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Old Mar 5th, 2014, 01:52 AM   11
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Hi can I join you? I've been trying since feb last year and got pregnant in June, that ended at 13 weeks in August, tried straight away and have been pregnant twice but they ended in losses at 5 weeks and 4 weeks. The doctor did a load of blood tests and there's no reason for it. We took a bit of a break from ttc over Christmas (we were ntnping so it technically still could have happened) and I felt so much better for it, but now we're back to ttc properly and can't wait for our next baby. We were also going for a 2 year age gap, but even if I was to get pregnant now it'd be over 3.

Anyway I should hopefully be ovulating this weekend so fingers crossed we'll be making a baby this week!



 
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Old Mar 5th, 2014, 02:59 AM   12
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All you's posts echo how I'm feeling ladies!

I had a 12 week MMC in August and a 6 week MC in December. The first hit me hard as it was unexpected and I was really poorly and rushed to hospital etc. the second one hit me like a ten ton truck. I never thought it would happen to me again and I was devastated.

Next month we will have been trying for no2 for a year but I guess as I've had 2 MC they won't do anything. I'm avoiding doctors anyway, I'm sick of being treated as 'the sad one who keeps thinking there's something wrong with her when she's really just depressed because of her miscarriages' - I'm not btw, but everything wrong with me seems to be because of it in their eyes grrrr.

I've taken bucket loads of supplements which I think has backfired because my EWCM seems to have dried up and we tried SMEP but completely failed. I'm now 3dpo and not hopeful!

If we conceived now, there would be 4 yrs between children which was not what I wanted at all. I want each cycle to hurry up but I want time to slow down to stop the age gap getting bigger.

I'm with you on the happiness factor. I can't even be bothered to be happy for people anymore. Every Facebook announcement gets ignored and friends get unfollowed. I've not congratulated any of my friends who've announced recently, I'm just pretending I don't know. I'm so consumed by my own situation, I can't handle theirs.

Fingers crossed for us all lovely ladies xxxx



 
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Old Mar 5th, 2014, 09:50 AM   13
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Hi there! Glad I see some more ladies joining the thread! We gotta stick together and believe! It will happen for each and every one of us. Take it one day at a time and celebrate the little things like ovulation happening and temping success hell even if you are getting ewcm who cares! Let's keep the positivity going and if you need to rant I will be happy to be your sounding board. You won't be judged we are all after the same thing here and nothing is TMI!! go team TTCAL!!



 
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Old Mar 5th, 2014, 21:51 PM   14
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Got my opks in they mail today... Let the possessing begin!! Haha



 
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Old Mar 5th, 2014, 23:31 PM   15
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This thread is exactly what I cry about every day! Every AF drives the age gap panic a little further.

I had a MC at 10 weeks in Nov 2013, so not quite 6 months from that date, but surely from August when we started trying.

DH will be so relieved I found this group! I badger him nonstop with all of my fertility concerns and details. to you all!



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Old Mar 5th, 2014, 23:35 PM   16
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Amanda, where do you get the soy? Would it be in health food stores? Thanks!



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Old Mar 6th, 2014, 00:45 AM   17
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This thread is exactly what I cry about every day! Every AF drives the age gap panic a little further.

I had a MC at 10 weeks in Nov 2013, so not quite 6 months from that date, but surely from August when we started trying.

DH will be so relieved I found this group! I badger him nonstop with all of my fertility concerns and details. to you all!
Love it - I have mega age gap panic too!!



 
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Old Mar 6th, 2014, 07:11 AM   18
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Amanda, where do you get the soy? Would it be in health food stores? Thanks!
Hi there, I got mine at GNC but you can get it online and definitely in health food stores or any holistic health stores



 
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Old Mar 6th, 2014, 07:21 AM   19
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This thread is exactly what I cry about every day! Every AF drives the age gap panic a little further.

I had a MC at 10 weeks in Nov 2013, so not quite 6 months from that date, but surely from August when we started trying.

DH will be so relieved I found this group! I badger him nonstop with all of my fertility concerns and details. to you all!
Aww hun! We welcome you with open arms! MCs are gut wrenching and just so unfair. For months I felt like God dangled my greatest desire of motherhood for a second time in front of me and then snatched it away. Then laughing at me when I fell to pieces... But now I have accepted the fact that there is a lesson behind everything that happens. We aren't always meant to understand why it happens all we know is that it does happen and it's painful emotionally and physically. For me the greatest recovery from anything has been from having a mc.

We have got to stick together honestly speaking, we are the only sources for each other that actually understand the pain and suffering that we are each going through. I will cheer you all on every day, every ovulation, every tww and for each and especially every bfp because in my opinion no one deserves a bfp like a woman who has lost or has been long term ttc. Now let's go get em!! Me and hubs just dtd and I am currently laying in bed with my legs in the air hahaha swim soldiers SWIM!!



 
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Old Mar 6th, 2014, 08:52 AM   20
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Amanda when are you due to o? My opk was showing a hint of a line this morning so looks like I'll be oving on schedule this month, should be Friday-Sunday. Currently enjoying the bd marathon!



 
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