Baby Blues

Nerdy Girl · Dec 16th, 2011, 14:25 PM

Today is one of those days where I just want to get into bed throw the covers over my head and cry forever.

I feel so discouraged and depressed. I have regular cycles,and no problem getting pregnant. I got pregnant in late June because our condoms broke... once. Had a m/c, then got pregnant again after my first cycle after m/c. Then m/c'ed again in Nov. The problem seems to be in keeping my baby. My doctor did a full spectrum of blood and physical tests, there were no problems. The only disease I have is asthma. I am not under weight or obese, I eat healthy, I exercise(not ridiculously hard), I don't smoke or drink, and I live in a safe environment. I do not understand how this happened twice in 6 months. I really hope the next time the baby sticks. My first pregnancy I was 16 and a lot went wrong. I know why I miscarried it was lack of knowledge of pregnancy. So many things went wrong. I have no babies yet but I still have hope. I can't help but to feel like the hope is no use, but I still have it.

Twinkie210 · Dec 16th, 2011, 16:58 PM

So sorry for you losses! Just know what you feel is normal. We all have those days, but we have to keep moving forward, one step at a time. I hope you get your rainbow soon!

tryingfaith · Dec 16th, 2011, 18:45 PM

Im sorry you're feeling this way today...It seems we all have those days....or weeks for that matter. Have your doctors check your progesterone levels...that could be an issue...progesterone helps that little bean stick..hope that helps.=)

wantingathird · Dec 16th, 2011, 19:13 PM

Hang in there hun! Don't give up. I have had 2 miscarriages & I would NOT have my beautiful girls if I would have given up!!

Baby dust to you!

marylion · Dec 16th, 2011, 19:54 PM

hi,
I'm sorry you are feeling so sad.
I had my son when I was 18. After his birth I experienced 2 early miscarriages, then went on to have another son & daughter.
I can understand that you want to burrow under your covers & cry. I just wanted to let you know that I had healthy pregnancies both before & after my miscarriages.
Don't give up! You'll have your sticky bean before you know it! xx

Dec 16th, 2011, 14:25 PM	#1
Nerdy Girl Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Usa, Massachusetts Posts: 74	Baby Blues Today is one of those days where I just want to get into bed throw the covers over my head and cry forever. I feel so discouraged and depressed. I have regular cycles,and no problem getting pregnant. I got pregnant in late June because our condoms broke... once. Had a m/c, then got pregnant again after my first cycle after m/c. Then m/c'ed again in Nov. The problem seems to be in keeping my baby. My doctor did a full spectrum of blood and physical tests, there were no problems. The only disease I have is asthma. I am not under weight or obese, I eat healthy, I exercise(not ridiculously hard), I don't smoke or drink, and I live in a safe environment. I do not understand how this happened twice in 6 months. I really hope the next time the baby sticks. My first pregnancy I was 16 and a lot went wrong. I know why I miscarried it was lack of knowledge of pregnancy. So many things went wrong. I have no babies yet but I still have hope. I can't help but to feel like the hope is no use, but I still have it.

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Dec 16th, 2011, 16:58 PM	#2
Twinkie210 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Illinois Posts: 5,829	So sorry for you losses! Just know what you feel is normal. We all have those days, but we have to keep moving forward, one step at a time. I hope you get your rainbow soon!

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Dec 16th, 2011, 18:45 PM	#3
tryingfaith Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: California Posts: 140	Im sorry you're feeling this way today...It seems we all have those days....or weeks for that matter. Have your doctors check your progesterone levels...that could be an issue...progesterone helps that little bean stick..hope that helps.=)

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Dec 16th, 2011, 19:13 PM	#4
wantingathird Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: USA Posts: 11	Hang in there hun! Don't give up. I have had 2 miscarriages & I would NOT have my beautiful girls if I would have given up!! Baby dust to you!

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Dec 16th, 2011, 19:54 PM	#5
marylion Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: united states Posts: 61	hi, I'm sorry you are feeling so sad. I had my son when I was 18. After his birth I experienced 2 early miscarriages, then went on to have another son & daughter. I can understand that you want to burrow under your covers & cry. I just wanted to let you know that I had healthy pregnancies both before & after my miscarriages. Don't give up! You'll have your sticky bean before you know it! xx

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