Think about something else

Chelle_E · Apr 9th, 2012, 05:14 AM

Hi ladies,

Quick post to advise that we had been trying to conceive since July with no luck, so we decided that once my next period arrived, I would go back onto the pill and get married instead. We had been in touch with wedding planners in Spain, seen venues in our hometown for a belated reception when we came back and booked flights to go to Spain to see a villa where we could get married. Everything was planned, just ready to book.

I had been due to go and look at wedding dresses with my mum on Easter Saturday. My witch was due on Good Friday.

He didnt arrive and im now pregnant!!

Its easier said than done I know, but try and switch off, relax and think about something else. Every month when we were actively trying, I would symptom spot, the two week wait in between was awful, i really struggled emotionally thats why we decided to focus on getting married and start trying again after then.

Good luck, it will happen, just switch off!!! xxxx

sg0720 · Apr 9th, 2012, 05:21 AM

thats amazing Congratulations on both the baby and the wedding

rose. · Apr 9th, 2012, 06:31 AM

Congratulations

I'm taking it easy this month too and trying not to think about it too much. Hoping that it will do the trick for me!

Good luck with the wedding planning!

Chelle_E · Apr 9th, 2012, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by rose.

Congratulations

I'm taking it easy this month too and trying not to think about it too much. Hoping that it will do the trick for me!

Good luck with the wedding planning!

We've put the wedding planning on hold for now

magicvw · Apr 9th, 2012, 15:33 PM

Congrats! I don't think switching off makes a ounce of difference though - unless you are particularly stressed. Being stressed about ttc is bad, but being switched "ON" is generally better, because you are more likely to BD at the right time.

jessandaj · Apr 9th, 2012, 15:41 PM

I have nothing to distract me haha I live a boring life were already married though I'm thinking about maybe trying he ntnp for awhile while Werner looking around for a new place to live and maybe it will do it but it's harder said then done when it comes to switching off

Chelle_E · Apr 10th, 2012, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by magicvw

Congrats! I don't think switching off makes a ounce of difference though - unless you are particularly stressed. Being stressed about ttc is bad, but being switched "ON" is generally better, because you are more likely to BD at the right time.

Well we were EXTREMELY careful this month (just the once!!) and it happened! x

x Helen x · Apr 10th, 2012, 11:39 AM

I completely agree! We were TTC for 8 months and decided to take a month off in December for Christmas (we were also moving house at this time so busy, busy!). Low and behold New Years Day we got a BFP!

Congrats on your pregnancy!

motherofboys · Apr 10th, 2012, 12:00 PM

Congratulations!
I am this " " close to stopping and going on the pill after 20 months of TTC and taking a 6 month break if I'm not pregnant this month. It doing my head in.

Chelle_E · Apr 14th, 2012, 07:11 AM

it will happen when you least expect it! Try and keep yourself occupied x

Apr 9th, 2012, 05:14 AM	#1
Chelle_E Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: England Posts: 123	Think about something else Hi ladies, Quick post to advise that we had been trying to conceive since July with no luck, so we decided that once my next period arrived, I would go back onto the pill and get married instead. We had been in touch with wedding planners in Spain, seen venues in our hometown for a belated reception when we came back and booked flights to go to Spain to see a villa where we could get married. Everything was planned, just ready to book. I had been due to go and look at wedding dresses with my mum on Easter Saturday. My witch was due on Good Friday. He didnt arrive and im now pregnant!! Its easier said than done I know, but try and switch off, relax and think about something else. Every month when we were actively trying, I would symptom spot, the two week wait in between was awful, i really struggled emotionally thats why we decided to focus on getting married and start trying again after then. Good luck, it will happen, just switch off!!! xxxx

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sg0720 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Milwaukee, WI Posts: 3,500	thats amazing Congratulations on both the baby and the wedding

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rose. Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Berkshire Posts: 1,978	Congratulations I'm taking it easy this month too and trying not to think about it too much. Hoping that it will do the trick for me! Good luck with the wedding planning!

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magicvw Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: the Dark Ages Posts: 16,932	Congrats! I don't think switching off makes a ounce of difference though - unless you are particularly stressed. Being stressed about ttc is bad, but being switched "ON" is generally better, because you are more likely to BD at the right time.

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jessandaj Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: missouri Posts: 1,804	I have nothing to distract me haha I live a boring life were already married though I'm thinking about maybe trying he ntnp for awhile while Werner looking around for a new place to live and maybe it will do it but it's harder said then done when it comes to switching off

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x Helen x Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Essex Posts: 2,705	I completely agree! We were TTC for 8 months and decided to take a month off in December for Christmas (we were also moving house at this time so busy, busy!). Low and behold New Years Day we got a BFP! Congrats on your pregnancy!

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motherofboys Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 3,251	Congratulations! I am this " " close to stopping and going on the pill after 20 months of TTC and taking a 6 month break if I'm not pregnant this month. It doing my head in.

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Chelle_E Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: England Posts: 123	it will happen when you least expect it! Try and keep yourself occupied x

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