How long after m/c did you try again? - Page 2

mistymorningk · Mar 8th, 2012, 08:50 AM

Thats great news

. Im so excited to try again im just going to keep positive

Jessica28 · Mar 8th, 2012, 08:55 AM

The doctor who performed my d & c said that we could start trying again whenever we felt ready but my family doctor suggested we wait three cycles. I didn't listed and have been ttc ever since but with no luck. Waiting on my second AF now.

Jessica28 · Mar 8th, 2012, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by confusedprego

I had a missed miscarriage that ended in a D&C at 9 weeks. The baby only measured 6.5wks though. We waited two normal AFs before trying again and caught the first egg and all is well so far!

So sorry for your loss and best of luck to you!

You said you waited two Afs before trying again. How many days apart were your cycles? My first cycle came 36 days after the m/c and am current;y waiting for my second AF and it is CD 30 and still no sign so I am thinking another 36 day cycle this time around? Or did you stay regular?

ChiGirl18 · Mar 8th, 2012, 21:15 PM

@ kitten
i just went through a mc. i lost my baby on feb 28. wondering when to start trying too... can't decide if we should try now or wait a cycle. what are you going to do?

OohLaLa · Mar 8th, 2012, 22:07 PM

Kitten

I just miscarried on March 2. It happened naturally and I would have been just 7 weeks that day. We are starting right away. Hoping to not have AF for another nine months!

confusedprego · Mar 9th, 2012, 05:50 AM

It took 41 days for my first AF to come and 31 days on the second I believe. My next cycle that I got pregnant on I ovulated on cd15 like usual. So it took to that 3rd cycle to get back to normal. I was glad we waited not only for physical recovery but also mentally. I squeezed in all the things I loved doing that i wouldn't be able to do while pregnant - sushi, wine, painting the house, etc.

Good luck to you! I charted even when I wasn't ttc so I could know when I ovulated and had an idea when AF would show. Made me feel like I had control over something.

ChiGirl18 · Mar 9th, 2012, 09:55 AM

oohlala - are you charting? how long are your usual cycles? I think we will be on a similar track since we had our mc's around the same time.

Benim · Mar 9th, 2012, 10:42 AM

At least 3 month for me after ectopic.

kittenclare · Mar 9th, 2012, 13:56 PM

Ohlala im going to carry on as normal not doing opks but not using protection and just see how we get on.
Xx

OohLaLa · Mar 9th, 2012, 23:06 PM

Chi -

So sorry for your loss. How far along were you? I have never done temps, but used opks since we started TTC. I was only on my second month off the pill when I got pregnant so I didn't really have time to get to know my cycle. My first was only 24 days which seemed way shorter than I remember them before birth control. The second month I ovulated CD17, which makes a little more sense as I think my cycles were around 30 days in length.

I just bought some opks to use this month as I am curious as to when (if) I will ovulate. We should compare notes if you are doing the same.

Btw, are you still spotting? Seems as though every time I think I am done it starts back up again, though today was my longest spell without anything.

Mar 8th, 2012, 08:50 AM	#11
mistymorningk Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: tennessee Posts: 46	Thats great news . Im so excited to try again im just going to keep positive

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Mar 8th, 2012, 08:55 AM	#12
Jessica28 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Canada Posts: 1,873	The doctor who performed my d & c said that we could start trying again whenever we felt ready but my family doctor suggested we wait three cycles. I didn't listed and have been ttc ever since but with no luck. Waiting on my second AF now.

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Mar 8th, 2012, 21:15 PM	#14
ChiGirl18 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Tennessee Posts: 133	@ kitten i just went through a mc. i lost my baby on feb 28. wondering when to start trying too... can't decide if we should try now or wait a cycle. what are you going to do?

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Mar 8th, 2012, 22:07 PM	#15
OohLaLa Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 13	Kitten I just miscarried on March 2. It happened naturally and I would have been just 7 weeks that day. We are starting right away. Hoping to not have AF for another nine months!

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Mar 9th, 2012, 05:50 AM	#16
confusedprego Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Maryland, USA Posts: 1,330	It took 41 days for my first AF to come and 31 days on the second I believe. My next cycle that I got pregnant on I ovulated on cd15 like usual. So it took to that 3rd cycle to get back to normal. I was glad we waited not only for physical recovery but also mentally. I squeezed in all the things I loved doing that i wouldn't be able to do while pregnant - sushi, wine, painting the house, etc. Good luck to you! I charted even when I wasn't ttc so I could know when I ovulated and had an idea when AF would show. Made me feel like I had control over something.

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Mar 9th, 2012, 09:55 AM	#17
ChiGirl18 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Tennessee Posts: 133	oohlala - are you charting? how long are your usual cycles? I think we will be on a similar track since we had our mc's around the same time.

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Mar 9th, 2012, 10:42 AM	#18
Benim Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Canada Posts: 580	At least 3 month for me after ectopic.

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Mar 9th, 2012, 13:56 PM	#19
kittenclare On a break (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 17	Ohlala im going to carry on as normal not doing opks but not using protection and just see how we get on. Xx

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Mar 9th, 2012, 23:06 PM	#20
OohLaLa Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 13	Chi - So sorry for your loss. How far along were you? I have never done temps, but used opks since we started TTC. I was only on my second month off the pill when I got pregnant so I didn't really have time to get to know my cycle. My first was only 24 days which seemed way shorter than I remember them before birth control. The second month I ovulated CD17, which makes a little more sense as I think my cycles were around 30 days in length. I just bought some opks to use this month as I am curious as to when (if) I will ovulate. We should compare notes if you are doing the same. Btw, are you still spotting? Seems as though every time I think I am done it starts back up again, though today was my longest spell without anything.

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