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Old Jun 7th, 2012, 13:35 PM   31
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Oh wow! Please call to check before trying. That surprises me there is no follow up. Perhaps you could request at least a scan? Fingers crossed for you for positive news when you call. Its sad when your ready to try again and you can't just yet.
i wont try without go ahead because i would be too scared
dont wanna risk my health or it happening again but would love to try, a phone call to check tomorrow wont hurt. if she says wait il be no worse off than i am now, if she says go ahead u will prob hear me screaming for joy!



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Old Jun 7th, 2012, 18:51 PM   32
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Oh wow! Please call to check before trying. That surprises me there is no follow up. Perhaps you could request at least a scan? Fingers crossed for you for positive news when you call. Its sad when your ready to try again and you can't just yet.
i wont try without go ahead because i would be too scared
dont wanna risk my health or it happening again but would love to try, a phone call to check tomorrow wont hurt. if she says wait il be no worse off than i am now, if she says go ahead u will prob hear me screaming for joy!
Can't wait to find out what they say!! Let us know!



 
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Old Jun 8th, 2012, 10:11 AM   33
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jen435 - thats great that your doctor gave you the go ahead to ttc again! yipppppeeee! i also loved that you posted what your doc said...makes me a little more comforatble in my 2ww considering i didnt wait the once cycle the doc said before trying again!

i did have a follow up scan after my D&C....no follow up doctors appointment either. i did have a follow up scan after my natural MC though.... hmm.



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Old Jun 8th, 2012, 16:30 PM   34
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Oh wow! Please call to check before trying. That surprises me there is no follow up. Perhaps you could request at least a scan? Fingers crossed for you for positive news when you call. Its sad when your ready to try again and you can't just yet.
i wont try without go ahead because i would be too scared
dont wanna risk my health or it happening again but would love to try, a phone call to check tomorrow wont hurt. if she says wait il be no worse off than i am now, if she says go ahead u will prob hear me screaming for joy!
Can't wait to find out what they say!! Let us know!

hey whoops i didnt ring , i have a funny ache in my tummy think i may need to bleed more after the d and c , sorry for tmi so im afraid to try again too soon. i think it was my wishfull thinking that i should ignore the other doc
dont think i be able to convince my other half anyway, we have been told to wait and he doesnt have a problem waiting, think he be afraid something happen to me too
also i think i may have ovulated already this month just from how i felt at the time, not entirely sure but some people say it isnt unusual to O at around 10 days past d and c when is the time i thought i did. im 14 days past now. hve started opk but only started day 12 and had dark ish line but not dark enough to be positve and the line has gotten fainter the last 2 days. so think i may hve missed this mnoth anyway.
only way they would scan me is if i went to a private clinic and got scanned and i have a feeling they would tell me i need to wait anyway
or i could pretend to be in more way pain than i am and go to emergency but no guarantee they scan there either
think il work on my patience instead

id say they tell us to wait here in ireland because they dont scan us, presumaby first aunt flow cleans out anything that may be left.
thanks for ur suport x



 
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Old Jun 8th, 2012, 18:37 PM   35
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Thinkpositiv- thank you!!! It seems as every individual has a different case so I think its great to share info but all in all its important for your doctor to have the final say. That way you can feel most comfortable with your final choice.

Lilysmom- I completely understand what your saying. I think its important for both of you to feel comfortable with your choice and to be sure to have your doctors okay or wait for your cycles to start as your doing. I'm excited for you either way as long as your healthy!

I decided that we aren't using protection but I'm not using anything more then my prenatal vits and preseed. After two cycles if I'm not pregnant then I'll use opks a calander and start monitoring when we dtd. I have a feeling I missed ovulation this cycle due to my two wk post op visit where i was given my ok and I'm completely okay with that. But if it happens I'll be excited yet scared.... as for now I can finally be excited for others when they heal, start to try, and when they get there first + opk and pregnancy tests.



 
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Hi! Can I join?
I'm Bethany. I got married in February and started trying after that- my period never came. It was that quick.
But at my 10w appt...baby was measuring 6w. They put me on pelvic rest and took my blood to see if my pregnancy was "viable". It wasn't.
I started bleeding on May 9 and had D&C on May 10. Another 2 weeks of pelvic rest.
My OB told me to wait 3 cycles for a good lining but...I won't.
I think I just got my period but it is so pathetically light that I don't know anymore. Hope to get pregnant again soon.
Would have been my first baby.

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Storked - welcome. so sorry for your los. I too had dreams of a honeymoon baby...we got married in september after being together for 8 years....it is now june, have only had 2 periods, and have been pregnant twice (so 4 cycles since september). it gets me down from time to time....i mean, lots of people knew we wanted kids straight away.....and sometimes i get the feeling when people ask how i am doing, they are looking for a hint more of information. hang in there.

jen435 - yes, i agree we should listen to our own doctors, but i think educated decisions are important too - gather the information you need, and be comfortable with the decision you make.

lilesmom - i wouldnt worry too much about not having a scan...most the time the body is able to complete the MC. i started OPK's 2 weeks after D&C.... for a few weeks the test line was dark but not as dark as control...it was driving me mad! went on vacation, didnt test for over a week....once day tested, with a hunch i might O soon...and bam! i guess i O'd super late....day 38! CRAZY!



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ThinkPositiv, we have a lot in common. Our whole family and all of our friends knew we wanted children very much and they constantly nose. The worst is that the only person that has been through a MMC is my sister- who is currently pregnant. Which is awesome and gives me hope but it is just hard to talk to pregnant ladies right now. I am sorry for your losses and hope the next is sticky



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storked - people havent been that nosy....but i sense they are watching me! at christmas dinner my husbands cousin was staring at me, wondering if i was going to drink or not! i had to have her mother explain that i had already had 2 glasses of wine earlier! anyways....and there was one follow up email when i was pregnant (ended in MC) - where someone wrote to say they noticed i didnt have any alochol at dinner...and wondering if there was a congrats in order!?!?! are you freaking kidding me? that really P***sed me off! then my brother said to my face he was wondering if i had news of a pregnancy because i kept wanting to meet up with him!!!



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Ugh that would upset me. TTC is rough enough without people constantly wondering aloud if you are pregnant yet!



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