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Old Jan 20th, 2017, 10:17 AM   1
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Heartbroken after miscarriage 13 weeks

hello All,

I suffered a miscarriage last tuesday i was exactly 13 weeks I even went to the Ob that day for a routine check up .. .About 10 at night start feeling like i had to go to bathroom and thats when it happened. It was very traumatizing. Yesterday i went to Doc for follow up and he advised me he believed the miscariage was caused by a SubChironic hematoma i had i cant seem to find any supporting evdidence that the hematoma could have caused it but theres no use now .. Just wanted to see how everyone is holding up with their losses cause i am complete mess. Doc says we can try again next time after period which i am not sure exactly when that will be... Any advice for me ? i am 35 i have a 3 year old son ..I know i have time to get pregnant, still cant believe this happpened to me Good luck ladies and lots of love and prayers sent ur way xoxoxo Sara

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Old Jan 20th, 2017, 12:17 PM   2
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Hi Sara. I just want to say how sorry I am for your loss. There are no easy answers, and it's a really tough path to walk down. But, at least for me, it was helpful to know that I wasn't alone. You aren't either. Thinking of you!

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Old Jan 23rd, 2017, 11:54 AM   3
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I'm so sorry. I know how you feel. I bawled every day for the first week after my last mc (12 weeks, just after xmas). Time heals all though. It's been almost 4 weeks now and I'm feeling much better. My doc wants me to wait a couple of cycles but we're not trying or preventing right now. I don't feel like I can lose a chance for a healthy pregnancy if it comes along this month. That has helped a lot I think.

Just keep trucking and know that next time will likely be okay. A miscarriage that late is devastating, but not a sign that it will happen again.

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