I had my first round of clomid this cycle and got a +OPK on CD 16... which is GREAT! (I had O pains the night of CD 16 and morning of CD 17) Pre clomid, my cycles were 50-100 days - so if I did infact ovulate, it was super early for me and I'm really excited. BUT --- DH broke his ankle a few days before the +OPK So we only BD'd once in my fertile window. I feel terrible that he is hurt and sore... and I feel SO GUILTY for being sad that we are most likely out this month. I feel like such a bad wife. We only ditched condoms in July, so it hasn't been THAT LONG but, 9 months is still quite a while not to end up with a BFP. (we started REALLY trying, occasional OPK's, BD EOD etc... on November 1st after the laid back approach of "it will happen when it happens" wasn't cutting it. haha) Anyways... just having a bit of a pity party. Curious to see if AF comes around CD 30! I guess that in itself will be a pretty great accomplishment
awww its okay to feel like that and its alright if you only been trying for 9months that is a very long time. but your not alone i have been ttc for 1.5 years and am still waiting for my BFP. good luck to you hope you dont have to wait too much longer
Thanks hun! I feel so guilty complaining because so many other people have been trying for so much longer! (like yourself) I hope you get your BFP soon!!!!!
I've been trying for the exact amount of time you have. We started TTC last July. I confirmed yesterday that our 2nd IUI failed and the witch got me a day early today. We have one more IUI attempt then it's IVF which we said we would not do (too expensive) or we are back to TTC naturally. I am very, very sad about all of this. I know how you feel. Hang in there.
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