Trying before AF?

jaggers · May 3rd, 2012, 16:06 PM

Just wondering of those who did m/c and then get a BFP before AF arrived did everything go ok? Did you have another m/c? Did you think it was related to waiting or not waiting?

baileybubs · May 4th, 2012, 10:31 AM

Hi there,

I haven't got pg again yet but I'm hoping I am as I am still waiting for first AF. I have looked for the same answers and there are loads of ladies with success stories and also some with stories of further mc, but from those I have read the 2nd mc straight after 1st mc isn't usually considered to be a cause....if that makes sense. If your body is ready to get pg again it will be fine and not cause a mc.....and if there is another cause such as low progesterone then it would cause mc whether you wait until after AF or not. Hope that helps a bit, but I felt the same at first, now I'm just excited to see if I am pg again or not!! Xxx

flapjack10 · May 4th, 2012, 10:55 AM

Hello I had a MC last month too and I am trying before AF. My GP told me there was no known medical reason why I shouldn't if we felt up to it. We do! So were ploughing on!

At the end of the day, what will be, will be.

Little J · May 4th, 2012, 11:04 AM

In march i had a MC at 5 weeks and got pregnant straight away before an AF. I then MC in april at the 5 week mark as well. If ur body isnt ready to be pregnant again your body wont let you so there is no medical reason to wait (unless u were far along of course)

For my next BFP my Dr. will have me get blood taken ASAP to see if my progesterone levels are too low which may be causeing my early MC. But she personally thinks it was just 2 unlucky times with bad chromosomes splitting.

I am not waiting this cycle either for another AF. I am just goin to let nature take its course.

I did notice that I ov'd a week later than i normally would have after my 1st MC, and I am yet to ov after my 2nd (but if it follows suit of my last one... i prob wont ov until next week)

Good luck my dear!

flapjack10 · May 4th, 2012, 11:09 AM

I'm so sorry about your losses Little J. We both MC on the same day 17th April

I hope you get your sticky bean.

It all depends on your circumstances, how far along you were and how you feel before you start trying again.

Little J · May 4th, 2012, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by flapjack10

I'm so sorry about your losses Little J. We both MC on the same day 17th April

I hope you get your sticky bean.

It all depends on your circumstances, how far along you were and how you feel before you start trying again.

I just noticed that! sorry for your loss as well

I think we are on the road to our sticky bean, just likes being stubborn (like me

) Im just glad my Dr. is doing somthing and doing some tests to help me relax so i dont feel ignored.

Its true also....once your emotionally ready itll be easier, if ur not...its just gunna cause more stress etc in the future if it doenst happen right away (or if u MC again)

The 2nd MC was still sad and i have a place in my heart for that little one, but i was in a better mind set that it will happen for me and itll be extra special when i do get my sticky bean. They dont call babies "miracles" for nothing

Hope you guys yours soon too hun!

flapjack10 · May 4th, 2012, 11:25 AM

That's such a lovely attitude to have.

I'm sure you will get your sticky one!

The body is strong, not weak! It doesn't want us or the baby to be poorly (especially for MCs like us at 5 weeks) so it decides it's not for the best.

GL to all the girls on this thread.

all round!

baileybubs · May 4th, 2012, 11:29 AM

Here here flapjack!!! Baby dust to all of you ladies and let's see if we can create our own success stories of creating our rainbow babies before first AF after a mc xxxxx

Babee_Bugs · May 4th, 2012, 13:46 PM

I'm just waiting for results back from the lab... And then we will be trying!

We have tried for years and I'm not gonna give up now! I will be pregnant again

Little J · May 4th, 2012, 14:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Babee_Bugs

I'm just waiting for results back from the lab... And then we will be trying!

We have tried for years and I'm not gonna give up now! I will be pregnant again

great attitude!! were all here with you for the the ride!

May 3rd, 2012, 16:06 PM	#1
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baileybubs Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: UK Posts: 5,643	Hi there, I haven't got pg again yet but I'm hoping I am as I am still waiting for first AF. I have looked for the same answers and there are loads of ladies with success stories and also some with stories of further mc, but from those I have read the 2nd mc straight after 1st mc isn't usually considered to be a cause....if that makes sense. If your body is ready to get pg again it will be fine and not cause a mc.....and if there is another cause such as low progesterone then it would cause mc whether you wait until after AF or not. Hope that helps a bit, but I felt the same at first, now I'm just excited to see if I am pg again or not!! Xxx

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May 4th, 2012, 10:55 AM	#3
flapjack10 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: UK Posts: 4,666	Hello I had a MC last month too and I am trying before AF. My GP told me there was no known medical reason why I shouldn't if we felt up to it. We do! So were ploughing on! At the end of the day, what will be, will be.

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Little J Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: WI, USA Posts: 1,509	In march i had a MC at 5 weeks and got pregnant straight away before an AF. I then MC in april at the 5 week mark as well. If ur body isnt ready to be pregnant again your body wont let you so there is no medical reason to wait (unless u were far along of course) For my next BFP my Dr. will have me get blood taken ASAP to see if my progesterone levels are too low which may be causeing my early MC. But she personally thinks it was just 2 unlucky times with bad chromosomes splitting. I am not waiting this cycle either for another AF. I am just goin to let nature take its course. I did notice that I ov'd a week later than i normally would have after my 1st MC, and I am yet to ov after my 2nd (but if it follows suit of my last one... i prob wont ov until next week) Good luck my dear!

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May 4th, 2012, 11:09 AM	#5
flapjack10 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: UK Posts: 4,666	I'm so sorry about your losses Little J. We both MC on the same day 17th April I hope you get your sticky bean. It all depends on your circumstances, how far along you were and how you feel before you start trying again.

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flapjack10 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: UK Posts: 4,666	That's such a lovely attitude to have. I'm sure you will get your sticky one! The body is strong, not weak! It doesn't want us or the baby to be poorly (especially for MCs like us at 5 weeks) so it decides it's not for the best. GL to all the girls on this thread. all round!

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May 4th, 2012, 11:29 AM	#8
baileybubs Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: UK Posts: 5,643	Here here flapjack!!! Baby dust to all of you ladies and let's see if we can create our own success stories of creating our rainbow babies before first AF after a mc xxxxx

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May 4th, 2012, 13:46 PM	#9
Babee_Bugs Mum (Mom) Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Hartlepool, United Kingdom Posts: 8,103	I'm just waiting for results back from the lab... And then we will be trying! We have tried for years and I'm not gonna give up now! I will be pregnant again

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