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Old Nov 12th, 2014, 09:45 AM   21
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Zaycain, for me my pregnancy test didn't turn negative until about 12 days after my bleeding stopped so those hormones can stick around for awhile unfortunately

I'm 7 dpo today. I told myself I would wait until 10dpo to test, but naturally I couldn't hold out and tested this morning with a BFN. I never realized how nervous I would be taking tests again looking for a positive. It really is scary to try to move forward and try again. I'm just nervous of everything happening all over again even though they say the odds aren't any worse after a MC...I just can't help but think it will happen again next time.



 
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Old Nov 12th, 2014, 10:10 AM   22
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Zaycain, for me my pregnancy test didn't turn negative until about 12 days after my bleeding stopped so those hormones can stick around for awhile unfortunately

I'm 7 dpo today. I told myself I would wait until 10dpo to test, but naturally I couldn't hold out and tested this morning with a BFN. I never realized how nervous I would be taking tests again looking for a positive. It really is scary to try to move forward and try again. I'm just nervous of everything happening all over again even though they say the odds aren't any worse after a MC...I just can't help but think it will happen again next time.

I'm sorry about the BFN. Try again in the next few days. I will send prayers your way. Waiting is excruciating.

I can understand about being scared. My body isn't prepared to start trying again and in my mind I go back and forth on being ready to for another go. I almost just want to be pregnant again so I can forget that I even lost something, but I'm not sure that's the best way to go either.

I desperately want to be intimate with DH.. mostly because I just want to be close with him again.



 
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Old Nov 12th, 2014, 11:05 AM   23
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Sil, sorry for your bfn. But it's still early so you're not out yet.

I'm going to get my blood drawn today to test my level. Really hoping it's all gone, but since I'm still lightly bleeding, I'm thinking it probably won't be

And zaycain, I know what you mean about being close with your husband, I've been feeling the same way! It'll happen.



 
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Old Nov 12th, 2014, 13:54 PM   24
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Good luck today tcinks! Hopefully your levels are lower, I'll be thinking of you. Be sure to check in once you know.

Zaycain that part can definitely be tough. Are there other ways you can feel close to DH? Lots of cuddles? Favorite meal or movie together?



 
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Old Nov 12th, 2014, 14:28 PM   25
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Actually ... we are very close. We both work from home together. In fact, I'm having such a horrible emotional day today that he drove me to a meeting a waited in the car for me. So I'm very very lucky with that.

I guess it's more the actual intimacy I miss. I was so nauseated the last three weeks of the pregnancy I just couldn't stomach it.

Good luck tcinks. When will you find out?



 
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Old Nov 12th, 2014, 15:45 PM   26
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Hopefully I will find out tomorrow. The blood draw place is in the doctors office so it really shouldn't take long to get the results.

When does your doctor say it's okay to be intimate again? Or are you just waiting until you feel ready? My doctor says it's fine even though I'm still bleeding a bit.



 
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Old Nov 12th, 2014, 16:24 PM   27
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Hopefully I will find out tomorrow. The blood draw place is in the doctors office so it really shouldn't take long to get the results.

When does your doctor say it's okay to be intimate again? Or are you just waiting until you feel ready? My doctor says it's fine even though I'm still bleeding a bit.
Ok.. keep us posted. Have you ever used those cheap HPT? I was thinking about buying them just to monitor the levels myself. Just out of curiosity and not from keeping crazy.

I can get intimate 2 weeks after the D&C which was last Friday. They want to avoid infection since they dilated me. *sigh* Our bodies. SMH.



 
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Old Nov 12th, 2014, 17:22 PM   28
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Yes, the dollar hpt are great! Work just as well as the expensive ones. That's what I have been using and what I used when I found out I was pregnant. But I just want to get actual level so I know how far I have to go.

But seriously, don't buy the expensive ones.



 
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Old Nov 13th, 2014, 13:49 PM   29
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tcinks.. any word?



 
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Old Nov 13th, 2014, 14:29 PM   30
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Glad you asked, I forgot to call! I just did now and hopefully they get back soon.

How are you today?



 
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