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Old Mar 27th, 2012, 15:30 PM   #1
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Terrified but trying again


After my 3rd loss in 7 months the last being feb 4th, got period 14th march i think i ov'd on sunday, wow this is a rambeling pointless post just want to keep track !


 
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Old Mar 27th, 2012, 16:09 PM   #2
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perfect pink...so sorry for your losses.
Pointless rambling threads are what we're all good at here - so long as it helps!
GL on your TTC journey xxx


 
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Old Mar 28th, 2012, 05:48 AM   #3
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I'm so sorry too. I had a m/c last August and a MMC at 11 wks last week. I am terrified but want a baby

Hoping to O and catch the egg without trying this month. x


 
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Old Mar 28th, 2012, 08:14 AM   #4
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My problem isnt getting pregnant its keeping the baby, my first loss i got to 26 weeks, but had to have emergancy section then the other 2 were at 6 weeks and 9 weeks ! ! The last being a mmc so had to have medical management its something i neger ever repeat it was horrific ! Hopefully the next one will be my rainbow, fingers crossed x


 
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Old Mar 28th, 2012, 08:28 AM   #5
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My problem isnt getting pregnant its keeping the baby, my first loss i got to 26 weeks, but had to have emergancy section then the other 2 were at 6 weeks and 9 weeks ! ! The last being a mmc so had to have medical management its something i neger ever repeat it was horrific ! Hopefully the next one will be my rainbow, fingers crossed x
Mine didnt work, everything was removed via forceps. No pain meds and whilst I was wide awake. Very traumatic. Will never go that road again!

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Old Mar 28th, 2012, 08:52 AM   #6
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I really hope you get your rainbow!!


 
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Old Mar 28th, 2012, 18:04 PM   #7
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My problem isnt getting pregnant its keeping the baby, my first loss i got to 26 weeks, but had to have emergancy section then the other 2 were at 6 weeks and 9 weeks ! ! The last being a mmc so had to have medical management its something i neger ever repeat it was horrific ! Hopefully the next one will be my rainbow, fingers crossed x
Mine didnt work, everything was removed via forceps. No pain meds and whilst I was wide awake. Very traumatic. Will never go that road again!

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Thats not good im very troubled by my experiance so cant imagine how you feel, very scared at going to doctor and telling im im pregnant when it does happen as he was rather rude last time n told me it was too soon etc, ihave a very straigtforward attitude this time as they said they wont do testing till i loose again as Oliver wasnt classed as a mc as he died at 2 days old
, if i get my rainbow amazing if i mc again at least they can tell me whats wrong, maybe a bad way to look but atm i see no other way x


 
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Old Mar 30th, 2012, 10:58 AM   #8
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I am so sorry for your losses. You are very strong.

I have had 2 early losses and can't imagine the pain in having a much later loss.


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Old Mar 30th, 2012, 12:14 PM   #9
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Hey hunni,

i know how you feel...

i had my first loss aug 8th of 2011 at 12 weeks. i was completely devestated as you can imagine, i was convinced i was one of those "its just a fluke, it happens unfortunately" people...

so we tried after my dr said its okay in october, i got pg right away, i was over the moon and i just knew that this would be my earth baby, i started spotting nov 8 & lost that baby at 6w3d.

i then was convinced that there was something wrong w me..but my dr at the time didnt do any testing bc its not considered abnormal if you lose 2. he didnt do testing until after 3. which to me is absolutely absurd...

so i found a specialist that was recommended by my inlaws & i found out that i have a blood clotting disorder that makes it pretty much impossible for me to absorb folic acid & b vitamins....i NEED to take baby aspirin everday and specially broken down folic acid and extra b vits.

if i didnt find this out i would have def. miscarried again..

my dr has me on fertility meds now and its my 3rd month, still no bfp, i really hope this month ill get those 2 lines and this will be my earth baby

my dr promised me i will have a baby so im trying to be as positive as i can.

and yea im scared as hell. but i want nothing more and i will do anything to have my rainbow

so yea. it is very hard & scary but when you get ur rainbow it will be the best thing ever!

goodluck to you!


 
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Old Apr 5th, 2012, 06:20 AM   #10
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I have been told I may have the blood clotting too as its linked to my auto immune issues, i even tried to buy low dose aspirin last time but my local store didnt have it, since found it in the chemist and will take it next time regardless! Sucks that I could have saved the last baby by taking it

Never mind hope the next pgs are our keepers!


 
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