Positive OPK, when and how much to BD? - Page 2

juliann · Apr 11th, 2012, 19:02 PM

Thanks. I got turned down flat last night and my temp surged this morning. I am incredibly disapointed. We DTD Sat night and Sunday morning, but I have my doubts that will be enough to catch the eggie. I KNOW I am obsessing because it is something I can control in this very uncontrollable experience, but I feel completely defeated and I want to kill my hubbie.

Can't get him to understand the fertile window. I"m thinking this month will end up being a wash for us, and I'm tempted to unload the tears on him when the tests come up negative because I want to blame him for it, even though I know it isn't completely his fault.

How did ya'll end up doing? Did you get a temp surge?

angelria · Apr 11th, 2012, 20:49 PM

I know I am a little late posting on this but I usually get three positives in a row. Last month I finally got my positive, unfortunately it turned into a chemical pregnancy. I just wanted to let you know I DTD on my first positive, took the next day off and DTD the following and we got prego. You don't have to over due it. Good Luck ladies.

angelria · Apr 11th, 2012, 20:50 PM

I guess I should have said three positive OPKs in a row. Sorry!

babyonthemind · Apr 11th, 2012, 20:55 PM

Sorry about the chemical angelria! I see you're taking clomid, do you have PCOS?
If so, at least it's good news that you were able to get a BFP with clomid. Hopefully you'll have another your next cycle. Good luck!

babyonthemind · Apr 11th, 2012, 20:59 PM

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Originally Posted by juliann

Thanks. I got turned down flat last night and my temp surged this morning. I am incredibly disapointed. We DTD Sat night and Sunday morning, but I have my doubts that will be enough to catch the eggie. I KNOW I am obsessing because it is something I can control in this very uncontrollable experience, but I feel completely defeated and I want to kill my hubbie.

Can't get him to understand the fertile window. I"m thinking this month will end up being a wash for us, and I'm tempted to unload the tears on him when the tests come up negative because I want to blame him for it, even though I know it isn't completely his fault.

How did ya'll end up doing? Did you get a temp surge?

I had a looksie at your chart and think it doesn't look too bad. I think you might have O'ed on CD20. If so, you guys BDed one day before. That's pretty great really. Try to go easy on yourself during the 2WW, and hope for the best!

I finally got a negative OPK today! I took one this morning and it was still positive (4th day in a row!!!) then another around 8pm and it was negative. Although there is still a light line. So, hopefully soon my temps will start to show that I've O'ed. I hate waiting to O! People complain about the 2WW, but I think waiting to O is much worse (for me at least, since it takes me so damn long!).

Apr 11th, 2012, 19:02 PM	#11
juliann Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 110	Thanks. I got turned down flat last night and my temp surged this morning. I am incredibly disapointed. We DTD Sat night and Sunday morning, but I have my doubts that will be enough to catch the eggie. I KNOW I am obsessing because it is something I can control in this very uncontrollable experience, but I feel completely defeated and I want to kill my hubbie. Can't get him to understand the fertile window. I"m thinking this month will end up being a wash for us, and I'm tempted to unload the tears on him when the tests come up negative because I want to blame him for it, even though I know it isn't completely his fault. How did ya'll end up doing? Did you get a temp surge?

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Apr 11th, 2012, 20:49 PM	#12
angelria Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 625	I know I am a little late posting on this but I usually get three positives in a row. Last month I finally got my positive, unfortunately it turned into a chemical pregnancy. I just wanted to let you know I DTD on my first positive, took the next day off and DTD the following and we got prego. You don't have to over due it. Good Luck ladies.

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angelria Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 625	I guess I should have said three positive OPKs in a row. Sorry!

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babyonthemind Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 1,934	Sorry about the chemical angelria! I see you're taking clomid, do you have PCOS? If so, at least it's good news that you were able to get a BFP with clomid. Hopefully you'll have another your next cycle. Good luck!

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