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Old Mar 18th, 2017, 11:32 AM   1
Veddersmum
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Every month feels like new loss


Hi lovely humans. After a blighted ovum in June, My Love (35) and I (40) began TTC again in October. The midwife I saw after the mc said after 6 months of no luck, we should both see a doctor for further evaluation. I am losing it! AF came today after a week of dark blue veins and sore bbs, neither of which have I had since I was pregnant last spring. Every time she comes it feels like another mc. I take prenatals, do opks, we use preseed, he takes a multi... can anyone think of anything more we can do? This is our last month. Every negative test and/or bloody tissue (tmi) feels like a new failure, another slap in the face, a fresh heartbreak... anyone else dealing with this? Love and babydust to all.



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Old Mar 20th, 2017, 09:12 AM   2
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Could have wrote this myself i usve had 3 losses. I was 3 weeks late this cycle loads of bfns doc said just one of those things. I have a doc appointment for fertility anyway so sort of expected bloods and maybe happy news. I always think i have a chance when there isnt. A lot of my friends are pg and it so depessing.

I took red clover blossom to conceive with my son. I have been taking it a while which helped but egg didnt stick. So this cycle i am taking red clover blossom vitex and macca. I am also taking baby asprin think u take that when u o to help the blood flow. Yoga to relax green leaf foods like kale rocket etc i am stopping caffine which is a killer bt i read anyone struggling should knock coffee on the head and cutting down sugar. There is a book on the bext fertikity food by zita west its really good. Nuts like sunflower sesame and chia. She also said in her book to have full fat dairy not diet. I am going to but the conception for him and her as well. Dh was gutted but he wants it to happen sooner than later hes 43 doesnt want a newborn at 45. I imagine the doc will want new blood test doing as well.i also read that any day u have ewcm u should bd. Literally everyone on here i have buddied with is either pg or had their baby (been trying 2 yrs) just really hope it happens soon



 
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Old Mar 20th, 2017, 21:12 PM   3
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It becomes harder each time. I was just saying to dh that i don't know how people do this for years... it hurts so much. You are brave and amazing! Don't give up!

I have been vegetarian for about a year now, so I already do all those leafy greens, but I had not heard of red clover. I just started researching maca root and fertility enhancing yoga poses. Thanks for the reply!

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