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View Poll Results: Might seem a bit pointless, but I'm bored, so How many cycles have you been TTC???
1 16 39.02%
2 7 17.07%
3 1 2.44%
4 3 7.32%
5 3 7.32%
6+ 11 26.83%
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Old Feb 9th, 2012, 21:04 PM   #81
littlemama16
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hello ladies i started my first period 9th feb after my 2nd miscarriage on the 11th of jan (day before my wedding :/) me and my husband are going to start trying agin straight away and am hoping and FX that i will to get my BFP in march, i have a bicornuate uterus which means heart shaped so unfortnatly am more prone to miscarriages but hopefully my next little bean will stick, good luck and hope we all get our BFP's soon
baby dust to all xx


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Old Feb 10th, 2012, 06:12 AM   #82
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2inlove: Good luck with your HCG results. Hope they are where you want them to be

littlemama: Hiya Oh what an awful day to start your AF! Right before your wedding! Fingers crossed that we all get those BFP's very soon!


 
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Old Feb 10th, 2012, 06:41 AM   #83
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Hello ladies, can i join in? Our little angel Olivia was taken from us at 21 weeks on the 18th of Jan, and am still bleeding now and don't know whether to try when this bleeding stops or wait to have a period? **sigh** xx


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Old Feb 10th, 2012, 06:45 AM   #84
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Hello ladies, can i join in? Our little angel Olivia was taken from us at 21 weeks on the 18th of Jan, and am still bleeding now and don't know whether to try when this bleeding stops or wait to have a period? **sigh** xx
Hiya, welcome to the thread

Really sorry to hear about your loss hun I hope the bleeding stops for you soon, I know how agonising the wait is from my recent experience As for trying again, most people say try whenever you feel ready to, when you feel healthy enough, emotionally and physically We started trying again as soon as the bleeding stopped but I still got my AF!


 
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Old Feb 10th, 2012, 06:58 AM   #85
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We really want to try straight away, but part of me thinks what if there was something wrong that I need to know about before trying? At the same am petrified of not conceiving again or it taking ages Sorry for your loss too hun xx


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Old Feb 10th, 2012, 07:07 AM   #86
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We really want to try straight away, but part of me thinks what if there was something wrong that I need to know about before trying? At the same am petrified of not conceiving again or it taking ages Sorry for your loss too hun xx
Thank you hun If you are worried that there might be something wrong hun, you could always make a doctors appointment and get checked over? I had a natural miscarriage, no D&C or anything needed. I never got told anything like how long to wait etc so I just assumed it was ok. I think the exact same thing hun, wondering if it will take a while or if we do conceive then will the same thing happen etc, I guess we just have to try and not let it worry us too much. (Easier said than done I know) xx


 
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Old Feb 10th, 2012, 07:47 AM   #87
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Thank you it was meant to say I had my miscarriage the day before
My wedding silly iPhone lol xx


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Old Feb 10th, 2012, 07:47 AM   #88
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Thank you hun If you are worried that there might be something wrong hun, you could always make a doctors appointment and get checked over? I had a natural miscarriage, no D&C or anything needed. I never got told anything like how long to wait etc so I just assumed it was ok. I think the exact same thing hun, wondering if it will take a while or if we do conceive then will the same thing happen etc, I guess we just have to try and not let it worry us too much. (Easier said than done I know) xx[/QUOTE]

I had a scan and they found out that her heart had stopped, so I doidn't go naturally into labour or have my water break too early so i'm not sure? I just keep wondering what did I do to deserve it? I mean, I know know one deserve it, but....I dunno....

Will I go straight into my period or will I have a few weeks before it? Or is it different for everyone? xx


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Old Feb 10th, 2012, 08:08 AM   #89
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Welcome Miss Mitch and LMamma. Of course you are both welcome here and I so relate to your feeling in your losses. Let's all spread out our baby dust for our BFPs' in the next month


 
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Old Feb 10th, 2012, 10:09 AM   #90
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littlemama: That's awful

Miss Mitch: So sorry to hear that hun Nobody deserves what we have been through but remember, it's not your fault. Unfortunately it's a natural thing and something we can't do anything about! It varies from person to person hun, some get their period as normal but for others it could take a bit longer. It's estimated somewhere between 6-8 weeks, although I was 6 and a half weeks pregnant when I had my MC and I got my AF 4 weeks and 5 days later xx


 
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