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Old Jul 21st, 2013, 14:30 PM   1
Niki
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MC Feb 2013


Hi ladies,

Love to you all, I am having a bad day.

Have broke down in tears today... My hubby and I started trying a month after our MC but still don't seem to be getting pregnant.. There is a girl on my Facebook who complains every day that she is tired, fed up etc of being pregnant and looks depressed in her pics yet there is us that are desperate to be parents

Need some buddies to be sad with



 
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Old Jul 21st, 2013, 18:48 PM   2
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Hi Niki,
I'm sorry you are sad and completely understand. I had a mmc then d and c in May. This is our first month trying as we waited one cycle. I got AF yesterday though so first month no luck. I have the same Facebook issue where a girl said something like she wishes she could sleep through the night etc. I want to tell her to shove it. Then you have all those lovely baby photos. I also made the mistake of turning in the movie ' knocked up' tonight ( have you even seen it)? Watching the ultra sounds and heartbeats were tough. I am trying to consider it my own exposure therapy but still sad. Again so sorry for how you are feeling. I hope we both have luck and get BFPs soon. Where are you in your cycle?

Leslie



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Old Jul 21st, 2013, 18:50 PM   3
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On a random question ( don't mind my math) what is the day you got married?



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Old Jul 24th, 2013, 14:06 PM   4
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I had a mc in feb too so your post struck a chord with me just wanted to say massive hugs and keep positive I know it's difficult but it's worth it in the end x x x



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Old Jul 26th, 2013, 14:01 PM   5
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Thank you ladies.. Hugs all round!

Good luck to you ladies.

No I haven't seen the movie knocked up. I have had to take all the pregnant women that are on my FB, off my newsfeed

We got married 25th June 2011 )

My AF is due tomorrow, I have had a tiny bit of period pain ARGHHH ((((

We have orderd some preseed and taking seven seas "trying for a baby" tablets.

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Old Jul 26th, 2013, 15:42 PM   6
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Hi I had a missed miscarriage in January and a d and c on in feb. fell pregnant again and had an ectopic it 6 weeks and had surgery 2 weeks ago so I feel ya! My due date in in 4 weeks so feeling sad!



 
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Old Jul 26th, 2013, 16:16 PM   7
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Sorry to hear about your loss. I know for me I still deal with mine. I was 13.5 weeks along and miscarried the night of my birthday (the images of everything that happened are like a video that replays over and over at times).

We've been trying TTC since the first AF came. Unfortunately, here I am 4 months later and nothing has been straightened out. My cycles have been 39 days (post MC), then 30, then 35 days. Today is day 27 of this cycle, and I'm hoping to not see AF in the next 12 days (Will try testing after my max cycle date).

And trust me...seeing those people on Facebook or seeing people at work who are pregnant isn't easy. I've leaned a lot on a coworker who dealt with two pregnancy losses before her current pregnancy (with twins!). She's the only one I'm okay to be around because I know what she's gone through (partially). Or the pregnancy announcements. The last one made me cry like crazy because they already have a child.

Every day is different in how I react. Right now I'm between neutral and angry depending on who it is and their situation, whereas my coworker is having her C-section in 7 days, so I'm super excited for her. She warned me the journey post miscarriage is never an easy one. Just know you have support.

I do have to say, the day of my birthday I actually watched "Knocked Up" just to see a pregnancy movie.



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Old Jul 27th, 2013, 09:58 AM   8
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Niki- how is everything going?

DH and I got married June 24 of last year so I wondered if we had same anniversary date!

Sorry for everyone else's losses. It is sad these things happen but nice to have support.
Can I ask you guys enotionally how you have been? I have really bad weeks where I feel like I am crying and thinking about everything and I am almost wondering if hormones can be messed up for awhile or if maybe this is just my grieving process. Not that I want to forget, but I would love to feel better.

Hope everyone is having a good weekend and baby dust to all!



 
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Old Jul 27th, 2013, 18:05 PM   9
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I have times when I'm ok then times where I'm really low! I seem to be more hopeful in the TWW and the thought I might be pregnant again gets me through. Then when someone else announces they are pregnant I feel sad all over again. Somedays I find myself just crying in the shower. I have to say I think about it the second I wake up, lots through the day and its my last thought at night.



 
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Old Jul 30th, 2013, 19:34 PM   10
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For the last 1.5 weeks I have been the least emotional about it. The reason I think is hugely in part of having a heart to heart talk with a friend of mine about how I've been feeling about it. I felt I could open up to her more than my husband. But before this, my mind would always go back to the night we lost the baby.

But this weekend I did get slightly choked up when I was going through some of my old stuff and found a stuffed animal my husband bought for the baby.



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