Anyone else now trying again STRAIGHT after a mc? NTNP? - Page 3

Garnet · May 11th, 2011, 07:00 AM

I had two miscarriages and one a week before mother's day naturally. My doctor told me to wait one cycle but RE said okay if it was a natural miscarriage.

firsttimer1 · May 11th, 2011, 07:59 AM

clobo, we had sex and it felt..... different. not painful. Just different phyically. I think its cos we didnt do it the whole time i was pregnant as i was too scared! so maybe my body was like whooooah whats this lol!!!!

2nd time bk to normal tho

yer we are doing it every two days so tonights the night hahahahaha

i was tempted to buy a ov test today but ive managed to restrain myself as i really dont want to over think it!

how is your bleeding? I waited until it had fully stopped (which i sd was 9 days after the mc - think).

xxx

Garnet - where do u think doctors stand if you had a natural MC at home, but after taking the first med management pill and then being asked to take the last pills just in case?

i think tbh doctors say 1 month, 3 months or 6 months incase you have emotional healing to do. Not sure after a d&c as perhaps that effects lining? i dont know.

i just know that we feel ready to NTNP

firsttimer1 · May 11th, 2011, 08:01 AM

PS. WHAT PRENATAL (IF ANY) VITIMINS ARE YOU GIRLS TAKING?

im taking pregnacare ones for conception - but thats all xxx

Starlee · May 11th, 2011, 09:18 AM

Hi girls hope u dont mind me joining, im going through my 2nd mmc at the moment

, the 1st was in nov last yr

I opted for medical management 4 both of mine , this was a week gone tues and im still bleeding hoping it stops soon cos we really want 2 try again b4 af comes. Last time we waited for af but i dont think is really matters just really want 2 be a mammy. Big Hugs 2 every one

xx

Clobo · May 11th, 2011, 10:00 AM

Hi

I think different doctors say different things. Some say wait for one cycle as then its easier to date the pregnancy but i have PCOS and long cycles so hard to date anyway!!!!

Aw Starlee and Garnet, im so sorry for your losses and that you have had to go through this twice. I hope you are doing ok and I feel your impatience, im like that too!

Im on cd 10 and think the bleeding is now just spotting, im temperature charting so hopefully that will tell me when i ovulate and hopefully start the

next week!! Thanks First for the reassurance.

Im on the sanatogen multivit, folic acid and omega 3, i buy them when they are on offer as they are quite expensive!!

Does anyone else temp?? My chart is in my signature if anyone wants to stalk it, although its not very exciting at the moment!!!

xxxxx

PugLuvAh · May 11th, 2011, 13:11 PM

Thanks for this thread!

I also just m/c naturally (no D&C) at 5 weeks 5 days. Bleeding is tampering off and going to take a HPT on Friday in the hopes that its negative. I want to start trying right away and my husband is supportive of whatever I want to do. He's been so great through all of this.

I am still so sad, but I waited 10 months for my

...I am not sure how long I'll have to try for my next one. Plus, I was SO HAPPY for the 2 weeks I knew I was pregnant. I feel empty--I want the bloating/swollen boobs/nausea back. I don't want to take away from our loss, but by trying again I can focus on positive things.

I also read you can be even more fertile for a couple of months after a loss, so I am still taking my prenatal vitamin, B6/B12, and iron. Hopefully it'll happen again soon!!

Clobo · May 11th, 2011, 13:35 PM

Hi

Sorry to hear about your loss, it sounds like you have the right attitude, we all seem to be thinking the same on this thread. Yep its hard when you have been trying so long to think that it might take that long again ... im sure it wont though and i take great comfort in knowing now that it CAN happen, before i didnt know whether it ever would.

How cute is your pug!!! xxx

firsttimer1 · May 11th, 2011, 14:08 PM

starlee -ur more than welcome!!! i hop ur bleeding stops soon hun xxx

clobo im not temping as trying to just do nothing and hope for best heehee

pug let us know when u get ur BFN hun. i checked mine again today and am defo getting BFN's - does that mean my HCG levels are 0-5? im sooooooooooo tempted to check ov.... but NOT going to!!!!!

Mrs.W · May 11th, 2011, 14:19 PM

Hi can I join in please? I had a natural MC this weekend and I really want to start TTC again ASAP and take advantage of any fertility boost. I pray this is the only time I ever need to be thinking about and wanting my HCG levels to fall so quickly. I'm so glad I've found you all, sorry you are all in here too

Clobo · May 11th, 2011, 14:34 PM

Hi Mrs W, so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you are ok

Join the impatient club, yes ive heard you are more fertile for a few months after a mc ... im taking a digi on saturday to see what mine says, i agree, its the only time i ever want to see a "not pregnant"!!

First, wish i didnt have to temp!! Kind of used to doing it now and my chart gives me something to obsess over!!

Im thinking of trying acupuncture, anyone had it before for TTC or anything else??

xxxx

May 11th, 2011, 07:00 AM	#21
Garnet On a break (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: In the South Posts: 3,229	I had two miscarriages and one a week before mother's day naturally. My doctor told me to wait one cycle but RE said okay if it was a natural miscarriage.

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May 11th, 2011, 07:59 AM	#22
firsttimer1 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: south northants Posts: 7,164	clobo, we had sex and it felt..... different. not painful. Just different phyically. I think its cos we didnt do it the whole time i was pregnant as i was too scared! so maybe my body was like whooooah whats this lol!!!! 2nd time bk to normal tho yer we are doing it every two days so tonights the night hahahahaha i was tempted to buy a ov test today but ive managed to restrain myself as i really dont want to over think it! how is your bleeding? I waited until it had fully stopped (which i sd was 9 days after the mc - think). xxx Garnet - where do u think doctors stand if you had a natural MC at home, but after taking the first med management pill and then being asked to take the last pills just in case? i think tbh doctors say 1 month, 3 months or 6 months incase you have emotional healing to do. Not sure after a d&c as perhaps that effects lining? i dont know. i just know that we feel ready to NTNP

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May 11th, 2011, 08:01 AM	#23
firsttimer1 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: south northants Posts: 7,164	PS. WHAT PRENATAL (IF ANY) VITIMINS ARE YOU GIRLS TAKING? im taking pregnacare ones for conception - but thats all xxx

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May 11th, 2011, 09:18 AM	#24
Starlee Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 59	Hi girls hope u dont mind me joining, im going through my 2nd mmc at the moment , the 1st was in nov last yr I opted for medical management 4 both of mine , this was a week gone tues and im still bleeding hoping it stops soon cos we really want 2 try again b4 af comes. Last time we waited for af but i dont think is really matters just really want 2 be a mammy. Big Hugs 2 every one xx

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May 11th, 2011, 10:00 AM	#25
Clobo Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: UK Posts: 3,815	Hi I think different doctors say different things. Some say wait for one cycle as then its easier to date the pregnancy but i have PCOS and long cycles so hard to date anyway!!!! Aw Starlee and Garnet, im so sorry for your losses and that you have had to go through this twice. I hope you are doing ok and I feel your impatience, im like that too! Im on cd 10 and think the bleeding is now just spotting, im temperature charting so hopefully that will tell me when i ovulate and hopefully start the next week!! Thanks First for the reassurance. Im on the sanatogen multivit, folic acid and omega 3, i buy them when they are on offer as they are quite expensive!! Does anyone else temp?? My chart is in my signature if anyone wants to stalk it, although its not very exciting at the moment!!! xxxxx

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May 11th, 2011, 13:11 PM	#26
PugLuvAh Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 319	Thanks for this thread! I also just m/c naturally (no D&C) at 5 weeks 5 days. Bleeding is tampering off and going to take a HPT on Friday in the hopes that its negative. I want to start trying right away and my husband is supportive of whatever I want to do. He's been so great through all of this. I am still so sad, but I waited 10 months for my ...I am not sure how long I'll have to try for my next one. Plus, I was SO HAPPY for the 2 weeks I knew I was pregnant. I feel empty--I want the bloating/swollen boobs/nausea back. I don't want to take away from our loss, but by trying again I can focus on positive things. I also read you can be even more fertile for a couple of months after a loss, so I am still taking my prenatal vitamin, B6/B12, and iron. Hopefully it'll happen again soon!!

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May 11th, 2011, 13:35 PM	#27
Clobo Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: UK Posts: 3,815	Hi Sorry to hear about your loss, it sounds like you have the right attitude, we all seem to be thinking the same on this thread. Yep its hard when you have been trying so long to think that it might take that long again ... im sure it wont though and i take great comfort in knowing now that it CAN happen, before i didnt know whether it ever would. How cute is your pug!!! xxx

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May 11th, 2011, 14:08 PM	#28
firsttimer1 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: south northants Posts: 7,164	starlee -ur more than welcome!!! i hop ur bleeding stops soon hun xxx clobo im not temping as trying to just do nothing and hope for best heehee pug let us know when u get ur BFN hun. i checked mine again today and am defo getting BFN's - does that mean my HCG levels are 0-5? im sooooooooooo tempted to check ov.... but NOT going to!!!!!

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May 11th, 2011, 14:19 PM	#29
Mrs.W Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 409	Hi can I join in please? I had a natural MC this weekend and I really want to start TTC again ASAP and take advantage of any fertility boost. I pray this is the only time I ever need to be thinking about and wanting my HCG levels to fall so quickly. I'm so glad I've found you all, sorry you are all in here too

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May 11th, 2011, 14:34 PM	#30
Clobo Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: UK Posts: 3,815	Hi Mrs W, so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you are ok Join the impatient club, yes ive heard you are more fertile for a few months after a mc ... im taking a digi on saturday to see what mine says, i agree, its the only time i ever want to see a "not pregnant"!! First, wish i didnt have to temp!! Kind of used to doing it now and my chart gives me something to obsess over!! Im thinking of trying acupuncture, anyone had it before for TTC or anything else?? xxxx

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