TTC #1 After An Early MC Buddies Needed - Page 11

Alandsa · Feb 21st, 2012, 18:31 PM

Aww Melly I just had the same feeling just now! I have literally just written about it in my TTC journal. Felt sad that a new baby would be taking my pumpkins home

Even though I would obviously be so excited to get my BFP it feels sad like this has tainted by first pregnancy experience

Think we just need to give ourselves permission to feel sad some days and okay on others x

StayHopeful · Feb 21st, 2012, 20:41 PM

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Originally Posted by BabyHopes.

I'm so glad I found you guys - Thanks Alandsa for pointing me in this direction!
This is all VERY VERY new, just happened yesterday/today, and I'm struggling. I'm getting a lot of 'it was so early, you shouldn't be that upset' from less than supportive people. Yes, I was only 4+3 weeks, that doesn't mean I didn't love my to-be-pumpkin and the thought of what she/he would have brought to my life. I'm unsure whether I should get right back on the wagon, or take a break. This was only my second cycle TTC so I feel pretty deflated. Do most people only have to go through this once? Is it as common as they say? Is it safe to try and go right back into active TTC?

When does it stop hurting - physically and emotionally???

BabyHopes, I am so sorry for your loss. I was almost 5 weeks when I lost my little bean and I'm still struggling. It's not the overwhelming feeling I had at first, but it's still hard. I'm not sure if I'm back to normal physically, I've been cramping and achy for the past week, but it seemed like I was fine for a while. Still no AF and it's been 36 days since I started bleeding... I got my BFP on my first cycle off BC, so not sure what a regular cycle looks like for me, but we want to TTC again and the waiting is driving me nuts. My doctor said we could try again right away, that waiting a cycle would just make it easier for dating purposes.

Hope1409 · Feb 21st, 2012, 20:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Excalibur

I am 1DPO

Hope: When you get a Smiley face you should Ovulate 12 - 36 hours after I think it is?

Anyone correct me if I'm wrong please? Don't want to give false information out

Thanks Excalibur. Yeah I normally do ovulate 2 days after I get the smiley, but getting the discharge yesterday threw me off. I know last month I didn't ovulate until about 3 or 4 days after the smiley and I know this because of my LP (i counted backwards to find this out, lol). But then again I was under a lot of stress last month with family health concerns so that probably delayed it. I guess we will find out soon after this tww is over! good luck ladies

cancerlib · Feb 22nd, 2012, 01:11 AM

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Originally Posted by BabyHopes.

I'm so glad I found you guys - Thanks Alandsa for pointing me in this direction!
This is all VERY VERY new, just happened yesterday/today, and I'm struggling. I'm getting a lot of 'it was so early, you shouldn't be that upset' from less than supportive people. Yes, I was only 4+3 weeks, that doesn't mean I didn't love my to-be-pumpkin and the thought of what she/he would have brought to my life. I'm unsure whether I should get right back on the wagon, or take a break. This was only my second cycle TTC so I feel pretty deflated. Do most people only have to go through this once? Is it as common as they say? Is it safe to try and go right back into active TTC?

When does it stop hurting - physically and emotionally???

Oh my! So sorry for your loss. I got my BFP 3rd month TTC and was 5+1wks when i lost my LO, i was so devastated but i believe there's a reason for everythng. A lot of people simply dont know what to say to a woman who lost a baby. Darn those people saying 'It was so early, you shouldn't be that upset' . Do they know what u went thru to get d BFP in d first place? All d sleepless nights,BDing even when not in the mood,waiting faithfully for O,and hoping in the TWW, buying this and trying that ?. Oooooo DARN them all.
**crying**

cancerlib · Feb 22nd, 2012, 01:33 AM

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Originally Posted by cancerlib

Oh my! So sorry for your loss. I got my BFP 3rd month TTC and was 5+1wks when i lost my LO, i was so devastated but i believe there's a reason for everythng. A lot of people simply dont know what to say to a woman who lost a baby. Darn those people saying 'It was so early, you shouldn't be that upset' . Do they know what u went thru to get d BFP in d first place? All d sleepless nights,BDing even when not in the mood,waiting faithfully for O,and hoping in the TWW, buying this and trying that ?. Oooooo DARN them all.
**crying**

U can start TTC whenever u are ready. I bled for 3days and had a very small spotting on the 5th day. I MCed Feb 1st and Oed Feb 16th.
Cry all u want,vent and rant,sulk, do everything, its better than keeping your emotions in.
GL to us all,praying for our RAINBOW babies soon.

Excalibur · Feb 22nd, 2012, 02:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Hope1409

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Originally Posted by Excalibur

I am 1DPO

Hope: When you get a Smiley face you should Ovulate 12 - 36 hours after I think it is?

Anyone correct me if I'm wrong please? Don't want to give false information out

Thanks Excalibur. Yeah I normally do ovulate 2 days after I get the smiley, but getting the discharge yesterday threw me off. I know last month I didn't ovulate until about 3 or 4 days after the smiley and I know this because of my LP (i counted backwards to find this out, lol). But then again I was under a lot of stress last month with family health concerns so that probably delayed it. I guess we will find out soon after this tww is over! good luck ladies

You're welcome hun

Yeah, stress can delay things like that, annoying right?

I was like that when I spotted discharge, my first AF after MC, the day I stopped bleeding, I had EWCM, I thought I can't be Ovulating so early can I? Anyway, it wasn't Ovulation, but during the time around O, I didn't have any EWCM, just white discharge?

Good luck

StayHopeful · Feb 22nd, 2012, 06:42 AM

BFN this morning

cancerlib · Feb 22nd, 2012, 06:53 AM

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Originally Posted by StayHopeful

BFN this morning

Oo so sorry about that.At how many DPO?

Alandsa · Feb 22nd, 2012, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by cancerlib

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Originally Posted by StayHopeful

BFN this morning

Oo so sorry about that.At how many DPO?

sorry to hear that .. as cancerlib said, how many dpo are you?

Excalibur · Feb 22nd, 2012, 16:25 PM

StayHopeful: Sorry to hear about the BFN hun

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Alandsa Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Leicestershire, UK Posts: 1,308	Aww Melly I just had the same feeling just now! I have literally just written about it in my TTC journal. Felt sad that a new baby would be taking my pumpkins home Even though I would obviously be so excited to get my BFP it feels sad like this has tainted by first pregnancy experience Think we just need to give ourselves permission to feel sad some days and okay on others x

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StayHopeful Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Texas, USA Posts: 678	BFN this morning

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Excalibur Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Leeds, UK Posts: 6,784	StayHopeful: Sorry to hear about the BFN hun

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