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Old Jul 28th, 2013, 01:03 AM   1
Munchkin30
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Waiting for ov after mc. 8BFPs so far!! *"the list" page 291*


Hey all,

I had a medically managed miscarriage on 12th July. I should've been 12+2 but it was found 2 days earlier that baby stopped growing at 8+6.

For the past few days my 10 miu hpts are really really faint but my opks are still showing a strong second line. I usually Ov cd15-16 and we started bd yesterday (cd16).

My temps are going down all the time and ive had no ewcm so pretty sure it's not happened yet! Praying I will actually ov this month!!

Anyone else want to wait it out with me?

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Old Jul 28th, 2013, 20:51 PM   2
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I'd love to have someone to wait it out with! I am in ov limbo too after an early MC at 5+1 earlier this month.

Last time around I used opks with a bit of uncertainty (not really sure if I read it right or not) and I haven't gotten into the whole temping thing. Might start next cycle if nothing. I just get the feeling it might stress me out a bit which is what I am trying to avoid!

I am however using a fertility microscope that shows changes in saliva leading up to and during ov. I haven't seen any changes on that yet, and I feel like I wont be certain it works until I see it work

So my stats are: Last period 2nd June 2013
spotted on and off from 01-08 July
suspected MC 8th July
Remaining tissue passed naturally 14th July
light period like bleed from 14-19 July

If this was a normal cycle I should have had periods from around 29th June and 26th July. Nothing normal about this though, so I am just sitting and waiting and hoping for a sign of something

Fingers crossed!



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Old Jul 28th, 2013, 23:47 PM   3
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I,too, am waiting to ovulate. My last period was June 2nd, and I had bleeding from July 14-22nd during my miscarriage (but as of te 16th the baby was still in there, just not developing). I passed the tissue on the 17th-18th I think. Even though no bleeding for almost a week, I have had zero signs of ovulation nearing, such as ewcm. I am temping to know for sure but not using OPKs this month since we are not trying til next AF. I am getting anxious to ovulate already! So I can definitely join in the waiting game with you.



 
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Old Jul 29th, 2013, 01:40 AM   4
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Hello ladies. So so sorry for your losses. No one wants to be hear but friends make it easier to bear. Elizabean I considered getting a microscope, it's pretty much the only think I HAVEN'T used whilst ttc! But this month I think everything's going to be so messed up it would just confuse me more! I'm testing on hpts every morning and I've had a barely there faint line for days now. Can't believe how much I want a negative pregnancy test! I'm pretty sure you can't ov til you get a negative hpt
My temps are below coverline now so hoping it won't be long! Literati_love we were told to wait one cycle too (2 by my midwife!) but I can't find a good reason why, other than for dating purposes, so we're cracking on! How far along we're you? 6 or 7 wks??

Are either of you doing pregnancy tests?

Tell me a bit more about your stories.

Thanks for joining me! X x x



 
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Old Jul 29th, 2013, 02:07 AM   5
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Im very late to thebandwagon but my heart says im out this month, 11dpo and really dont feel pregnant mc 25th june, passed baby the 27th so used that as cd1, using opks i ovukated on cd 22!

My birthday is in two days...i really want a bfp



 
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Old Jul 29th, 2013, 02:15 AM   6
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Hey there and thank you for your support on other threads! I am officially mental as you well know there's no way you can tell you're out on 11dpo. I didn't get a bfp with my dd til 13dpo and I know lots are later.

Why do you think you're out? Remember after mc your hormones are a bit different anyway x do you chart? Did you DTD lots around ov? When did you get a negative hpt? How did u know you were oving? Xxx



 
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Old Jul 29th, 2013, 02:35 AM   7
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I dont chart but have a billion ov sticks, they were negative everyday except one day which i thenconfirmed with a cb digi and got a smiley, we dtd thatnight and two night b4 it. Couldnt do more as hubby is putting himself under too much pressure so couldnt finish the deed iykwim...

Anyway, when i fell pregnant in may i "knew", i felt bubbles in my belly and af pains a week before i was even due..this time..nothing



 
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Old Jul 29th, 2013, 02:52 AM   8
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Sounds like plenty of BDing anyway! And remember every pregnancy is different . With my dd I didn't feel anything at all, except I got very drunk on 1 glass of wine about 11dpo! And I didn't have any period pains. You're not out yet!!



 
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Old Jul 29th, 2013, 02:54 AM   9
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I'm really glad to talk to you though cos I am
Stil Breastfeeding too and I'm worried it'll make it even longer to get my cycle back to normal? She only feeds a bit now. Do u think it affected you after the miscarriage?



 
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Old Jul 29th, 2013, 03:19 AM   10
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I was worried it would but i dont think it did, i used to have longish cycles b4 i had my son but after him when he was 10 m old they came back at 28-30 days, i think this first ov was a week later than usual bcos of mc not bf, she feeds less to now usually twice a day i fell preg with her while bf my son too.



 
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