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Old May 13th, 2018, 23:23 PM   481
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May I join? We thought we were done with kids, but then get pregnant this year only to lose it. Being pregnant again and all the hopes/dreams that go with it made me realize I really would love another baby if we can. Not too hopeful (turn 40 this year), but would like to try while we still can.
So sorry for your losses fides, welcome to our little support group. Here's hoping it won't be too long before your rainbow. x



 
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Old May 14th, 2018, 12:42 PM   482
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So sorry for your loss fides, these ladies are amazing and so supportive. They helped me out tremendously



 
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Old May 16th, 2018, 07:14 AM   483
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How is everyone doing??

6dpo here and you know I'm going to be caving and testing early, probably on the weekend. Send all the baby dust pretty please. Nothing really to report symptom wise, really trying not to symptom spot. Yeah I'll probably be super bummed next week if af shows up, but i have a few distractions coming up so hopefully that'll help a bit.

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Old May 16th, 2018, 08:46 AM   484
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Hi ladies x

Congratulations w8ting!! I'm so happy for you. I hope everything is going ok

Welcome fides


Well, I've been keeping busy as we have a fundraiser for the nursery coming up and it's a big event that takes up a lot of time, so it's keeping me occupied. At home things haven't been good with my OH. To be honest I don't have the energy to even think about it or talk about it much. I don't know how to sort it out either.....he said if there aren't changes then he's gone. I think he just needs more appreciation for his work in the house (DIY going on, any cooking etc), for supporting us (he pays for nearly everything) he's angry at things left lying about or certain things not done....but there is so much to do! I can't explained myself anymore. So he has a fit about it every now and then but because I don't make big changes and I'm not house proud (it's a home with children and a dog, not a showroom) (my part time job also isn't a real job) he's gone proper off on one the past 2 weekends. Anyway I can only give you my side of things and i don't see what he's annoyed about which makes it worse. It's like living with a boss. Feel like I'm walking on eggshells constantly. I don't argue or say anything back now, any explanation is shot down, so I stay quiet.....it doesn't help but I really don't know what to say anymore.

So ttc.....well I don't think so. That's another thing, he really doesn't understand my grief.

I feel really hurt that clearly I don't mean enough to him if he would want to leave me cause the house isn't as tidy as he would want. Or that some things lying about make him think we (me or kids) don't appreciate the work and money he's put into renovating it.



 
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Old May 16th, 2018, 18:27 PM   485
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Oh BabyBrain, I'm so sorry you're having this difficult time with OH. I really don't know what to say but I hope you are looking after you.



 
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Old May 17th, 2018, 07:58 AM   486
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Thanks Poppie, yeah I dont even know what to say! Hes been fine past few days. I guess Im just waiting for him to kick off again.

Good luck for testing this weekend. Got my fingers crossed for you



 
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Old May 17th, 2018, 15:23 PM   487
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Hey brain, so so sorry you are feeling such strain in your life. Its balance and me and my husband are the same he can be a housewife and I can be the depressed bum but we make it work! I would get spurts of energy and the house would be dazzling and at other times I'm just to tired to do anything. I'm feeling more down now that it's been 2 months since my last miscarriage and still no signs of ovulation or af! Maybe your OH doesn't know how to express himself so he gets mad about small stuff but sometimes for people like that they like to find some order in things like that.

I hope you guys work it out. The stress cannot be good for either you two and the kids. We are always here if you need x



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Old May 18th, 2018, 19:02 PM   488
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Tested today, 9dpo. BFN. Despite some other promising and weird symptoms this week (like metallic taste in my mouth) I had a tiny bit of pink cm last night and then some red this morning on wiping. So I think I'm probably out if it doesn't get heavier today, I'll test tomorrow but if I do get AF I'm going to go to the Dr this week and talk about stuff as really think that my LP is too short now as I've had spotting at like 9/10 dpo the last few months before AF.



 
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Old May 19th, 2018, 03:39 AM   489
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Don't count yourself out still poppie. I only get a positive at 14dpo. I'm 9 weeks and no period and no signs of ovulation still. Really feeling my body is broken. Just had weird spotting for a couple of times.. any ideas?



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Old May 19th, 2018, 08:16 AM   490
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Don't count yourself out still poppie. I only get a positive at 14dpo. I'm 9 weeks and no period and no signs of ovulation still. Really feeling my body is broken. Just had weird spotting for a couple of times.. any ideas?
So sorry you're still waiting peanut. Have you been to see your Dr at all?



 
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