for who got bfns ... read and answer

hoping4my2 · Apr 13th, 2012, 08:19 AM

I caught my ov this cycle , dtd right within 12 hrs so hopefully around ovulation.
used soy isoflavones, preseed, had ewcm, no health issues.
Just was curious if anyone of you got bfn even after catching ov and doing almost everything

i m dpo10 n bfn

mmlovepink · Apr 13th, 2012, 08:21 AM

yep. last month i did everything, used cbfm, had sex before ov, on ov and after ov... used conceive plus, legs in the air etc... then bfn

i need to remind you though, even after doing everything right, there's still only a 25% chance each cycle of a women getting pregnant. there are so many things that go on internally that make it difficult to get pregnant even when we do everything right and we have no health issues. that's just the way it is. that's why each baby is a little miracle!

good luck ttc, baby dust to you xx

hoping4my2 · Apr 13th, 2012, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by mmlovepink

yep. last month i did everything, used cbfm, had sex before ov, on ov and after ov... used conceive plus, legs in the air etc... then bfn

i need to remind you though, even after doing everything right, there's still only a 25% chance each cycle of a women getting pregnant. there are so many things that go on internally that make it difficult to get pregnant even when we do everything right and we have no health issues. that's just the way it is. that's why each baby is a little miracle!

good luck ttc, baby dust to you xx

oh dear, hope the waiting game is over soon

fx for every1 on board

Needababynow · Apr 13th, 2012, 08:38 AM

I have been ttc for almost 4 years, never got a bfp. For at least the last year and a half we have done "everything right" every month. I have gotten to know my cycle and know exactly the day I ovulate - I have sex daily my fertile window and up to 2 days after. I have no health problems nor does dh.

I don't want to be a downer or discourage you, just my experience. Don't lose hope if it doesn't happen right away - it takes time! I'm confident that I'll be expecting VERY soon and I hope you are too!!! FX

hoping4my2 · Apr 13th, 2012, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Needababynow

I have been ttc for almost 4 years, never got a bfp. For at least the last year and a half we have done "everything right" every month. I have gotten to know my cycle and know exactly the day I ovulate - I have sex daily my fertile window and up to 2 days after. I have no health problems nor does dh.

I don't want to be a downer or discourage you, just my experience. Don't lose hope if it doesn't happen right away - it takes time! I'm confident that I'll be expecting VERY soon and I hope you are too!!! FX

so did u see a doc? its going to be ur 1st ?
fx again!

Needababynow · Apr 13th, 2012, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by hoping4my2

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Originally Posted by Needababynow

I have been ttc for almost 4 years, never got a bfp. For at least the last year and a half we have done "everything right" every month. I have gotten to know my cycle and know exactly the day I ovulate - I have sex daily my fertile window and up to 2 days after. I have no health problems nor does dh.

I don't want to be a downer or discourage you, just my experience. Don't lose hope if it doesn't happen right away - it takes time! I'm confident that I'll be expecting VERY soon and I hope you are too!!! FX

so did u see a doc? its going to be ur 1st ?
fx again!

I have been to 2 doc's - I switched after the first one wasn't doing anything. My current doc has been pretty good so far. I had a HSG test in Dec. to unclog my tubes (they had a bit of mucus in the). My doc said to come back if I wasn't preg in 3 months, and I'm not. I'm not ready to go on fertility drugs yet so I'm trying acupuncture in a few weeks, if that doesn't work within 3 months I'll be going back to my doc for fertility drugs... I'm super hopeful that I don't have to go that route (my insurance covers NO fertility appt.'s, meds or anything fertility related).

I'm confident that this is going to work out one way or the other since my dh and I are perfectly healthy and he has "beautiful sperm"

as the nurse put it!

hoping4my2 · Apr 13th, 2012, 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Needababynow

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Originally Posted by hoping4my2

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Originally Posted by Needababynow

I have been ttc for almost 4 years, never got a bfp. For at least the last year and a half we have done "everything right" every month. I have gotten to know my cycle and know exactly the day I ovulate - I have sex daily my fertile window and up to 2 days after. I have no health problems nor does dh.

I don't want to be a downer or discourage you, just my experience. Don't lose hope if it doesn't happen right away - it takes time! I'm confident that I'll be expecting VERY soon and I hope you are too!!! FX

so did u see a doc? its going to be ur 1st ?
fx again!

I have been to 2 doc's - I switched after the first one wasn't doing anything. My current doc has been pretty good so far. I had a HSG test in Dec. to unclog my tubes (they had a bit of mucus in the). My doc said to come back if I wasn't preg in 3 months, and I'm not. I'm not ready to go on fertility drugs yet so I'm trying acupuncture in a few weeks, if that doesn't work within 3 months I'll be going back to my doc for fertility drugs... I'm super hopeful that I don't have to go that route (my insurance covers NO fertility appt.'s, meds or anything fertility related).

I'm confident that this is going to work out one way or the other since my dh and I are perfectly healthy and he has "beautiful sperm"

as the nurse put it!

ahhha well than hopefully you ll get ur beautiful bean soon

have u tried soy isoflavones, it gives me strong ovulation whenever i take it , vitex never worked for me.

to be honest i was so scared of geting bfn, i did all i could to get bfp but still bfn lol
its crazy !
even used instant cup to keep the swimmers in

just checked again and found out i was calculating my dpo wrong, i am dpo 9 assuming i ovulated just next day of lh smiley
so now technically dpo 7 n dpo 9 bfn on frer
not so much hopeful though bcoz of dry cm
one bright side would be i will try to take temps next cycle which i dint this time round

good luck !

Needababynow · Apr 13th, 2012, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by hoping4my2

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Originally Posted by Needababynow

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Originally Posted by hoping4my2

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Originally Posted by Needababynow

I have been ttc for almost 4 years, never got a bfp. For at least the last year and a half we have done "everything right" every month. I have gotten to know my cycle and know exactly the day I ovulate - I have sex daily my fertile window and up to 2 days after. I have no health problems nor does dh.

I don't want to be a downer or discourage you, just my experience. Don't lose hope if it doesn't happen right away - it takes time! I'm confident that I'll be expecting VERY soon and I hope you are too!!! FX

so did u see a doc? its going to be ur 1st ?
fx again!

I have been to 2 doc's - I switched after the first one wasn't doing anything. My current doc has been pretty good so far. I had a HSG test in Dec. to unclog my tubes (they had a bit of mucus in the). My doc said to come back if I wasn't preg in 3 months, and I'm not. I'm not ready to go on fertility drugs yet so I'm trying acupuncture in a few weeks, if that doesn't work within 3 months I'll be going back to my doc for fertility drugs... I'm super hopeful that I don't have to go that route (my insurance covers NO fertility appt.'s, meds or anything fertility related).

I'm confident that this is going to work out one way or the other since my dh and I are perfectly healthy and he has "beautiful sperm"

as the nurse put it!

ahhha well than hopefully you ll get ur beautiful bean soon

have u tried soy isoflavones, it gives me strong ovulation whenever i take it , vitex never worked for me.

to be honest i was so scared of geting bfn, i did all i could to get bfp but still bfn lol
its crazy !
even used instant cup to keep the swimmers in

just checked again and found out i was calculating my dpo wrong, i am dpo 9 assuming i ovulated just next day of lh smiley
so now technically dpo 7 n dpo 9 bfn on frer
not so much hopeful though bcoz of dry cm
one bright side would be i will try to take temps next cycle which i dint this time round

good luck !

I was going to try the soy iso. but the acupuncturist wants me to hold off on taking anything... supposedly she is going to be doing stuff to balance my hormones and doesn't want anything to interfere with that? If she doesn't work out I'm willing to try ANYTHING at this point - my clock is ticking loud and clear as I'll be 33 in a few days (yikes).

As long as you bd a lot you should be fine... don't go off of cm - it can be confusing and misleading... are you going to test or wait and see if af shows?

hoping4my2 · Apr 13th, 2012, 18:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Needababynow

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Originally Posted by hoping4my2

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Originally Posted by Needababynow

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Originally Posted by hoping4my2

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Originally Posted by Needababynow

I have been ttc for almost 4 years, never got a bfp. For at least the last year and a half we have done "everything right" every month. I have gotten to know my cycle and know exactly the day I ovulate - I have sex daily my fertile window and up to 2 days after. I have no health problems nor does dh.

I don't want to be a downer or discourage you, just my experience. Don't lose hope if it doesn't happen right away - it takes time! I'm confident that I'll be expecting VERY soon and I hope you are too!!! FX

so did u see a doc? its going to be ur 1st ?
fx again!

I have been to 2 doc's - I switched after the first one wasn't doing anything. My current doc has been pretty good so far. I had a HSG test in Dec. to unclog my tubes (they had a bit of mucus in the). My doc said to come back if I wasn't preg in 3 months, and I'm not. I'm not ready to go on fertility drugs yet so I'm trying acupuncture in a few weeks, if that doesn't work within 3 months I'll be going back to my doc for fertility drugs... I'm super hopeful that I don't have to go that route (my insurance covers NO fertility appt.'s, meds or anything fertility related).

I'm confident that this is going to work out one way or the other since my dh and I are perfectly healthy and he has "beautiful sperm"

as the nurse put it!

ahhha well than hopefully you ll get ur beautiful bean soon

have u tried soy isoflavones, it gives me strong ovulation whenever i take it , vitex never worked for me.

to be honest i was so scared of geting bfn, i did all i could to get bfp but still bfn lol
its crazy !
even used instant cup to keep the swimmers in

just checked again and found out i was calculating my dpo wrong, i am dpo 9 assuming i ovulated just next day of lh smiley
so now technically dpo 7 n dpo 9 bfn on frer
not so much hopeful though bcoz of dry cm
one bright side would be i will try to take temps next cycle which i dint this time round

good luck !

I was going to try the soy iso. but the acupuncturist wants me to hold off on taking anything... supposedly she is going to be doing stuff to balance my hormones and doesn't want anything to interfere with that? If she doesn't work out I'm willing to try ANYTHING at this point - my clock is ticking loud and clear as I'll be 33 in a few days (yikes).

As long as you bd a lot you should be fine... don't go off of cm - it can be confusing and misleading... are you going to test or wait and see if af shows?

i used soy, though ttc only this cycle but as far as af is concerned, i get my af on time, i had 60day cycle n with si 1st cycle was 30 n this one i ov on day 11 with lp14 always.

On ff i have read alot of promising stories with acupuncture
i had it once for some other reasons and i can swear by it, it worked wonders
but hopefully before anythng else u ll get ur bfp

i am tempted to test again but only if i ll feel i have open mind to get another bfn, dont have frer but will use supermarket brands

alot of right side cramps going on, other than that few twinges on bb here n thr nothing significant but after today i fell a bit more courageous to accept bfn this month

Countrygirl13 · Apr 13th, 2012, 18:44 PM

Ditto, another perfect cycle for me. Shouldn't have failed ha! Got my second bfn of this cycle today- i tested twice this month, once on our 1st wedding anniversary on monday and again today.
Where does this 25% chance each cycle come from? How do they get these numbers? With a bit of a biology background i'm trying to research info as i get it to ty and work out which bits of advice to follow etc. It all seems so hopelessly random.

Apr 13th, 2012, 08:19 AM	#1
hoping4my2 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 613	for who got bfns ... read and answer I caught my ov this cycle , dtd right within 12 hrs so hopefully around ovulation. used soy isoflavones, preseed, had ewcm, no health issues. Just was curious if anyone of you got bfn even after catching ov and doing almost everything i m dpo10 n bfn

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Apr 13th, 2012, 08:21 AM	#2
mmlovepink Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: london Posts: 673	yep. last month i did everything, used cbfm, had sex before ov, on ov and after ov... used conceive plus, legs in the air etc... then bfn i need to remind you though, even after doing everything right, there's still only a 25% chance each cycle of a women getting pregnant. there are so many things that go on internally that make it difficult to get pregnant even when we do everything right and we have no health issues. that's just the way it is. that's why each baby is a little miracle! good luck ttc, baby dust to you xx

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Needababynow Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Virginia, USA Posts: 179	I have been ttc for almost 4 years, never got a bfp. For at least the last year and a half we have done "everything right" every month. I have gotten to know my cycle and know exactly the day I ovulate - I have sex daily my fertile window and up to 2 days after. I have no health problems nor does dh. I don't want to be a downer or discourage you, just my experience. Don't lose hope if it doesn't happen right away - it takes time! I'm confident that I'll be expecting VERY soon and I hope you are too!!! FX

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Apr 13th, 2012, 18:44 PM	#10
Countrygirl13 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: UK Posts: 80	Ditto, another perfect cycle for me. Shouldn't have failed ha! Got my second bfn of this cycle today- i tested twice this month, once on our 1st wedding anniversary on monday and again today. Where does this 25% chance each cycle come from? How do they get these numbers? With a bit of a biology background i'm trying to research info as i get it to ty and work out which bits of advice to follow etc. It all seems so hopelessly random.

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