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Old Feb 12th, 2018, 17:43 PM   91
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Poppie, I had faint lines till I started my first AF....about 5 1/2 weeks after D&C. Those were the longest days of my life and I cried every day. It will pass though I promise.



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Old Feb 12th, 2018, 17:55 PM   92
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So I caved and tested yesterday...BFN. If I had ovulated early I didnít catch then I think. So Iím kinda hoping i Oíed last week and that Iím not out this month. Iím still having to wake to use the restroom during the night. Donít think it was a UTI. If it was, I must have flushed it. Been having some weird sensations in one of my BBs today as well. Hoping It is not all in my head....been a real crappy month. Just today my DD doctor said she thought my DD has torn her rotator cuff so weíre off to the childrenís hospital tomorrow for a MRI. This would really suck because she wanted to swim at the collegiate level and this may sink all of her dreams.



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Old Feb 13th, 2018, 14:40 PM   93
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Aww Imready, I do hope it's not that bad, let us know how your daughter gets on. Sorry about today's bfn too, fingers crossed you are just too early!

I was out with my mum today and I was talking a bit about babies and my mc. I got a little upset and she said that she had been a bit more upset about this last one as she had been at a scan with me and seen something (a wee heart beat).....but she's over it now! Wtf?! Oh good for you mum! Then the usual crap....lucky to have 2 boys already, some people go on for years with none....*sigh*. My dad is better at talking about this stuff.

Anyway sorry, it just got to me a bit. Really all I needed was a hug and her to say something like yes it's rubbish.... Oh well. Xx



 
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Old Feb 14th, 2018, 14:14 PM   94
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Babybrain sorry for your mum not giving you the hug and support you wanted. Im sending you hugs over the internet. I think some people mean well but really don't get it. I remember my MIL after my first loss asked me 4 weeks after if I was all better now. As if I had just had the flu or something! Not sure if she meant it like this or not but in my emotional state I definitely took it like this. I do think you have to focus on what you do have. I know I am blessed to have DH and DS in my life and I wouldn't change it for the world. I find it gets me through some difficult times. But it doesn't stop me grieving my lost babies and me not wishing I had them too!



 
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Old Feb 15th, 2018, 17:08 PM   95
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Hey ladies, I have been a little quiet on here as I have been super busy helping my brother with his new baby! I tried to help out for the whole week but I got to day 3 and couldn't do it... I was literally guiding them on how to do certain things like bath breastfeed ect.. I was like did you guys not YouTube or go baby classes!! After day 3 of me bathing baby I was like you guys I'm not around forever you need to learn this for yourself smh!

I also found out my best friend who has been going through the toughest fertility investigation ever and drs telling her she won't ever have a natural pregnancy is pregnant!! To top it of her due date is 3 days off what my one would have been. What the hell are the chances of that?? I'm so close with her and so so happy for her after everything she's been through but her pregnancy will always be a reminder of what I lost. I'm like God give me a break man. Whenever I try to push mc to the back of my mind something drags it back again like a cruel joke!

How are you all in your cycle?? I think I may have o'd on the 8th but not sure. I took a test last week yesterday and today. All blazing negatives. My boobs dont hurt like they usually do in a cycle so not sure if everything is ticking correctly. I've got the thick cm so hoping af cones soon. I told DH we have to keep BD as that can sometimes bring AF on! I just want my body to restart because I want a 2018 baby so badly I only have until mid April for the seed to stick!!



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Old Feb 15th, 2018, 17:09 PM   96
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So I caved and tested yesterday...BFN. If I had ovulated early I didnít catch then I think. So Iím kinda hoping i Oíed last week and that Iím not out this month. Iím still having to wake to use the restroom during the night. Donít think it was a UTI. If it was, I must have flushed it. Been having some weird sensations in one of my BBs today as well. Hoping It is not all in my head....been a real crappy month. Just today my DD doctor said she thought my DD has torn her rotator cuff so weíre off to the childrenís hospital tomorrow for a MRI. This would really suck because she wanted to swim at the collegiate level and this may sink all of her dreams.
Fx for you girly. When do you think you may have o'd?



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Old Feb 15th, 2018, 17:11 PM   97
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Aww Imready, I do hope it's not that bad, let us know how your daughter gets on. Sorry about today's bfn too, fingers crossed you are just too early!

I was out with my mum today and I was talking a bit about babies and my mc. I got a little upset and she said that she had been a bit more upset about this last one as she had been at a scan with me and seen something (a wee heart beat).....but she's over it now! Wtf?! Oh good for you mum! Then the usual crap....lucky to have 2 boys already, some people go on for years with none....*sigh*. My dad is better at talking about this stuff.

Anyway sorry, it just got to me a bit. Really all I needed was a hug and her to say something like yes it's rubbish.... Oh well. Xx
Brain just let it go in one ear and out the other. My mum told me I need to keep my mind stronger... I'm like whatever as people that have never been through it would never understand



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Old Feb 16th, 2018, 10:43 AM   98
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So I caved and tested yesterday...BFN. If I had ovulated early I didnít catch then I think. So Iím kinda hoping i Oíed last week and that Iím not out this month. Iím still having to wake to use the restroom during the night. Donít think it was a UTI. If it was, I must have flushed it. Been having some weird sensations in one of my BBs today as well. Hoping It is not all in my head....been a real crappy month. Just today my DD doctor said she thought my DD has torn her rotator cuff so weíre off to the childrenís hospital tomorrow for a MRI. This would really suck because she wanted to swim at the collegiate level and this may sink all of her dreams.
Fx for you girly. When do you think you may have o'd?
Not really sure. Maybe last Tuesday. I took a cheapie HPT late yesterday afternoon and there was a vvvvfl at the 3:00 mark. I walked away for a few minutes and when I returned the line had gotten darker but it was still vf. Going to test again when I get home from work and probably again with fmu tomorrow morning.



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Old Feb 16th, 2018, 13:44 PM   99
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Good luck imready!



 
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Good luck imready, post us a pic xx



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