This is going to kill me

amcashes · Apr 10th, 2012, 22:47 PM

I am starting to just give up. I broke down and told my soon to be hubby how I feel. I feel like I have let him down. But he says that he is going to go to the doctor to make sure he is ok. But the only thing I can think about is it has to be me. We have been trying everything that I have found on google about trying for a baby. Is it always so hard every time you start your period when you are trying for a baby?

Platinumvague · Apr 10th, 2012, 23:00 PM

Well I see from your ticker you've only been TTC for a month? If thats true try not to worry about it.Thats nothing.Some people do get lucky and get a BFP first try but most don't.Have you tried ovulation calculators and tempting? Ovulation strips? It took us 4 cycles and every time AF came I'd cry my eyes out.Conceiving can be very tricky and it takes a bunch of little things to make it go right.I see you have other children? so you know how it goes.Good luck and I know the ladies on here will be very helpful and supportive

sg0720 · Apr 10th, 2012, 23:01 PM

yes it is. and honestly it doesnt get much easier until sadly you get used to bfns and AF showing up..i hope it gets better for you hang in there

i been ttc for 1.5years and nothing..but i have hope itll happen

amcashes · Apr 10th, 2012, 23:04 PM

My other children were not planned. So this is my first time ttc. I have not been temping or using any of the ovulation kits. I have been using the calender method.

Platinumvague · Apr 10th, 2012, 23:11 PM

Try an ovulation calculator.Most are free and you can get them online or apps.I believe a combo of ovulation strips and the calculator helped us get pregnant

amcashes · Apr 10th, 2012, 23:39 PM

I will have to see if there is an app for my kindle fire. The problem is we only get to see each other once a week due to his job.

amcashes · Apr 14th, 2012, 16:15 PM

And now today he tells me it is my fault that we haven't been able to conceive.

cupcaker · Apr 14th, 2012, 16:33 PM

How can it be your fault?! What is his logic there? I have an ipod app that helps me A LOT because I'm useless with counting and calculating things. I am only just starting out though so I'm sure others will have lots of advice.

scerena · Apr 14th, 2012, 16:36 PM

sorry your oh said that, both of you might not even have a problem it can take a healthy couple a year to conceive, we have been ttc years and it gets worse but you kind of 'expect' af to show

i hope you get a

soon

amcashes · Apr 14th, 2012, 18:54 PM

I think seeing a baby born and a friend announce she is pregnant

Apr 10th, 2012, 22:47 PM	#1
amcashes Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Kansas Posts: 254	This is going to kill me I am starting to just give up. I broke down and told my soon to be hubby how I feel. I feel like I have let him down. But he says that he is going to go to the doctor to make sure he is ok. But the only thing I can think about is it has to be me. We have been trying everything that I have found on google about trying for a baby. Is it always so hard every time you start your period when you are trying for a baby?

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Apr 10th, 2012, 23:00 PM	#2
Platinumvague Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Colorado Posts: 759	Well I see from your ticker you've only been TTC for a month? If thats true try not to worry about it.Thats nothing.Some people do get lucky and get a BFP first try but most don't.Have you tried ovulation calculators and tempting? Ovulation strips? It took us 4 cycles and every time AF came I'd cry my eyes out.Conceiving can be very tricky and it takes a bunch of little things to make it go right.I see you have other children? so you know how it goes.Good luck and I know the ladies on here will be very helpful and supportive

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Apr 10th, 2012, 23:01 PM	#3
sg0720 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Milwaukee, WI Posts: 3,500	yes it is. and honestly it doesnt get much easier until sadly you get used to bfns and AF showing up..i hope it gets better for you hang in there i been ttc for 1.5years and nothing..but i have hope itll happen

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Apr 10th, 2012, 23:04 PM	#4
amcashes Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Kansas Posts: 254	My other children were not planned. So this is my first time ttc. I have not been temping or using any of the ovulation kits. I have been using the calender method.

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Apr 10th, 2012, 23:11 PM	#5
Platinumvague Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Colorado Posts: 759	Try an ovulation calculator.Most are free and you can get them online or apps.I believe a combo of ovulation strips and the calculator helped us get pregnant

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Apr 10th, 2012, 23:39 PM	#6
amcashes Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Kansas Posts: 254	I will have to see if there is an app for my kindle fire. The problem is we only get to see each other once a week due to his job.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 16:15 PM	#7
amcashes Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Kansas Posts: 254	And now today he tells me it is my fault that we haven't been able to conceive.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 16:33 PM	#8
cupcaker Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: East Yorks Posts: 493	How can it be your fault?! What is his logic there? I have an ipod app that helps me A LOT because I'm useless with counting and calculating things. I am only just starting out though so I'm sure others will have lots of advice.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 16:36 PM	#9
scerena Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: UK Posts: 9,710	sorry your oh said that, both of you might not even have a problem it can take a healthy couple a year to conceive, we have been ttc years and it gets worse but you kind of 'expect' af to show i hope you get a soon

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Apr 14th, 2012, 18:54 PM	#10
amcashes Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Kansas Posts: 254	I think seeing a baby born and a friend announce she is pregnant

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