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Old May 31st, 2017, 18:46 PM   1
Trying to conceive (TTC)
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Multiple Losses, Losing Faith

How do you do this? How do we do this whole sickening process, just hoping that you might one day have a baby you get to keep, and hopefully not spend millions in the process???

I guess I'm just looking for someone else that has been here or is here where I am. Looking for anything at this point really to give me hope.

Most RE's don't have appointments until October (wtf?!). So I guess I'm just going to keep trying, and hopefully I don't have another loss before then.

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Old Jun 2nd, 2017, 03:40 AM   2
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I am so sorry for your losses. I know exactly how you feel because how you feel is where I was about 3 years ago. We started ttc in April 2011. 19 months later we finally got our first bfp but I miscarried at 6 weeks. We tried for another 11 months and got our 2nd bfp. Only to miscarry again at 6 weeks. We saw a FS who basically told us to go away. We had basic fertility tests and everything came back normal. He said to come back if we hadn't conceived within 2 years or if I had another miscarriage! I felt like we were trying for another miscarriage! Anyway after 7 months ttc I got my third bfp and it stuck! And finally in March 2015 I got my rainbow who is now a very busy and chatty 2 year old. We are now back ttc number 2. I just wanted to let you know that happy endings do happen. And even though it was the hardest few years and I thought many times, how do I go on trying! My little man was worth it and your rainbow will be too! I just hope for you that it won't be too much longer before they are in your arms.

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