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Old Jan 31st, 2018, 21:15 PM   41
imready4it
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I’m going to completely go for it. I’ve had a kind of peace fill me today...especially after your kind words and inspiration. I can do this...I know I can...



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Old Feb 1st, 2018, 07:48 AM   42
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Thanks ladies, I really appreciate your support and glad I can speak to you all.

Thats fantastic imready!!!! See once you make the descision its like a weight has been lifted.

I was feeling better after speaking to my OH nearly 2 weeks ago, when I realised I wasnt silly for feeling the way I did and also ttc wasnt off the table. But its all back, uncertainty etc, due to this positive test. I so hope it goes away so I can move on soon.

Anyway, good luck!!



 
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Old Feb 1st, 2018, 20:13 PM   43
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I appreciate being able to talk to you ladies as well. I find it difficult speaking with women who haven’t been through this horrible ordeal. One of my best friends actually said, “perhaps the time just wasn’t right” when I told her about the miscarriage. I was so hurt. I wanted to say, “but you think the time was just right for your four children?”

Also, after going into a peaceful deep sleep last night I was awakened at 5:58 am by a phone call from a family member to inform me that one of the greatest men I had ever known, my uncle, had died suddenly from his rare cancer. My happiness was brought to an abrupt halt and my entire family is devastated. Once again fear and pain came crashing back...doubt and despair filling my mind.



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Old Feb 2nd, 2018, 00:20 AM   44
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Imready I'm so so sorry for your loss and at such a time in your life! We are always here if you need to talk xxx



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Old Feb 2nd, 2018, 04:44 AM   45
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I'm so very sorry, we are here for you



 
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Old Feb 2nd, 2018, 13:37 PM   46
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http://babyandbump.momtastic.com/att...1&d=1517600067

Ladies I have been testing from 28/1 top is from 28th and today's is at the bottom.. is o coming now? I'm so so co fused I thought it already went.. it's been 2 weeks plus since the d&c...



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Old Feb 2nd, 2018, 14:24 PM   47
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Its definitley darker at the bottom peanut. I hope you catch the egg!

Imready I am so sorry about your uncle. Thinking of you and your family. I know what you mean about people saying stupid things. I put my MIL in her place after my first loss. She asked 4 weeks after i miscarried if I was "all better now". I told her I wasn't ill, I lost my baby. Some people who have never been through it find it really difficult to understand. Some struggle to understand that its grief.



 
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Old Feb 3rd, 2018, 02:03 AM   48
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Just wanted to pop in and say hi (although I wish I wasn't). Recently lost a little bug at 6+6, found out at 8. I'm so impatient for things to get back to normal so we can try again. Not even a week since d&c and time is going so slow.

What have you all done to keep your mind off things while you wait?



 
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Old Feb 3rd, 2018, 12:52 PM   49
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Sorry for your loss Poppiebug

I booked a holiday. I spent a week or so doing my homework, looking for lodges/caravans/houses to rent. Deciding on the best area to be based etc. Dragged it out to keep my head busy.....turned out quite an expensive distraction but it made me feel a bit better and something to look forward to. Going to a holiday lodge near whitby in yorkshire first week of July.

Last year I did crafty things as a distraction. Painting christmas elf doors and chairs in August lol. It gives your mind a chance to wander and can help you get things in order.

I hope your cycle gets back to normal for you very quickly. Im really struggling as I think I had a bit of retained tissue but since Ive had a big bleed and passed a few bits, Im hoping my hpt goes bfn soon. Its a nightmare, so frustrating xx



 
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Old Feb 3rd, 2018, 13:09 PM   50
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poppie. I am sorry for your loss. During my last loss I completely spoiled DS. I took him out and bought him some pressies and then we planned and did days out. It was kind of escapism whilst I processed what happened. For a while I think I went into denial. But I gave myself time to heal and I feel in a much better place. It gets to me when I think I should be in my third trimester but I just try to be thankful and grateful that I have a loving DH and a gorgeous DS. And I hope I am lucky again in the not to distant future to have a rainbow. FX! Hope we all get our rainbows soon!



 
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