When will it be my turn?

StayHopeful · Mar 7th, 2012, 21:04 PM

My hubby's best friend just posted on FB that she's preggo and her due date is a week before mine would have been... That hurt. And if course DH just brushed it off when I said something. I hate this!!!!!

ArmyWife86 · Mar 7th, 2012, 22:41 PM

People may not be sensitive to your situation if they have not been through it. And your hubby may not understand where you are coming from because men are just not tuned in with stuff like that! It's like "duh dude."
Stay strong!

samj732 · Mar 7th, 2012, 23:48 PM

Sorry to hear that. There is a girl I work with who is pregnant, and she is due two weeks before my DD would have been. Sucks! Just have to keep hoping that the next cycle will result in a BFP.

keepthefaithx · Mar 8th, 2012, 06:19 AM

Yea it def sucks..and no one is going to think of ur feelings..everyones so excited bout there own baby they dont realize they ahould tone it down in front of u..i kno how u feel trust me...i hope we all get our bfp soon!!! Xo

Jessica28 · Mar 8th, 2012, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by ArmyWife86

People may not be sensitive to your situation if they have not been through it. And your hubby may not understand where you are coming from because men are just not tuned in with stuff like that! It's like "duh dude."
Stay strong!

It's nice to know it's not only my OH who isn't in tuned with this kind of stuff. Lately whenever I try to bring up the miscarriage with my OH, hes like, I knew it would take you longer to get over this than I would." Well, I'm sorry but I don't know if it's something that I ever will get over. Men doesn't have that sensitive streak that women do.

xxxjessxxx · Mar 8th, 2012, 09:05 AM

It is hard, I've experienced 6 losses myself, and if Im not pregnant I really struggle to stay strong and I break

I also have an OH who doesn't entirely understands and see's me as selfish when Im jealous of other women being pregnant. It's all natural things we feel ladies... your always welcome to join my thread if it helps.. The BFP Before The 'Would of Been' Due date thread

StayHopeful · Mar 8th, 2012, 21:55 PM

Thanks, everyone! It helps just to know that I'm not alone. I know it's not the other women's faults, they have every right to be excited and they're not intentionally rubbing it in my face or anything. But that doesn't make it hurt any less

And I agree, DH definitely doesn't get it. He was upset at first, definitely, but I don't think he really understands why I'm still not okay.

keepthefaithx · Mar 9th, 2012, 13:40 PM

we all have to suffer then u see SNOOKI 15 weeks pregnant..like UGH...

Viperbunny · Mar 15th, 2012, 16:51 PM

When I saw Snookie was pregnant I wanted to die. Glad I wasn't the only one who felt that way.

Roembke88 · Mar 15th, 2012, 18:14 PM

Im so sorry.

A little over a year ago I had lost my baby from an ectopic pregnancy. I was completly crushed.

My husbands best friend came over with his girlfriend about two weeks later to tell us that she was pregnant.

talk about heart ache!... I kept thinking why? It should have been my turn!!!

I understand just how you feel.. I hope its your turn soon!

Mar 7th, 2012, 21:04 PM	#1
StayHopeful Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Texas, USA Posts: 678	When will it be my turn? My hubby's best friend just posted on FB that she's preggo and her due date is a week before mine would have been... That hurt. And if course DH just brushed it off when I said something. I hate this!!!!!

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Mar 7th, 2012, 22:41 PM	#2
ArmyWife86 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: NY Posts: 69	People may not be sensitive to your situation if they have not been through it. And your hubby may not understand where you are coming from because men are just not tuned in with stuff like that! It's like "duh dude." Stay strong!

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Mar 7th, 2012, 23:48 PM	#3
samj732 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Minnesota Posts: 1,436	Sorry to hear that. There is a girl I work with who is pregnant, and she is due two weeks before my DD would have been. Sucks! Just have to keep hoping that the next cycle will result in a BFP.

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Mar 8th, 2012, 06:19 AM	#4
keepthefaithx Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 4,615	Yea it def sucks..and no one is going to think of ur feelings..everyones so excited bout there own baby they dont realize they ahould tone it down in front of u..i kno how u feel trust me...i hope we all get our bfp soon!!! Xo

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Mar 8th, 2012, 09:05 AM	#6
xxxjessxxx Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Essex Posts: 4,257	It is hard, I've experienced 6 losses myself, and if Im not pregnant I really struggle to stay strong and I break I also have an OH who doesn't entirely understands and see's me as selfish when Im jealous of other women being pregnant. It's all natural things we feel ladies... your always welcome to join my thread if it helps.. The BFP Before The 'Would of Been' Due date thread

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Mar 8th, 2012, 21:55 PM	#7
StayHopeful Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Texas, USA Posts: 678	Thanks, everyone! It helps just to know that I'm not alone. I know it's not the other women's faults, they have every right to be excited and they're not intentionally rubbing it in my face or anything. But that doesn't make it hurt any less And I agree, DH definitely doesn't get it. He was upset at first, definitely, but I don't think he really understands why I'm still not okay.

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Mar 9th, 2012, 13:40 PM	#8
keepthefaithx Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 4,615	we all have to suffer then u see SNOOKI 15 weeks pregnant..like UGH...

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Mar 15th, 2012, 16:51 PM	#9
Viperbunny Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 871	When I saw Snookie was pregnant I wanted to die. Glad I wasn't the only one who felt that way.

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Mar 15th, 2012, 18:14 PM	#10
Roembke88 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Indiana Posts: 248	Im so sorry. A little over a year ago I had lost my baby from an ectopic pregnancy. I was completly crushed. My husbands best friend came over with his girlfriend about two weeks later to tell us that she was pregnant. talk about heart ache!... I kept thinking why? It should have been my turn!!! I understand just how you feel.. I hope its your turn soon!

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