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Old Sep 16th, 2017, 15:03 PM   1051
elmum
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Yes! Every morning and some during the day. Still getting BFPs. I expect AF Monday based on when I believe I O'ed. My symptoms match with either early pregnancy or PMS. Still waiting!
Each day I convince myself I'm either pregnant or not. All day long! I'm on a big roller coaster and trying to be happy either way, so we can move forward.


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Sorry spiffy that af come! I hope this is your month!!
Elmum have you tested again? Xx



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2017, 15:08 PM   1052
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Sorry Spiffy. Fx that this is the month for you!
I am trying to not get my hopes up. I did contact my midwife on Friday and they said my HCG should be totally normal now. I'm still not 100% convinced. I've heard of more and more people where it takes 4-6 weeks. Anyway, still hoping I will get an answer either way soon and at least I'll know. I think it will help just to know. Because I am still so heartbroken over the recent loss. I just want to feel like I'm either okay physically and can TTC again or I'm pregnant. And through that, I can continue to mourn, but at least I'm not in limbo.

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Sorry for being absent. AF showed up yesterday, but I had such a wicked migraine all day that I only gave a brief update on my testing thread because I knew I'd want to write a longer response here.

Elum, my HCG didn't go back down to zero until about 4 and a half weeks after my miscarriage, so I hope this is a new pregnancy for you, but be prepared for that, just in case, because my tests got a little darker right before the end and it was so disappointing because I thought I might be pregnant again, but I wasnt. But if anybody deserves to be pregnant again right away, it's you. I just can't imagine having to deliver a 17 week old baby.

Mom15, I hope you can get some BDing in! Even if you have to get...creative.

Alligator, I think we also BD more than most of my married friends. And we have 4 kids! But we still manage to DTD about 4 times a week.



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2017, 15:59 PM   1053
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Elmum, if your midwife said your HCG should be normal right now, would she be willing to do a blood draw so you can confirm if this is a new pregnancy? I cant imagine how frustrating it must be to be in limbo like that! At least when my tests got darker after my muscarriage, it only lasted a day or two, and then it was a quick drop after that to negative.



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2017, 16:46 PM   1054
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Elmum are they getting darker? Xx



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2017, 20:30 PM   1055
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Got our bd in! Not in the woods, just snuck away to our cabin although I swear everyone knew what we did. Hahaha. It was a good one too, I wasn't exactly quiet 🙄😊



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2017, 21:17 PM   1056
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Mom15 LOL!!! Go girl!



 
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Old Sep 17th, 2017, 14:43 PM   1057
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Ha ha mom15!! Saucy!! Lol.



 
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Old Sep 17th, 2017, 23:59 PM   1058
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Still ewcm and it's getting more so hopefully my opk will darken. Will update tomorrow and hopefully we get another bding in

Lady - when will (if you are) test?



 
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Old Sep 18th, 2017, 09:48 AM   1059
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Hi ladies! Happy Monday
I've been reading through the threads a little here and there and finally feel like I can join in!
my hubby and I started TTC July and got pregnant right away.. but found out if was ectopic. Worst month of my life - all the pain/cramping and that was nothing compared to the emotional impact. Anyways.. I'm definitely doing better now, even though the sadness hits every now and then. I had to terminate my pregnancy on August 9th and my doctor recommended us to wait 3 months to TTC. Sooo I'm not quite there yet, but I thought I'd come and support all you wonderful ladies! It's great to be surrounded by positivity and hopefully a lot of BFPs soon



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Old Sep 18th, 2017, 09:58 AM   1060
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Welcome Lukbaby! I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how difficult a loss is, but cannot imagine the pain and fear of an ectopic. A few ladies in this group had to wait several months before trying again. I'm sure they will be happy to share their stories.

TTC after a loss and subsequent pregnancy after a loss are not easy, but I have found that being supported by wonderful ladies who get it really makes the journey a lot easier.



 
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