls from my news feed because literally every status/picture is about their unborn child. "mommy loves you jenna marie", or writing on their boyfriend/husbands wall "hey honey, caiden and i love you so much!! he kicked when i said your name!!! aww how sweet we are so lucky" i mean really?? :/