TTC #1 After An Early MC Buddies Needed - Page 31

cancerlib · Apr 9th, 2012, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Hope1409

Hi...finishing up round two of clomid tomorrow, hoping to get the bfp this month

I plan to start mucinex on Friday to help with cm and of course bd every other day using Preeseed until I ovul, then it'd bd every day lol.

Hi dearie. Am very pessimistic about this cycle. 7DPO today and no sign at all. Moving on to clomid next cycle. What side effects did u get?

Hope1409 · Apr 9th, 2012, 17:40 PM

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Originally Posted by cancerlib

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Originally Posted by Hope1409

Hi...finishing up round two of clomid tomorrow, hoping to get the bfp this month

I plan to start mucinex on Friday to help with cm and of course bd every other day using Preeseed until I ovul, then it'd bd every day lol.

Hi dearie. Am very pessimistic about this cycle. 7DPO today and no sign at all. Moving on to clomid next cycle. What side effects did u get?

luckily i get no side effects while on clomid. i just had the dry cm last time around and i had intense cramping and bloating the day of ovulation which i never get or feel. and my nipples were tender around ovulation time.

i try and stay positive as much as i can but somewhere along the weeks, my positivity fades. how do we "not want this so bad" so it can finally happen to us! i dont even know where this last year went because i have been eating, sleeping, breathing, thinking baby. especially after the mc, when we actually got pregnant then it was gone so quick and now its like we cant even get pregnant again. i dont know whether to vent or cry or both!!!!

xopiinkiieox · Apr 9th, 2012, 19:57 PM

We've only been trying since January...and babies are all I think about too. It's hard not to when you want something so badly and you're surrounded by babies all the time! Maybe it's just me, but it seems like everyone is pregnant or having babies...BUT me!

Since my MC, I'm so awful...always thinking "why can't that be me" or "that should be me" before "congrats" even pops into my head. It makes me feel awful, but I can't help it!!

Now I'm terrified we won't get another BFP, or we will get one and have another MC. Honestly, I'm not sure which scares me more now. :0(

FX and dust for you lovelies!! So hoping you get your BFPs and sticky beans soon!!!

StayHopeful · Apr 9th, 2012, 20:38 PM

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Originally Posted by xopiinkiieox

We've only been trying since January...and babies are all I think about too. It's hard not to when you want something so badly and you're surrounded by babies all the time! Maybe it's just me, but it seems like everyone is pregnant or having babies...BUT me!

Since my MC, I'm so awful...always thinking "why can't that be me" or "that should be me" before "congrats" even pops into my head. It makes me feel awful, but I can't help it!!

Now I'm terrified we won't get another BFP, or we will get one and have another MC. Honestly, I'm not sure which scares me more now. :0(

FX and dust for you lovelies!! So hoping you get your BFPs and sticky beans soon!!!

I feel the same way, I always think that before congrats and I feel like a lousy person, but I can't help myself. So many people just get pregnant by accident, why does it have to be so freaking hard for us? And I agree, a bfp with the possibility of going through a mc again scares me just as much.

I'm 13dpo and really struggling with staying positive. I tested yesterday, bfn. I was so sure it would be positive

so I'm having a rough time. I want to test again like crazy, but I'm scared to.

xopiinkiieox · Apr 9th, 2012, 20:53 PM

FX for you! I can only imagine. I'm 3dpo, and am trying not to get my hopes up, but feel like I just HAVE to get a BFP...so frustrating!

Lots of positive thoughts for a BFP coming your way!

StayHopeful · Apr 9th, 2012, 21:13 PM

Thanks! Trying to keep busy to stay sane. I've been cramping today but no spotting or anything...we'll see how many more days I can make it before I test.

cancerlib · Apr 10th, 2012, 01:38 AM

Hope1409,
Stayhopeful

. ,were u monitored? Will u continue clomid next cycle?

StayHopeful · Apr 10th, 2012, 06:27 AM

I was monitored, my doc did a scan but not 21 day bloodwork. He wants to decrease me to 25mg next Cycle if this one doesn't stick, but I'll definitely do Clomid again because I wasn't o'ing on my own.

I took my bbt this morning (14dpo) and it had dropped quite a bit.

cancerlib · Apr 10th, 2012, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by StayHopeful

I was monitored, my doc did a scan but not 21 day bloodwork. He wants to decrease me to 25mg next Cycle if this one doesn't stick, but I'll definitely do Clomid again because I wasn't o'ing on my own.

I took my bbt this morning (14dpo) and it had dropped quite a bit.

Oh my,am so sorry. I Dont think this is my month either **nope**

Little J · Apr 10th, 2012, 11:28 AM

Hi Ladies,
March 4th i lost my little one at 5 weeks exactly. I google everyday to try and find success stories and women who go onto having littles ones after a MC. I am so confused right now as this is my first cycle after the MC. I am on CD 38 with no AF. Usually I have a 33-34 day cycle.... i have been really crampy for the past week and a half and really sore BB's. Also getting slight vertigo/dizzy feeling like i did when i first got my BFP with my first pregnancy (only to lose it at 5 weeks) but this time around is not as drastic....i dont know if its just my hormones going crazy or if maybe I am pregnant again. I did a test yesterday afternoon and BFN :/ I dont know when to test again or when to expect an AF? so frustrating....

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xopiinkiieox Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: IL, USA Posts: 1,503	We've only been trying since January...and babies are all I think about too. It's hard not to when you want something so badly and you're surrounded by babies all the time! Maybe it's just me, but it seems like everyone is pregnant or having babies...BUT me! Since my MC, I'm so awful...always thinking "why can't that be me" or "that should be me" before "congrats" even pops into my head. It makes me feel awful, but I can't help it!! Now I'm terrified we won't get another BFP, or we will get one and have another MC. Honestly, I'm not sure which scares me more now. :0( FX and dust for you lovelies!! So hoping you get your BFPs and sticky beans soon!!!

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xopiinkiieox Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: IL, USA Posts: 1,503	FX for you! I can only imagine. I'm 3dpo, and am trying not to get my hopes up, but feel like I just HAVE to get a BFP...so frustrating! Lots of positive thoughts for a BFP coming your way!

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StayHopeful Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Texas, USA Posts: 704	Thanks! Trying to keep busy to stay sane. I've been cramping today but no spotting or anything...we'll see how many more days I can make it before I test.

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cancerlib Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 562	Hope1409, Stayhopeful. ,were u monitored? Will u continue clomid next cycle?

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StayHopeful Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Texas, USA Posts: 704	I was monitored, my doc did a scan but not 21 day bloodwork. He wants to decrease me to 25mg next Cycle if this one doesn't stick, but I'll definitely do Clomid again because I wasn't o'ing on my own. I took my bbt this morning (14dpo) and it had dropped quite a bit.

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Apr 10th, 2012, 11:28 AM	#310
Little J Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: WI, USA Posts: 1,509	Hi Ladies, March 4th i lost my little one at 5 weeks exactly. I google everyday to try and find success stories and women who go onto having littles ones after a MC. I am so confused right now as this is my first cycle after the MC. I am on CD 38 with no AF. Usually I have a 33-34 day cycle.... i have been really crampy for the past week and a half and really sore BB's. Also getting slight vertigo/dizzy feeling like i did when i first got my BFP with my first pregnancy (only to lose it at 5 weeks) but this time around is not as drastic....i dont know if its just my hormones going crazy or if maybe I am pregnant again. I did a test yesterday afternoon and BFN :/ I dont know when to test again or when to expect an AF? so frustrating....

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