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Old Jan 18th, 2018, 08:55 AM   1
PeanutWhereRU
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Looking for TTC buddies after MC


Hey all,

Me and hubby were trying for 2 years for baby number 2, I got a bfp on 24th dec but sadly started bleeding on Jan 2nd which lasted 2 weeks! I just had a ERPC yesterday and am eager to start again as soon as I ovulate as I've heard some great stories about people falling pregnant straight after. My fist born is 3 years old and I am really wanting a side kick for him.

Did anyone have the surgery and felt they were ready and how long did it take for your tests to come back negative. I will test again in a week.. never have I ever wished for a negative test lol. Life does throw some curveballs!



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Old Jan 19th, 2018, 17:23 PM   2
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I had a D&C on 11.14 at 10w and it took approximately 5 weeks to test negative. It was very frustrating to say the least. I am currently in my first regular cycle after AF arrived approximately 6 weeks after surgery. Iím due for AF on Tuesday but am hoping for a miracle BFP!



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Old Jan 21st, 2018, 02:42 AM   3
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Hey girly, so sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand the frustration of wanting to be preg straight after.. I want to be preg again so I don't have to deal with the what ifs in my head... did you know when you ovulated after mc? Are you getting signs of AF?



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Old Jan 21st, 2018, 05:52 AM   4
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Hey ladies sorry for your losses I had 2 miscarriages before DS (who will be 3 in March), decided to ttc number 2, caught straight away but miscarried at 6 weeks. I decided to take a break for a few months and we are just about to start month 4 ttc for rainbow number 2. I hope you all catch again soon with sticky ones!



 
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Old Jan 21st, 2018, 09:00 AM   5
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Hey ladies sorry for your losses I had 2 miscarriages before DS (who will be 3 in March), decided to ttc number 2, caught straight away but miscarried at 6 weeks. I decided to take a break for a few months and we are just about to start month 4 ttc for rainbow number 2. I hope you all catch again soon with sticky ones!
Hey flou sorry about your mc's.. do they know what's causing it? My son was 3 in December and it took us 3 years to conceive him. I hate the longer waiting times more than anything!



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Old Jan 21st, 2018, 09:35 AM   6
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Hey girly, so sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand the frustration of wanting to be preg straight after.. I want to be preg again so I don't have to deal with the what ifs in my head... did you know when you ovulated after mc? Are you getting signs of AF?
My main reason for wanting to be pregnant again is because I will be 40 in May. I feel my biological clock is ticking very fast. I tracked my cm and believe I know when I Oíed. I donít really feel like AF is on her way but who knows?!?! Iíve been having lightning crotch pains for the past two days and one day last week. My CM has not dried up either and itís usually nonexistent right before AF. However, im not real sure how my body is supposed to behave after everything that has happened. I took a hPt yesterday at what I believe was 12dpo according to my app but it was a bfn. I took one on 10DPO and I thought I saw a vvvfl. I thought the subsequent test would definitely pick up a line but it didnít.



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Old Jan 21st, 2018, 14:25 PM   7
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Hey ladies sorry for your losses I had 2 miscarriages before DS (who will be 3 in March), decided to ttc number 2, caught straight away but miscarried at 6 weeks. I decided to take a break for a few months and we are just about to start month 4 ttc for rainbow number 2. I hope you all catch again soon with sticky ones!
Hey flou sorry about your mc's.. do they know what's causing it? My son was 3 in December and it took us 3 years to conceive him. I hate the longer waiting times more than anything!
They wont test me as my three losses have not been consecutive. They just put it down to bad luck. However I wonder if I have a clotting issue as I had pre eclampsia at the end of my pregnancy with DS. Apparently there is a link between that and the same clotting issue that can cause mc's. But then again it could be just bad luck. I'm just hoping my DS wasn't a fluke and I get another. I know what you mean about the waiting. We ttc for 19 months before we got our first bfp. And in total from deciding to ttc until I had DS in my arms took 4 years. Lets hope it doesn't take as long this time round!



 
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Old Jan 22nd, 2018, 16:05 PM   8
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I had a D&C on 11.14 at 10w and it took approximately 5 weeks to test negative. It was very frustrating to say the least. I am currently in my first regular cycle after AF arrived approximately 6 weeks after surgery. Iím due for AF on Tuesday but am hoping for a miracle BFP!
Hey girly fingers crossed for you. When are you testing? Was your AF normal after the mc? I am not sure what to expect as I've read so many different things..



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Old Jan 22nd, 2018, 16:11 PM   9
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Hey ladies sorry for your losses I had 2 miscarriages before DS (who will be 3 in March), decided to ttc number 2, caught straight away but miscarried at 6 weeks. I decided to take a break for a few months and we are just about to start month 4 ttc for rainbow number 2. I hope you all catch again soon with sticky ones!
Hey flou sorry about your mc's.. do they know what's causing it? My son was 3 in December and it took us 3 years to conceive him. I hate the longer waiting times more than anything!
They wont test me as my three losses have not been consecutive. They just put it down to bad luck. However I wonder if I have a clotting issue as I had pre eclampsia at the end of my pregnancy with DS. Apparently there is a link between that and the same clotting issue that can cause mc's. But then again it could be just bad luck. I'm just hoping my DS wasn't a fluke and I get another. I know what you mean about the waiting. We ttc for 19 months before we got our first bfp. And in total from deciding to ttc until I had DS in my arms took 4 years. Lets hope it doesn't take as long this time round!
Fingers crossed for you hun, where are you in this cycle? I'm just so lost with my positioning it's frustrating me more. Hubby is in the states for work so no bd for a week, I just hope I don't ovulate this week before he comes home!!

I used the moon cup method last month for the first time and got pg so I'm going to try that again for sure!



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Old Jan 22nd, 2018, 20:36 PM   10
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I tested this morning...BFN. I think Iím out...AF due tomorrow according to app. Whatís the moon cup method???



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