when did you try again?

9babiesgone · Jan 22nd, 2011, 20:41 PM

My husband and I agreed not to try again, till we know what is causing these miscarriages. I have had 9! I just really wanted to know when did you decide to try again, and if you did, how long till you got pregnant?

I am waiting at least an month or two before we try again, enough time to get all the tests done, and to get my body healed. I just miscarried at 12 weeks on the 17th of this month. so only a few days ago. so I can not imagine starting to try, very soon, bc I am pretty shook up.

dannigirly · Jan 23rd, 2011, 03:20 AM

Hi,really sorry for you loss. It must be tough for you, I can't even imagine what you must be going through. I had my first mc on nye, stopped bleeding on 4th jan and started ttc the next day after doctor gave us the ok. A friend of mine got bfp straight away and carried full term

Good luck whatever you choose x

deshka · Jan 23rd, 2011, 10:56 AM

9 babies gone iam soooo sorry for you.

9babiesgone · Jan 23rd, 2011, 11:41 AM

OMgosh I am so sorry for your losses. yeah I wanted to try right away, but until I knwo what is wrong I think it wouldnt be wise. so I am waiting. it just hurts to wait. and it hurts to have lost another one.

deshka · Jan 23rd, 2011, 12:06 PM

soz

Gem09 · Jan 23rd, 2011, 12:14 PM

Sorry for your losses ladies xxx

Im still waiting for my period, i miscarried naturally 38 days ago!
Ive said to hubby we wont be dtd till ive had my period, just so i know im 'ok' down there!

Like you Deshka i want a baby for xmas!

Fingers crossed for all of us! xxx

deshka · Jan 23rd, 2011, 15:25 PM

Gem 09

x

Lucia · Jan 23rd, 2011, 15:27 PM

I am so sorry. I have lost 4 little ones and the pain has been unbearable at times. 9...well, you are a very strong woman.

We waited 5 months after the first loss, 3 months after the second and this time around we waited 4 months because we had tests done and had to wait for the results. Good luck in whatever decision you make.

hollyrose · Jan 23rd, 2011, 15:36 PM

i have had two miscarriages. waited 8 months after the 1st as we were getting married and will just wait until i have my 1st proper period this time to start ttc again. would've tried straight away the 1st time if we hadn't booked our wedding!

9babiesgone · Jan 23rd, 2011, 19:32 PM

thanks for all your answers. I am just so torn between when to start agian. I just hope this testing doesnt take forever and a day. and I really just want to try for another baby! I am not trying to replace any that I Lost i am sure many of you understand.

Jan 22nd, 2011, 20:41 PM	#1
9babiesgone Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 3,803	when did you try again? My husband and I agreed not to try again, till we know what is causing these miscarriages. I have had 9! I just really wanted to know when did you decide to try again, and if you did, how long till you got pregnant? I am waiting at least an month or two before we try again, enough time to get all the tests done, and to get my body healed. I just miscarried at 12 weeks on the 17th of this month. so only a few days ago. so I can not imagine starting to try, very soon, bc I am pretty shook up.

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Jan 23rd, 2011, 03:20 AM	#2
dannigirly Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: London, UK Posts: 11	Hi,really sorry for you loss. It must be tough for you, I can't even imagine what you must be going through. I had my first mc on nye, stopped bleeding on 4th jan and started ttc the next day after doctor gave us the ok. A friend of mine got bfp straight away and carried full term Good luck whatever you choose x

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Jan 23rd, 2011, 10:56 AM	#3
deshka On a break (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: ??? Posts: 57	9 babies gone iam soooo sorry for you.

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Jan 23rd, 2011, 11:41 AM	#4
9babiesgone Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 3,803	OMgosh I am so sorry for your losses. yeah I wanted to try right away, but until I knwo what is wrong I think it wouldnt be wise. so I am waiting. it just hurts to wait. and it hurts to have lost another one.

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Jan 23rd, 2011, 12:06 PM	#5
deshka On a break (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: ??? Posts: 57	soz

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Jan 23rd, 2011, 12:14 PM	#6
Gem09 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Cleveland, UK Posts: 400	Sorry for your losses ladies xxx Im still waiting for my period, i miscarried naturally 38 days ago! Ive said to hubby we wont be dtd till ive had my period, just so i know im 'ok' down there! Like you Deshka i want a baby for xmas! Fingers crossed for all of us! xxx

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Jan 23rd, 2011, 15:25 PM	#7
deshka On a break (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: ??? Posts: 57	Gem 09 x

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Jan 23rd, 2011, 15:27 PM	#8
Lucia Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Canada Posts: 556	I am so sorry. I have lost 4 little ones and the pain has been unbearable at times. 9...well, you are a very strong woman. We waited 5 months after the first loss, 3 months after the second and this time around we waited 4 months because we had tests done and had to wait for the results. Good luck in whatever decision you make.

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Jan 23rd, 2011, 15:36 PM	#9
hollyrose Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 1,111	i have had two miscarriages. waited 8 months after the 1st as we were getting married and will just wait until i have my 1st proper period this time to start ttc again. would've tried straight away the 1st time if we hadn't booked our wedding!

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Jan 23rd, 2011, 19:32 PM	#10
9babiesgone Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 3,803	thanks for all your answers. I am just so torn between when to start agian. I just hope this testing doesnt take forever and a day. and I really just want to try for another baby! I am not trying to replace any that I Lost i am sure many of you understand.

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