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Old Nov 6th, 2014, 18:59 PM   1
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{CLOSED GROUP} Journey to BFP and Beyond!


I know there are lots of support threads for ttc after a loss, and they are great. But I'm looking for someone I can talk to on a regular basis that's going through something similar to me. There are certain days I just get so down and really need encouragement. And I would of course like to offer you support, too. You can respond here or send a private message.

I'm 25 , just experienced the loss of my first child 3 weeks ago (Oct 15). They told us the loss was due to a placental infection. My hcg is at 113 and as soon as it is down to 5, DH and I intend to start trying again.

Looking forward to making a new friend.

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A group of women supporting and encouraging each other after the loss of our babies, and hoping to each get our BFP!
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Meet Our Group

*Tcinks (Terrissa, from KS) - miscarriage on October 15 due to placenta infection. Baby Ronen was 13 weeks. Still waiting for hcg to reach zero (down from 86000) to start ttc again. At five and a half weeks, still trace amounts of hcg and light bleeding.

*Sil- had a miscarriage on October 21 @ 5w6d. Took two and a half weeks to do from 1900 to 0. Got her BFP for weeks after miscarriage! Looking forward to baby #2

* Zaycain - had a miscarriage at 9 weeks, d&c on November 11. Waiting for hcg to drop down from 56000.

*KTJ (from North Carolina)- mmc at 10 weeks, hopes to start ttc right away for baby#3

*Kdmalk (Kylee) 24 year old bookworm in Arkansas ttc #1. mmc story: Baby measured small, but with a heartbeat at 7+6. Fund out the baby was no longer growing at 8+5 (baby still measuring 6+1 and no longer had a heartbeat). D&C on Nov. 4 at 9+5. BFN 22 days post D&C. TTC following first post-d&c AF.

* Coucou11 (Leigh): 33, DH 41, one daughter, almost 3. TTC #2. MMC - heartbeat at 6w5d. Baby passed away shortly after that. D&C Nov 21 at 12w3d. Waiting one cycle, hoping for a BFP in January!

* Fleur, almost 33, married for 3 years. Started TTC #1 in July, BFP in September, MMC & D&C in October at around 9 weeks. AF came 5 weeks after that.

*Hanrh - miscarriage At 13 weeks, d&c on November 7.


*Kels - had a mmc at 10 weeks; d&c 3 weeks ago. Planning to start ttc again right away!

*NDH (Natalie) ~ Canadian living in Australia. SAHM to 2 girls. 4th pregnancy ended Nov 20 at 10+3. Sac measured 7+4 and baby only 6w, passed naturally. Not waiting to try again and hopeful baby #3 will join us in 2015.

*JLW (Jamie )~ 32-year-old stay-at-home mom to two girls TTC 5th pregnancy, 2 angel babies and 2 living. I Love the Lord and my DH! We've been married for 8 1/2 years, he is a former U.S. soldier training to go into full time ministry!



 
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Old Nov 7th, 2014, 11:43 AM   2
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Old Nov 8th, 2014, 10:02 AM   3
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Hi! I'm not in exactly the same boat, but I lost my baby at 5w6d and I have seen you post around this forum so I feel like I know you a bit already. We are fortunately already blessed with my DS who is 16 months and are TTC number 2. I too have my down days. My HCG finally went down to 0 last week and I ovulated 2 days ago so we are on our way toward TTC our rainbow. I feel much more nervous TTC this time after experiencing a loss. Do you find yourself feeling nervous too?



 
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Old Nov 8th, 2014, 13:05 PM   4
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That's great! How long did it take to get down? I'm over 3 weeks now and still waiting . :/ But hopeful.

Are you waiting for AF to start ttc again?

I'm honestly not very nervous, just ready to be pregnant again. I'm sure that if I do, my nerves will get to me at some point. But I know that anything can happen at any point that worrying will not fix, so I just want to enjoy every moment.



 
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Old Nov 8th, 2014, 13:57 PM   5
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It took 2 1/2 weeks for it to go to 0 from just under 1,900. I asked my doctor about waiting, and he said since I miscarried naturally and with no complications that I can start trying again whenever I want to, so we baby danced and I have my fingers crossed for 2 weeks from now. I feel fortunate to have ovulated this cycle. I wasn't sure if it would happen or not since I heard it doesn't always for a lot of ladies.

Although my numbers have returned to 0 I can completely sympathize with the wait. It was so recently that I was taking pregnancy tests just waiting for that negative line to appear and I know how agonizing and frustrating it can be. Hang in there. It'll happen for you soon and you'll get to try again. Are you going to wait a cycle to try?

Also, I am so sorry for your loss (hugs)



 
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Old Nov 8th, 2014, 14:45 PM   6
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I'm not planning to wait at all, my doctor says that she just wants my number down to zero and then we could start.

I am okay today, still bleeding lightly. And we are visiting my sister in law who just had her baby 2 weeks ago. It's so nice to see them but also a little tough. :/ I think it would have been a lot harder if I was further along, but since I was still pretty far from being able to hold my baby anyway, I'm holding it together pretty well.



 
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Old Nov 10th, 2014, 09:10 AM   7
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Are you taking HPT to monitor your progress or is the doctor doing blood work?

I know what you mean about it being tough seeing other babies. A dear friend of mine is pregnant and it's difficult watching her belly grow and wondering what could have been. I confided in a friend recently about it (other than her, only DH knew), but she is constantly asking how I am doing and for some reason instead of making me feel better it is making me feel worse. I guess every time she asks it just brings up the feelings again.



 
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Old Nov 11th, 2014, 08:16 AM   8
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Hi there! I am hesitant to join because I just had a d&c on Friday at 10 weeks. I am devastated. I am in the process of mourning and healing but reading everyone's stories give me hope!

I don't want to ttc until after my next AF. Which I am assuming will be in the beginning of December. So I might be a little behind.. But support would be immense.

I just told a few friends and of course they were sweet about it.. But people don't really know unless they have been through it. Hell, I was insensitive to it until it happened to me.

Either way.. I would love to join a group as I stalk anyway.



 
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Old Nov 11th, 2014, 16:43 PM   9
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Welcome zaycain

So sorry for your loss. And so recently.

I didn't have a d and c so I don't know what that's like. How is your recovery? And how are you doing emotionally?

And talking to others has been good for me. I didn't realize how common it is and how many women have been through it until I had. So many women from my church and just others that I know all told me their stories about when it happened to them. I never thought it would be me, especially after I'd gotten to 12 weeks, I thought the risk was all behind me.



 
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Old Nov 11th, 2014, 16:56 PM   10
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Oh and Sil, I am doing home tests. My doctor wants me to go back for blood test but I won't until I get a negative at home. Pretty faint today but still noticeable.



 
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