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Old Jul 1st, 2013, 15:18 PM   31
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Nina - did you get any info from your doctor?
Lindsay, I didn't really get anything from him.
He was very sympathetic and warm. He assured me it wasn't because we tried again so soon. He also told me that at least three times a week a patient of his has a MC. I wanted to ask him how he continues what he does.
He gave me blood tests for clotting, and "try not to get pregnant until next cycle". Hmm..
He asked why I'm so anxious and unhappy and I just told him that this shouldn't be happening. I do like him, he really makes it feel like it will be OK.
I left crying, and cried for about an hour at home. But afterwards I just felt that this is it- the third time will be better. I didn't feel that previously, or before the second loss. I can't describe it. I'm just totally ready for this. I can feel it will be different.

I also am pretty sure I'm ovulating. EWCM throughout the day, and O cramps. I never had EWCM like this before. (it's really cool, sorry to be gross) and when it wasn't eggy- it was definitely wet. BD yesterday and today. I don't know if I should temp or not, or just "let go" and not worry. Old habits are hard to quit!



 
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Old Jul 1st, 2013, 15:21 PM   32
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It strange how it works sometimes, my period came back on time after DD but took 9 weeks after DS. I guess the body prevents you from falling pregnant again until its ready which is a reassuring way of looking at it I think
Nat, I believe that as well. As much as I'm feeling my body is failing me right now, I know it's just been doing it's job the best it could, which on some level is comforting.
I'm surprised at how quick it bounced back, it has been forgiving. I've neglected it for too many years.



 
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Old Jul 1st, 2013, 16:06 PM   33
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Yep, on to a new cycle. Hubby admitted yesterday that he was glad AF came and that "my body has had a chance to get back to normal". Apparently he was really worried that something would happen to me if I got pregnant before my first cycle... poor guy. Anyway, he said he's really excited now to ttc again.

Nina, I'm glad to hear your doctor was sympathetic and caring. That really makes a difference doesn't it? Hopefully the 3rd time will be a charm for you

I saw my doctor a couple weeks ago and she said that she had 10 patients who got pregnant around the same time I did, and only 3 of them are still pregnant... I don't know how they do it!



 
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Yep, on to a new cycle. Hubby admitted yesterday that he was glad AF came and that "my body has had a chance to get back to normal". Apparently he was really worried that something would happen to me if I got pregnant before my first cycle... poor guy. Anyway, he said he's really excited now to ttc again.

Nina, I'm glad to hear your doctor was sympathetic and caring. That really makes a difference doesn't it? Hopefully the 3rd time will be a charm for you

I saw my doctor a couple weeks ago and she said that she had 10 patients who got pregnant around the same time I did, and only 3 of them are still pregnant... I don't know how they do it!
You should look at like this, this could be the cycle you get your rainbow BFP! Xx



 
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Nina - did you get any info from your doctor?
Lindsay, I didn't really get anything from him.
He was very sympathetic and warm. He assured me it wasn't because we tried again so soon. He also told me that at least three times a week a patient of his has a MC. I wanted to ask him how he continues what he does.
He gave me blood tests for clotting, and "try not to get pregnant until next cycle". Hmm..
He asked why I'm so anxious and unhappy and I just told him that this shouldn't be happening. I do like him, he really makes it feel like it will be OK.
I left crying, and cried for about an hour at home. But afterwards I just felt that this is it- the third time will be better. I didn't feel that previously, or before the second loss. I can't describe it. I'm just totally ready for this. I can feel it will be different.

I also am pretty sure I'm ovulating. EWCM throughout the day, and O cramps. I never had EWCM like this before. (it's really cool, sorry to be gross) and when it wasn't eggy- it was definitely wet. BD yesterday and today. I don't know if I should temp or not, or just "let go" and not worry. Old habits are hard to quit!
Good luck, good luck! Baby dance your butt off!xx



 
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You should look at like this, this could be the cycle you get your rainbow BFP! Xx
Thanks Aleeah, I sure hope so Hopefully your AF will arrive soon... or better yet, a rainbow BFP



 
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I know it's just under a week since my mc but every time I think the bleeding is stopping it comes back! Frustrating, if I'm lucky it will stop for my holiday next week so I can go swimming with my little man.

Good luck nina, I'd just let go, not worry and just enjoy it.



 
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It strange how it works sometimes, my period came back on time after DD but took 9 weeks after DS. I guess the body prevents you from falling pregnant again until its ready which is a reassuring way of looking at it I think
Nat, I believe that as well. As much as I'm feeling my body is failing me right now, I know it's just been doing it's job the best it could, which on some level is comforting.
I'm surprised at how quick it bounced back, it has been forgiving. I've neglected it for too many years.
It's not failing you hun, it's preventing you from more heartache!

Our bodies are very good at bouncing back, it's our minds that aren't!



 
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Day 34


Well here's today's news report.

No AF and no sign of her either.

A little nausea.

OPKs turning dark again.

HPTs bfn although fmu test has dried with a strange shadow/indent/evap which I've never had before xx



 
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I know it's just under a week since my mc but every time I think the bleeding is stopping it comes back! Frustrating, if I'm lucky it will stop for my holiday next week so I can go swimming with my little man.

Good luck nina, I'd just let go, not worry and just enjoy it.
That is sod's law there Welsh Girl! I said on another forum I won't get AF for months and months and as soon as I put a bikini on it'll be BAAM there it is!! I hope the bleeding stops for you, mine lasted exactly 7 days and then it was gone completely, fx'd xx

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Well here's today's news report.

No AF and no sign of her either.

A little nausea.

OPKs turning dark again.

HPTs bfn although fmu test has dried with a strange shadow/indent/evap which I've never had before xx
Oh pic, can you show us?

I got stark white BFN FRER tests after 3 weeks, at 2 weeks the line was very faint and I only tested twice after the m/c, until recently. I've had so many false signs of AF that I've decided my bodies obviously just not ready for it. I asked the doctor if that's a problem, so if I conceive now will it matter that my lining is 'old' and she said not at all, if the lining isn't good enough the egg won't implant anyway.

It's like all you girls say, our bodies are amazing, they do things when they do them because that's the best time. It is horrendous waiting for your AF especially, if like me you didn't expect to wait for so long. But the witch could be just around the corner for us, just try and relax (easier said than done I know!).

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