He's ntnp, if I told him all this stuff about ovulation and whatever he'd totally freak out lol so he's just left it all in my hands. It would be typical that his work do is tonight tho where are you? Xx
I was wondering if I could join this thread too? I'm feeling especially frustrated today. I thought for absolutely sure that this cycle would be the one. We did everything: OPKS, Fertiliaide, Clomid, BD every other day, even an extra night during ovulation. But today I suddenly started getting the lower back cramps I always get right before my period. I'm sure AF will be showing up any time now.
I have to agree with all of you about how unfair things seem with other people. My sister, who has never liked kids and used to tell me all the time that being pregnant was "yucky" suddenly announced that she and her on-again, off-again boyfriend are TTC now. Really?? I know I should be happy for her, but instead I just feel annoyed and upset. I feel like I'm in a race against her to have a baby!
I wish I could just catch a break, get my BFP and stop worrying so much about peeing on a stick, taking pills, DTD at the exact time, etc!
I completely understand where you guys are coming from. My husband comes from a very big family (oldest of 13) and all his brothers and sisters so far seem to be able to get pregnant just looking at each other. His one sister just gave birht to her 8th child and she is 2 years younger then me. It is very difficult to be happy for them. but on a positive note she is the one who is routing for me the most because she know all the difficulties I am having. Good luck to you all...
I feel your frustration girls!! I seriously can NOT watch 16 and pregnant anymore. It makes me cry! Life can be very unfair sometimes. We do everything right and we fail month after month.
I'm a teacher, which I love my job!!, but now that I've been TTC for 9 months I find myself a little bitter. It is extremely difficult to see the parents that continue to have kids that can't afford them and/or do not treat them right. How is that fair??! UGH!
Our time will come ladies! That is what gets me through each cycle...one day we WILL get that precious baby we want
hopeful- i knwo exactly what you mean when i watch 16 and pregnant i get so sad that they are pregnant and im not. I also get jealous when some of there boyfriends are so supportive its like geez my fiance isnt even supportive in us ttc..bummer
my OH is the same way NTNP doesnt want anythign to do with ttc lol
KR- welcome i know how you feel my sister is 20 and she isnt on birth control or anything and if she was to get pregnant before me i would be happy for her but so sad
Jennifer- Im glad your SIL is so supportive. at least you have her if you ever feel down im sure she would understand
Thanks for the welcome!
My OH is the same as well! He wasn't to just NTNP and not have the stress of actually trying. While he's willing to take Fertiliaide, he said that he doesn't want to know about ovulation, etc. He also is tired a lot after work and sometimes it's hard to get him to DTD, which worries me. I feel like we miss a lot of days :/
He keeps saying that when the time is right, it will happen. Unfortunately, I don't believe that.
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