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Old Nov 8th, 2015, 18:32 PM   21
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Haha I totally understand. I turn 30 in March and I was hoping to go out with friends for the night and drink. So I get it. But if I am pregnant than that's alright too.



 
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Old Nov 8th, 2015, 19:15 PM   22
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Yeah, exactly. I mean I spent my 19th birthday pregnant and on a plane for 7 hours so I guess it can't be any worse than that pregnant tomorrow, or pregnant next April. I will take any of it as the right timing.



 
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Old Nov 8th, 2015, 19:17 PM   23
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That's kinda how I am trying to approach it. While right now isn't perfect timing I can't see preventing it. We struggled so much to get ds so if I got pregnant than I believe that it was meant to be and the right timing.



 
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Old Nov 8th, 2015, 19:42 PM   24
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Exactly! There is no such thing as the right time or being ready, first or 10th kid haha



 
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Old Nov 9th, 2015, 03:14 AM   25
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I wish I could relax more but even when I say I'm ntnp I'm not because in my head in analysing every little thing, doesn't help that I'm also a poas addict!

Jasmine it's funny because I'm secretly hoping for bfp in December so they can both have birthdays in September. Mine is also September so we'd be like the 3 musketeers lol. I think it's because the edd from my mmc was also September, it just seemed so perfect to me. But I'll take any month it happens lol, I just want that bfp!

I think a massive driving force for me now is my little one keeps asking for a sister and says he wants me to get a baby in my tummy, he adored playing with other children and I know he'd be am awesome big brother.



 
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Old Nov 9th, 2015, 04:46 AM   26
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Aww that is so sweet Taz. I love watching ds interact with other kids. I'm excited for him to be a big brother.

If I'm honest I want a February-June birthday. I work in the schools and would find that range the easiest to take leave and capitalize on my summer. It would be nice to go back when baby was 4 months instead of 6-8 weeks. That's also why I set May as our intervention month.

But if we end up ltttc #2 like you I have no doubts I won't care.



 
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Old Nov 9th, 2015, 08:19 AM   27
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I just don't want them to have to have joint broth day parties and stuff because I know that's what would happen. I feel like kids and people in general should feel special and not have to share their birthdays. I mean when you're an adult, you have a friend that has a birthday near yours okay let's celebrate together but when you're a kid, it's not like that haha.
And I always ask Lucas is mommy should have a baby in her tummy, he always goes yes!! I say do you want a baby brother or a baby sister? He always says baby sister!!! Haha.
Lucas is September, so is my dad, mines in February, and Mikes is in June so so April would be nice but that's waiting all the way until July and not getting baby until 2017 so no thanks haha



 
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Old Nov 9th, 2015, 09:22 AM   28
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Yea, my husband and his brother have 8 days between their birthdays and they were always together. He is pretty adamant that he doesn't want that either. But on the other hand he is so desperate for a baby he doesn't care right now would lead to a close due date. We did talk this morning and we are going to try to be careful to avoid next cycle as it would be August and it is literally the worst month for us to have a baby. But we are both if it happens it happens.

I think if we did have two July babies I would be alright with that. I like the fact DS's birthday is in the summer when I can plan and go all out. Plus the weather is always nice. I told DH I would make a point to separate their birthdays. I can understand how frustrating it would be to never have your own day.



 
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I wouldn't mind a summer baby to be fair, would be nice to be able to get on walks and all the cute little summer outfits lol.

Finally got my positive opk today so hoping we've done enough for our bfp this cycle!



 
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Fingers crossed Taz!!

And yeah, Lucas' birthday isn't always so nice. It poured his last 2 birthdays. Plus started next year his birthday will be pretty well hand in hand with back to school time, which will kinda suck too for him haha. So id rather just not have it happen again. But like you guys keep saying, if it happens, it happens.



 
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