Didnt have sex day before O :( What are my chances now??

mommy247 · Apr 11th, 2012, 08:58 AM

I'm so sad! I was so tired last night that we didn't have sex.

All my opks said negative to me or so I think. Even today my opks were neg and even lighter than the others!

I'm suppose to O today according to FF.. so whats wrong? Did I O early? What are my chances now?!

mmlovepink · Apr 11th, 2012, 10:00 AM

you may be ov'ing late? keep testing because the time might come. if your opks say negative, then it may be coming in the next few days! start having sex from now so that you dont miss it. good luck hun xx

mommy247 · Apr 11th, 2012, 10:50 AM

Thank you for replying! I hope I am late or atleast was early. I did check my cervix and its high, soft, and open. I read those are good signs. I don't think I'm going to use those blue dye opks anymore! They are hard to read because of the Color.

mmlovepink · Apr 11th, 2012, 10:53 AM

have you tried digital opks or clear blue fertility monitor? x

mommy247 · Apr 11th, 2012, 12:03 PM

No I haven't tried anything. I'm new to all this testing stuff. Its confusing lol

Goldfish · Apr 11th, 2012, 18:09 PM

Don't panic, you might be ovulating late?? Are you temping using FF? The high soft cervix is a good sign so good luck and get to BD!

mmlovepink · Apr 11th, 2012, 18:41 PM

maybe you should invest in a cbfm. its simple to use and its clear whether you ovulate or not and when you ovulate. maybe look into it if youre worried about not ov'ing. i was nervous that i was ov'ing late/not ov'ing and cbfm has put my mind to rest xx

mommy247 · Apr 11th, 2012, 18:55 PM

Thanks ladies!

I haven't tempd at all yet. Can I use a regular thermometer. Like the ones that come in baby kits?

I will look into the cbfm. Sounds really interesting. I might think about investing if I do not get a bfp this month.

mommy247 · Apr 11th, 2012, 19:00 PM

Thought I could ask another question here instead of posting various threads if you guys don't mind. I just really have so many questions since I'm new and ive tried posting questions on the April thread but everyone seems to just ignore everything I write.

Is it normal to feel pinches on the left side about 4 hours after intercourse?

hello_kitty · Apr 11th, 2012, 19:52 PM

I never have sex before O day. Both times I had sex 2-3 times before the big day and both times I got pregnant. Sperm can live up to 3 days.

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mommy247 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 628	Didnt have sex day before O :( What are my chances now?? I'm so sad! I was so tired last night that we didn't have sex. All my opks said negative to me or so I think. Even today my opks were neg and even lighter than the others! I'm suppose to O today according to FF.. so whats wrong? Did I O early? What are my chances now?!

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mmlovepink Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: london Posts: 673	you may be ov'ing late? keep testing because the time might come. if your opks say negative, then it may be coming in the next few days! start having sex from now so that you dont miss it. good luck hun xx

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Apr 11th, 2012, 10:50 AM	#3
mommy247 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 628	Thank you for replying! I hope I am late or atleast was early. I did check my cervix and its high, soft, and open. I read those are good signs. I don't think I'm going to use those blue dye opks anymore! They are hard to read because of the Color.

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mmlovepink Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: london Posts: 673	have you tried digital opks or clear blue fertility monitor? x

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Apr 11th, 2012, 12:03 PM	#5
mommy247 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 628	No I haven't tried anything. I'm new to all this testing stuff. Its confusing lol

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Apr 11th, 2012, 18:09 PM	#6
Goldfish Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: London, UK Posts: 675	Don't panic, you might be ovulating late?? Are you temping using FF? The high soft cervix is a good sign so good luck and get to BD!

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Apr 11th, 2012, 18:41 PM	#7
mmlovepink Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: london Posts: 673	maybe you should invest in a cbfm. its simple to use and its clear whether you ovulate or not and when you ovulate. maybe look into it if youre worried about not ov'ing. i was nervous that i was ov'ing late/not ov'ing and cbfm has put my mind to rest xx

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Apr 11th, 2012, 18:55 PM	#8
mommy247 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 628	Thanks ladies! I haven't tempd at all yet. Can I use a regular thermometer. Like the ones that come in baby kits? I will look into the cbfm. Sounds really interesting. I might think about investing if I do not get a bfp this month.

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Apr 11th, 2012, 19:00 PM	#9
mommy247 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 628	Thought I could ask another question here instead of posting various threads if you guys don't mind. I just really have so many questions since I'm new and ive tried posting questions on the April thread but everyone seems to just ignore everything I write. Is it normal to feel pinches on the left side about 4 hours after intercourse?

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Apr 11th, 2012, 19:52 PM	#10
hello_kitty Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 560	I never have sex before O day. Both times I had sex 2-3 times before the big day and both times I got pregnant. Sperm can live up to 3 days.

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