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Old Jun 30th, 2013, 05:23 AM   11
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Is anyone doing anything different now post M/C, or plan on doing anything differently when we do get our BFP's? My OB suggested I take baby asprin due to my past medical history - she said it won't hurt and it could possibly help.
I'm going to start taking maca- as my accupuncturist advised.
I'll be seeing my doctor tomorrow and ask about what tests or whatever I can take. I think he'll be reluctent to give me anything, but I also think if I push enough he might do something.
He knows us pretty well, and how persistant I am. I will most definitly use the line "you told me nothing would happen and it did". Although I know he really did mean it when he said that, and I could tell when we MC it truely touched him and he cared more than I think.
I really like him. I hope I have better news for him in amonth or so.



 
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Old Jun 30th, 2013, 12:17 PM   12
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I'll probably wait until 5 weeks after the D&C to test (so 4th of July weekend)....and then if no AF or BFP by six weeks I'll call my doctor...



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Old Jun 30th, 2013, 12:17 PM   13
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It was my first miscarriage and I have 2 children so I won't be doing anything different as I think the problem this last time was with the baby and not with me and DF. I don't know for sure but that seems to be the most likely. Baby was measuring behind from the start and I knew that wasn't good. All my symptoms vanished too.

I think I'll be more worried the next time I get

I normally get pink cm the day before AF and haven't had that yet so think I can rule the rest of today and tomorrow out.

I found out yesterday DF's best friend and his partner are trying, she said she hopes my AF and her AF don't come so we can be pregnant together which is sweet of her. They are trying for #1 so she's really excited xx



 
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Old Jun 30th, 2013, 12:20 PM   14
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I'll probably wait until 5 weeks after the D&C to test (so 4th of July weekend)....and then if no AF or BFP by six weeks I'll call my doctor...
Same for me on the testing date although I have read up to 8 weeks is normal for AF to come back so might wait a little longer until I see Doctor.

My AF took 4 weeks after DD and 9 weeks after DS



 
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Old Jun 30th, 2013, 15:49 PM   15
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I keep on hearing 4-6 weeks after a D&C and pretty much right after the HCG levels reach zero.... I don't know what to believe



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Old Jul 1st, 2013, 02:03 AM   16
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The advice from the Health Service here in the UK says:

"It usually takes 4-8 weeks for your periods to return after a miscarriage, although it can take longer to settle into a regular cycle. The length of time it takes will depend on how regular your periods were before your pregnancy. It is worth seeing your GP for advice if your periods have not returned after 4-8 weeks and your cycle was regular before your pregnancy.

There are no firm guidelines about when you can try to get pregnant again, although it is often recommended that you wait until youíve had at least one regular period. Itís also important to be sure you are emotionally ready to try for another pregnancy after a miscarriage."

So I'm guessing the Doctors here wouldn't be concerned until the 8 week mark although obviously the advice might be different for our friends across the pond.

AFM CD 33 and no sign of her yet. Approaching the 5 week mark!



 
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Old Jul 1st, 2013, 02:19 AM   17
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Hi ladies, can I join? Sorry we are all here in these circumstances.
I had a miscarriage Wednesday just gone at 11 weeks, I was due to have my 12 week scan this Wednesday. I am still bleeding but think its starting to get a bit lighter.
I think I'd like to have a period before conceiving again for dating purposes but we're not going to prevent it.
I won't be doing anything different when I get that next BFP, just hope I get morning sickness (I had none with this one), I will hold out on testing too.



 
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Old Jul 1st, 2013, 02:22 AM   18
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Hi ladies, can I join? Sorry we are all here in these circumstances.
I had a miscarriage Wednesday just gone at 11 weeks, I was due to have my 12 week scan this Wednesday. I am still bleeding but think its starting to get a bit lighter.
I think I'd like to have a period before conceiving again for dating purposes but we're not going to prevent it.
I won't be doing anything different when I get that next BFP, just hope I get morning sickness (I had none with this one), I will hold out on testing too.
Hi WG and welcome.

Sorry for your loss.

The milestones are hard

I didn't have many symptoms last time either.



 
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Old Jul 1st, 2013, 02:42 AM   19
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Thank you for the welcome. I have my little monster to keep me busy which is good, I hardly get a minutes peace to get upset. It obviously still hurts though, and I think getting that next BFP will be so scary,we were so excited last time, life can be so cruel but I do believe everything happens for a reason, my son has epilepsy, hasn't had a seizure in a year and we are taking him off his medication in 2 weeks time, my reasoning that my baby didn't make it is to watch over his brother, it makes it that little bit easier.

I only felt a tiny bit sick some days when I first got my BFP whereas with Alex I was sick everyday, for the past few weeks I felt great.
It's going to be so hard but we all have each other for support which is great x



 
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Old Jul 1st, 2013, 03:11 AM   20
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I have 2 little monkeys so don't get much time to be upset either. Although when I think that at Christmas I should have had 3 kids that makes me sad. I just have to try and remain thankful for what I do have not sad about what I don't have.

It is good we have other people that understand to talk to and we should stick around until we all get our sticky babies x



 
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