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Old Dec 8th, 2012, 07:40 AM   11
schultzie18
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Hello ladies. I am so sorry for ur loss. I got my bfp last Saturday and yesterday morning had really bad cramps and started spotting. I was wondering if this is how a mc starts?



 
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Old Dec 8th, 2012, 12:04 PM   12
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Hello ladies. I am so sorry for ur loss. I got my bfp last Saturday and yesterday morning had really bad cramps and started spotting. I was wondering if this is how a mc starts?
Hi,

It can be but I know some people get some spotting and cramping and everything is fine. With mine the bad cramps and spotting were followed quite quickly by heavy bleeding. Hope things turn out ok for you.



 
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Old Dec 8th, 2012, 12:24 PM   13
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Hi schultzie18,

I had brown/pink spotting for a few days in a row (no cramps at this point) and then after that a full day of extremely painful cramps (felt more like contractions) with lots of heavy bleeding.

A little spotting and cramping is normal in early pregnancy so just see how it goes. I hope all is OK for you.

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Old Dec 8th, 2012, 12:46 PM   14
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Hello ladies. I am so sorry for ur loss. I got my bfp last Saturday and yesterday morning had really bad cramps and started spotting. I was wondering if this is how a mc starts?
I have had spotting in all of my pregnancies. Two ended in miscarriage and one ended with my son. I did miscarry my son's twin but I had a complication that made me bleed throughout my pregnancy even after the loss. So bleeding isn't necessarily a bad sign. If it gets worse go get checked out. I hope it's "just one of those things" and that your baby is fine.

I think I want to join this thread too. I joined the other one but everyone over there is pregnant already and it's hard not to be a bit jealous.

I really hope to be pregnant with my rainbow by the end of May! However, this time around I don't want to put too much pressure on myself. Last time, the drive to be pregnant before my due date was too much and drove me kind of crazy. I did get pregnant before my due date but lost my son's twin just days before the first angel's due date. It made things emotionally straining.



 
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Old Dec 8th, 2012, 12:52 PM   15
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Good luck chick! I'm also trying not to put pressure on myself, but also need to look forward and try to move on from how things are now. I would also love a BFP by the end of May as that is my first wedding anniversary and a year since we started TTC, and I stupidly thought I'd have a baby at home by then.



 
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Old Dec 8th, 2012, 12:56 PM   16
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Reaching the one year mark is hard. I remember how crushed I felt when I reached that awful milestone. DH had pointed out that I had gotten pregnant within that time but it just wasn't the same. I told him that I didn't want to get pregnant for the sake of being pregnant. I wanted to be pregnant so I could have a baby! Not get pregnant then miscarry.

By next May it will have been one year of TTC for #2. It's also the anniversary of when DH proposed but it's also the anniversary of when I had to say good-bye to my second-angel (her 2nd birthday is on Monday).



 
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Old Dec 8th, 2012, 18:35 PM   17
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I am sorry for everyone's losses. I would like to join. I was going to join the other thread, but didn't because of the reasons listed here. My due date would have been July 22, 2013, but it was not meant to be. I also have a very rough history where stickiness is concerned, but I do have children, so I know it can happen. I am pretty sure that we are out for this month, and know we are out for next month as well, unless something drastically changes, due to a trip that OH has to make that will have him away at Christmas.

The week after I lost this last baby, my sister-in-law announced she was pregnant at Thanksgiving dinner, and she is due the week before I would have been, so I really feel like I need to get this show on the road ASAP so I don't lose my mind when she has her baby. I am really happy for them, but it is just painful knowing how close our little cousins would have been.

Good luck to everyone and lots of



 
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Old Dec 9th, 2012, 14:20 PM   18
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Hi Miranda,

*big Hugs*

My would've been due date was also in July 2013.

It's difficult when those around you become pregnant. My supervisor is currently 5 months pregnant so not a day goes by at work without some baby talk. I just have to grin a bear in it.

Let's hope you get your sticky bean soon! x



 
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Old Dec 9th, 2012, 16:11 PM   19
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After going on here to find how soon everyone waited TTC after their MC, saw this thread and would like to join also. Just want to say sorry for all your losses as I miscarried this week and I also would've been due in July.

This pregnancy wasn't planned at all, and it had definitely been awhile as my daughter is 9 now. But I was really excited as this would've been me and my bf's first together and the loss made me realize that even though I was unsure about it before we had even found out, that really in my heart do want another child. Plus it was nice to not hear my daughter bug me about giving her a baby sister for this past month or so, as she had been bugging me about it for the past 4 years!

I'm still bleeding a bit and I go for my follow up appointment next week, so I'm hoping the dr tells me everything's ok. I do want to wait for my AF to come just to make sure my cycle goes back to normal. Bf wants to wait a bit longer, but either way hopefully I'll BFP way before July hits.

to all you ladies on here and good thoughts all around!



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Old Dec 9th, 2012, 16:16 PM   20
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Mirand and Vera - I'm so sorry for your losses. I really hope you get your sticky rainbows soon!



 
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